Adieu girls.... from myself and shifu....

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Both myself and Shifu have been having a few difficulties off late and we would like your sincere opinions on the same...
Reading some replies made by members off late, both myself and Shifu have got shocked no doubt and soooo hurt too😭...
we saw many examples off late.. but didnt want to dig too much... just a few excerpts from the VM/RT/Siya problems offlate... and then now when a common note that was put up just as a precautionary reminder in all the Fan threads (RT/VIK/MUGS) since the focus of all fan threads does tend to move to chatting once in a while... 😕 i.e. was just a normal note in ALL FAN THREADS.. this is the kind of replies we have been receiving....
I am sure the mods would have seen this... dont you think that if we would have seen this, they would have too... but then we know what happens here...
Why no chatting i want the answer..in other fan threads chatting goes on..why dont you del there..
i know..u had now...start this....but u should applied this to other fan tgread also..
better see page 47 of rt fan thread..there is a hi.i know..u go and del there.also..
we will appreciate her andwe dont want any more topics to appreciate her....on this forum except this one..plzz for god sake se..leave this thread......
here we had not done cso much chatting only quoting is here..i think first u go in rt , viky fan tgraed u will get to know wat is the meaning of chatting..
i am not attacking any members of this forum..
i just hate this forum for the impartially the mod do everytime..if u really want to del something on this forum..go and del the rubbhish comments on actors on thei forum..its a abetter job of mod i think..
i am warning...if this post will delete the i will leave this forum..forever cozz i just hate this forum just becoz of this impartiality..i just want to del everytopic of chatting ...on ths whole forum.plz do ot write now..
one thing more..there was no mc in dv since two months so her fans want to enjoy ..so they chat in the thread sometime..not everytime...this is not the way that you del all the posts....
give me the answer???????????????????????????????
if they do angain something like this then there is IF fan thread section we would go there...and stop visiting here
i am upset tahtw at she has done... and yes i am thinking of leaving this forum...forevr..but will come for mugs thread jab tak thread ahi
we only discussed mugdha
this is partiality😭😭
really i dont at any point of time to show off about this, but moderating DV section takes about 3 hours minimum everyday...
when i read replies to a few posts i make where people say "wow nice to see lashy reply instead of just mod notes" i feel saddened thinking that if only all my IF time wasnt taken away in moderating...
there are many things in developing DV section that happen apart from just checking posts and resolving arguments... merging common threads, checking that chatting doesnt go on, ensuring updates are posted on time, taking care of arguments, helping out the many members who pm asking for help in various things, organizing contests etc... all of this...
hence i have always stated and re-instate the same thing... that a few comments or arguments might have been missed by us... also without being entirely wrong, it could be that the outcome of an argument could have worked for/against one side's favour... but its just human nature/expression and sometimes things swing to one side and sometimes to the other....but it doesnt mean that both of us favour one side only.... besides, unfortunately for the past 3 odd months only the two of us have been here to handle the section. For putting forth anyone else for promotion, since the changes to IF, promotion lists havent been moving at all.😕 What is humanly possible in the time we have, we try and do and i wouldnt mind being blamed for missing out on a thing or two. I even wholeheartedly thank the numerous members who sometimes pm us to point out missing links to updates and missed out arguments.
But blaming us of turning a blind eye to attend to things that only suit us... blaming us of being partial... is actually pointing fingers at our suitability as a development team member at all... 😭
Neither me not Shifu are special fans of RT, Vikrant, Mugs or Siya... I am confident that all members who know us closely would vouch for that... yet time and again members reply that the moderators here are partial...
When some problems with respect to RT have been taken care of immediately 😕 it could probably be because some members immediately pmed us to show us the problem and one of us might have checked it and attended to it... Definitely not because we both are so enamoured with RT that we would only strive to solve problematic posts relating to RT and avoid problems occuring with VIK/mugs posts... [Girls who know me from the PRC days would know what a big fan i am of mugs too as in I like their jodi... there has never been a single post where i have done anything less than appreciate Vikrant's acting... 😕 in fact acting-wise i am possibly a bigger fan of VM than RT ]
Girls... 😭Shifu also has her school, exams and other things to take care of... i also have my personal things to tend to at home everyday and plus a special development in my life recently... so we have to make time for IF and generally cant afford to stay away from IF for more than a certain time since we are bound to check if the section is functioning properly....
If after everything we do, (cos we dont seem to be appreciated, no pats on the backs, no remuneration, no nothing... and a lot of brickbats...) wouldnt you call this a very thankless job?
What is the point of continuing when the very friends/members we do all this for are not happy with us? We both then dont see any reason behind continuing as moderators... both of us would like to step down from the responsibilities and hand over to someone else who others would possibly be happier with...
if others are confident of being able to do the job better... we would be more than happy for you to pm us your names and we shall put it forth in the mod section and hope the promotions would not take too long to happen.
this is sooooooooooooooooooooo hurting girls.... incredibly.... and the girls who put this up are people i know... thats what really upset me even more... and girls this is not the first time ... i.e. we are not stepping out at the first challenge.... to tell you frankly we have received extremely abusive pms even from girls who were our own friends in the past just for missing out on simple things like so much as editing a rude comment made by some other member on a particular actor...
all this is after facing a lot of stuff for a very long time that we both kind of decided that what happened after yesterday was possibly the last straw....
so we both dont know what else to say apart from adieu.... ciao... girls... it was lovely knowing most of you... 🤗🤗🤗
we both shall try and only retain the happy memories from here.... 🤗🤗🤗
Edited by lashy - 17 years ago

