i do not think that this issue can be termed as "character assasianation" as such
these stories,abut Parvatis house bruning down,Parvati asking for one-are stories that exist-all of this will lead to Raavan making the Bhavan and then asking for it from Parvati
its a sequence of events that take time to understand,but lead to something big.
Even when they showed Parvati feeling sad-it eventually lead to her creating Ganesha-her own son in every right,Gauri Putra Ganesha-you get what i mean?
although the Cvs do use relevant stories in the show,somehow Parvati always seems to be shown as "human" in contrast to Mahadev being pretty much aloof from everything.
Maybe thats the intention,to show the contrast between Mahadev and Parvati.Its hard to digest,but there are not one but many stories that do show Parvati loosing her temper,asking for things from Mahadev,or expecting things from him.I have read some stories that make Parvati look like a crazy over possessive wife-its all about how you interpret her.The Cvs are interpreting her in thier way...
Reg Parvati throwing a fit over Shani dev looking at her "model house".I watched the episode again,and realized that the Model House wasnt exactly a model house,it was a house she made,she projected and a house which she through her divine powers(apprently in DKDM she can use them this way too) would make into reality.Just like how through a mere model of Ganesha and AS she could make both of them into reality,like wise by creating a house of her desire she could make it become reality
so if Shanidev looked at it,and this house got destroyed it would also mean that her vision of the house she wanted to make got destroyed,hence she couldnt make it by herself
and then the responsiblity will be given to Raavan.
I know its wakda thinking🤣...but the Cvs are trying to tie stories together to make a story...more often than needed the individual happenings do not make sense till we see the entire sequence
my POV
with reg the show-every mythological is its own interpretation,the truth is something God knows,DKDM is deep in spirituality and has a good heart(its brain...errr...forget it😆) and it is an enjoyable show...