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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Soaps1



You may not see it but don't forget bhanu does not know what actually happened and him going and putting all the blame on mohan will only mess it further ... you know mohan's truth so you don't see that but bhanu does not so he was wrong in the way he confronted mohan

It doesn't matter if Bhanu doesn't know why Mohan is doing what he is doing. Mohan is still wrong. This is what I where I strongly disagree. I am not a Mohan hater. I love the character. i don't think he's evil. I think he's real. I think he has faults. I think many of his faults need to be worked on so he can be a better person, while a lot of the things that are Mohan shouldn't change.

So what if Bhanu doesn't know the situation. it doesn't change the fact that Mohan was wrong, and he is not behaving with Kastur as he should.
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Posted: 13 years ago
There was nothing wrong in him telling his son t treat his wife well (though look who was talking 🤣) but what was wrong was his approach and the way in which he did it, it will make any one in mohan's place angry even if this was a normal marriage and circumstances were different. No son ever likes his father telling him all this that too two days after their wedding ... right or wrong this is a fact no one likes to be told this in the way bhanu told mohan and i am not saying he did not do it as a father or should not have told him to treat his wife well but his approach i felt was wrong
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Posted: 13 years ago
Mohan is wrong ye tou we already agreed yesterday but mohan being wrong does not make everyone else right is all i am saying šŸ˜† but its ok if we disagree on this ... if we wont disagree EDT won't move
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Ok is just me or Mohan ego was bruised cause Kastur said i don't want to talk to you either and he seemed surprise she said that šŸ˜†



Treat them mean ... keep them keen may be kastur read it on his tee 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
@ Rani, he jumped a little did'nt he, like "how dare she" 🤣
@Lizzy ben so glad she wasnt the type to sob and cry cause mohan said that pheww
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Posted: 13 years ago
Rani I have a feeling this is what he'll like most about her later...that she DOES fight back if she doesn't like how she's being treated. I think Mohan likes a bit of a challenge šŸ˜†
I personally feel that had Bhanu and Jitu not entered the picture, MohUr would have found a way on their own. What the two men have to offer are pearls of wisdom, but the timing was pretty awful. For which I can't blame them: they're parents...they'll do the first thing that comes to their mind concerning their kids, but had it not happened and had Mohan NOT been told off the way he was, MohUr would have definitely worked out something between themselves.
Khair, what's done is done...and look at how much traffic today's epi's provided the EDT! šŸ˜†
Edited by Elizabeth Darcy - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
And u know when mohan said theek hey mey lainey nahi aoun ga ... he was kinda like emo black mailing her ... key nahi baat karni tou fine won't come pick u up 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
I too laughed at the irony of Bhanu advising on marital matters. šŸ˜†

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Likarsh if kastur had actually confided in someone herself i don't think Mohan would have ever found out ... the problem arose when it happened indirectly ... if kastur had confided in her mother or baa or even her father neither bhanu nor mohan would have found out that she complained because then she would be confiding in them .


BTW- if Kastur had confided in the women, do you really think they wouldn't have been worried about the situation and taken it to the men in the house?

If she confided in Sonal... Mohan would be going DOWN. That much is definite, no ifs, ands or buts about it. Perhaps Baa and Shraddha would be less proactive, but Sonal...

Any well meaning mother would be worried with what Kastur would tell them, and seriously start to harbour doubts. And if it's a family that cares more for their daughter than society they would seriously start to talk to her and make her see reason and light, and try their best to know what the situation is. And if the situation seems unmanagable, they would try to get their daughter out of the situation.

1) He comes and asks (not orders, but asks) for Jewellery because he needs five lakhs of money.
2) It still hasn't been returned, and he says not to bring his name into it.
3) He hasn't consummated the marriage.
4) She found a wine bottle while he's out late at night for what he says is work. But he says it's a gift from his friend.
5) He finds out that she gave the box to Saroj and yells at her and uses very harsh words, even calls the marriage 'mussebat.' (Any outsider hearing the words he used would immediately be suspicious on why he married.)
6) He calls the house to ask Pradeep about the business and says he needs the loan as soon as possible, doesn't even ask for his wife or about his wife, and when the phone is given to her, he cuts the call--despite her leaving him an apology letter.
7) Kastur is sad about all of this.

All of this within two days.

Now Kastur still believes the best of Mohan, but tell me if she confides all of this to someone, what are they going to think? What are they going to do? Are they going sit back and watch idly? Even if Kastur has full faith in him, believes him, and is not entertaining any negative possibilities. Especially since Kastur has full faith in him, believes him, and is not entertaining any negative possibilities.


Edited by likarsh - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
They were both acting like kids 🤣 its was like "fine dont come" "fine i wont" "fine" kind of argument šŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
likarsh i was talking about the jewellery thing only not the rest of it since that is what kastur is upset about, she is not upset about suhag raat or wine bottle or anything else right now ... i dont think any sensible wife goes and confides about everything ... you had raised a question about mohan expecting her not to confide in anyone ... well don't most people expect this from their partners? So if he does there in nothing wrong in it, only problem and difference here is that mohan is wrong whether its due to circumstances or mess he is in, he is wrong .. if their circumstances were normal we won't even be discussing this kastur confiding or not confiding thing ... i don't see anything wrong if mohan expects her to keep any secrets

Also when mohan asked her for jewellery he did not lie to her ... he clearly told her he cant tell her the truth and does not want to lie either ... after that it was upto kastur what she chose to do and once she agreed to it. mohan is not wrong in expecting her to keep it a secret in my opinion (but yea he is wrong otherwise no denying that)

Also when we confide in someone we do it under certain understanding i don't think if kastur has confided in anyone she would let them talk to her in laws about it no matter what, this is why i said mohan won't find out yes her parents would be worried but she won't let them talk to her in laws ... just the way she took that kasam from her mom about jewellery thing

And honestly speaking in real life most couples dont make out on first night anyways specially in arranged marriages so i dont think thats too big an issue as of now .. in future yea it will be šŸ˜† specially when kastur will come out of her dreamland
Edited by Soaps1 - 13 years ago

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