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Posted: 17 years ago
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😭😭😭...oh goddd lashy....dont feel so bad about this...we know u from the PRC days...how can anyone send PM's like this....im feeling so sorry for both of u...u dont need any certificate from anyone u and shifu are the best mods we have...🤗..plzzz dont go if u go then i'll go also😭...and please all the members of DV forum please try to understand mods position..if u dont like anyones comment then try to refrain from that topic..plzzz dont send these types of PM's to our mods...show some respect to THEM
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I simply agree with Lashy di, and thank you di for posting this.

Come on guys, please understand that we are HUMANS, and like all humans we all have hearts. And when this heart is hurt, it pains and that is what it is doing, paining. Both mine and Lashy di's heart is paining, do we need to say why?
When I came to DV forum, I thought of it as the craziest and most funnest forum, and now I ask myself this question, EACH and every day "Was I dreaming? Was I feeling alright when I said that?" These are the questions that I think of now. We all know how active DV is, and it has reached 500 + pages in 8 months, because of all of you guys, so now tell us how many topics are being made EACH and every single day if the total page # is 500 +? Is more than 20. And coming to DV forum and checking each and every 20 topics made that day with 12 + replies is NOT a joke.
By doing this, me and Lashy di hardly get a chance to visit other forums, or even the Mod's section. It's hard work. And if you think, you can do that, check each and every reply and yet be NON-PARTIAL, than sure, PM us, and we will put your name forward.
You know, being in the Dev Team is NOT a joke. We have responsibilites. We are given rules and we have to stay within the rules and encourage other members to do the same but if YOU members don't cooperate, than how can we??
Aap sab blame us that we are not handling the section properly, but we are NOT machines, we are humans, we are slow and we have to take action staying within our limits.
I don't know if DV forum is going through a bad phase or what but let me tell you, me and Lashy di are NOT partial. We have personal life, problems and ontop of that I-F and moderating.
About the notes in the fan threads. If a note is left in one fan thread, it's for the better of that fan thread and not to put stops to member's views/ideas. We consider everyone to be equal and trust me, if we do any injustice to you, than please feel free to complain. Tell us where we are going wrong, we'd love to hear it rather than saying bad about us or saying you are leaving etc.
Me and Lashy di both have a life, homes and families and please understand that part to. Last few months have been a disaster, I know that. With all the fighting that's been going on, but tell me one thing.."Who is responsible?" Who is responsible? You guys fight, that is fine, but than you tend to be dependant on us to clean up..."Is that FAIR?", is that fair? And plus when the RT v/s VM and the Sia war was going on, I was alone...Did anyone of you even bother to ask if you all could help??? Did anyone even bother? Lashy di was on vacation, aap sab toh samajdhar ho, you should understand...
And now the Fan thread mamala, I am not blaming no one or either saying nothing. And last but not the least, "Before you blame someone else, look at what you have done wrong, answer mil jayega" please, follow that line before blaming someone else.
It's either a bye-bye or you all promise us not to fight again.
~Shif
Edited by *Shifali* - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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OOh mAan.. tell it is ol a BIG lie..!
lashy di and shifu di🤗 ive olways been loving u..
and believe me.. we ol hhave loved u olwayss
and rember.. YOU ARE THE BESHT MOD EVER FOR DV FORUM.. and ON IF too.. atleast for me🤗🤗 and if neyone wonts to appose.. plzz fell free.. buh it is my view!!
i noe it takes.. loads of tym arranging suc a krazzie forum.. and puting dwn notes...
me as a meme.. at times am like... oh man so much to look at!!
so i can very well know wot u'll be facing..
buh beleve me.. a few ppl.. comng and putting down notes and sying that.. tz is crap... plzz ignore ol thiss... believe me.. IGNORE is the key!
i mean u've been trying yur besht moderating it and it has worked out perfectlie.... seriozzliiee!🤗🤗
and if these ppl have a pro wid them... ask them to moderate this forum for a week and they'll understand..!!
pllzz..plzz..lzz.!!
its mah humble request.. DNT feel bad and move on as u'were... plzz.!!
for god sake..phlezziee.!!
pphlezziee.!
Dnt feel bad!🤗
and i'm olways there wid u.. and fully on ur side... and wil olways be.!!
🤗
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Posted: 17 years ago
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totally agree with u ...mods job is not at all a joke..i cant do this..im very strict in my professional life if i spend 5 hours in my desk that means that in that fives hours im completely a different person and u guys have lots of patience ...but still u are doing it with lot of grace...guys first look at yourself then blame the other and STOP abusing mods for everything..if u people are so good then why dont u guys take up as a mod...if u cant then PLEASE RESPECT MODS
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonur

😭😭😭...oh goddd lashy....dont feel so bad about this...we know u from the PRC days...how can anyone send PM's like this....im feeling so sorry for both of u...u dont need any certificate from anyone u and shifu are the best mods we have...🤗..plzzz dont go if u go then i'll go also😭...and please all the members of DV forum please try to understand mods position..if u dont like anyones comment then try to refrain from that topic..plzzz dont send these types of PM's to our mods...show some respect to THEM
totally agree with u ...mods job is not at all a joke..i cant do this..im very strict in my professional life if i spend 5 hours in my desk that means that in that fives hours im completely a different person and u guys have lots of patience ...but still u are doing it with lot of grace...guys first look at yourself then blame the other and STOP abusing mods for everything..if u people are so good then why dont u guys take up as a mod...if u cant then PLEASE RESPECT MODS

Sonu, we are very disheartned, and now we are NOT the best Mods, No, you are not going. You are staying...Sonu, we are tired of hearing all the bashing that has been going on, and today, things have gone a little tooo far, bashing us, complaints we can here, but straightly bashing us on an open forum??
You understand how it feels 3 hours minimum on a forum like DV trying to clean it up, it is hard. and thats what I am saying, if they can do it, if they can be non-partial and be good mods, than sure, we will be happy about promoting you.

Originally posted by: vamakshi

OOh mAan.. tell it is ol a BIG lie..!
lashy di and shifu di🤗 ive olways been loving u..
and believe me.. we ol hhave loved u olwayss
and rember.. YOU ARE THE BESHT MOD EVER FOR DV FORUM.. and ON IF too.. atleast for me🤗🤗 and if neyone wonts to appose.. plzz fell free.. buh it is my view!!
i noe it takes.. loads of tym arranging suc a krazzie forum.. and puting dwn notes...
me as a meme.. at times am like... oh man so much to look at!!
so i can very well know wot u'll be facing..
buh beleve me.. a few ppl.. comng and putting down notes and sying that.. tz is crap... plzz ignore ol thiss... believe me.. IGNORE is the key!
i mean u've been trying yur besht moderating it and it has worked out perfectlie.... seriozzliiee!🤗🤗
and if these ppl have a pro wid them... ask them to moderate this forum for a week and they'll understand..!!
pllzz..plzz..lzz.!!
its mah humble request.. DNT feel bad and move on as u'were... plzz.!!
for god sake..phlezziee.!!
pphlezziee.!
Dnt feel bad!🤗
and i'm olways there wid u.. and fully on ur side... and wil olways be.!!
🤗

No Vamakshi, its not about ignoring now. Me and Lashy di have been marked with a very ugly title, and we don't want to carry it around. And ignoring is a good key, and that's what I suggest all of you to do, ignore any bashings, don't comment on them and make them into bigger fights but REPORT them.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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OMG........
I won't say anything....
i will just say..
that u r d best mods....we had ever got..😛 since PRC...forum....
🤗
muahh to u...
shifu n lashy di.....😳
🤗
Plz don't b dishearten......😕😭😭
we all Love u a lot..🤗
Edited by Rash2cool - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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omg plzzzzzzzz lashy n shifali dont say bye bye, i cant belive u ppl r saying this 😭....u both r lovly Mods ....u both do a fabulous job here👍🏼 i can guess how tough it would be to handle this forum 🤔
my be some may have prob with u or may be expecting more from u😕 but i dont want u ppl to step down .....i can undestand how bad u ppl may feel abt those comments and pms but plz dont talk abt leaving this forum....

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Posted: 17 years ago
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OMG!! This Is Tooo Much How Anyone Can Say Like This To Such Fantastic Mods Of IF I Just Don't Wana Take The Name Of Person...But Plzzzzzzzzz Guys Understand Our Mods Yaar Its Not A Joke To Be A Mod Seriously Think Their Situation Keeping Youselves On Their Positions
And Shifu n Lash Di Don't Go Plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Otherwise This Forum Will Be MESS n Nothing Without You U Become Hitler We Don't Mind But Plzzzzzzzzz Don't Leave😭😭😭
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Shrads, Shifu... if u both r going n leaving this forum... then i will also leave this forum..
i know how r u feeling both... n Shifu, mujhe ye bhi pata hai ki tumne kiss tarah se forum ko sambhala tha jab Shrads yaha pe nahi thi... hats off to u dear...
n for me as a mod u both r doing excellent job yaar...no doubt at all..
maine to kabhi bhi aapko koi partiallity karte nahi dekha!!!.. n i aslo know that because of this moderating work u girls never enjoy the funniest moments on the forum.. u both r soo lovely dear.. pls dont say anything like this..

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