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sia221

@sia221

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Agree with u...!! esp in India and all the more when u live in a joint family...!!

Its is not abt looking beautiful...doing Shringar for herself.. but the fact that Mahadev doesn't notice it..it just doesn't matter to him whether she does it or no.. that is making Parvati unhappy...!!

Hence.. her stubborness (of not tying her hair unless Mahadev comes up to her..) is also understood.. she needs to feel the love that Mahadev has for her.. !!

Very nice post...!! 😊

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Shakti_Shiva

@Shakti_Shiva

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sia221

Hence.. her stubborness (of not tying her hair unless Mahadev comes up to her..) is also understood.. she needs to feel the love that Mahadev has for her.. !!

Why would I care? If I am doing shringar for my husband and he doesn't even notice .. does it really matter? Shiva himself told Ganesha at one time, your mother is Soundarya Moorthy. She is the enchantress that captivates me. So obviously he notices these things. If he didn't say anything after Ganesha saying it out loud and noticing the comb in her hand, what is she to think. Shiva has never given importance to the external beauty. She knows it. But it is not about being Mahadev. It is about becoming a husband. You can be anything outside the walls of my house. But here and now, I am your wife and you are my husband. I am mad, now come and pacify me.I pacified you they way you liked by doing penance. Now it is your turn. That stubborn streak is a right of a wife.

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sia221

@sia221

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Shakti_Shiva

Why would I care? If I am doing shringar for my husband and he doesn't even notice .. does it really matter? Shiva himself told Ganesha at one time, your mother is Soundarya Moorthy. She is the enchantress that captivates me. So obviously he notices these things. If he didn't say anything after Ganesha saying it out loud and noticing the comb in her hand, what is she to think. Shiva has never given importance to the external beauty. She knows it. But it is not about being Mahadev. It is about becoming a husband. You can be anything outside the walls of my house. But here and now, I am your wife and you are my husband. I am mad, now come and pacify me.I pacified you they way you liked by doing penance. Now it is your turn. That stubborn streak is a right of a wife.

Exactly... Anjani...its not like she doesn't know that Mahadev (her husband) doesn't love her at all.. but it becomes mandatory to express those feelings sometimes..😊and that is what Parvati wants right now...!!

I liked what u have written in BOLD...

As a husband...If u think its stubbornness... so be it !!😆😆

(I used the word stubborn coz the new tagline in the show today said that.. whether Mahadev will bow down to Parvati's stubbornness or not..?? ) which actually bothered me..

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Arijit

@Arijit007

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Minu, thank you for posting the link for the soundarya lahari. It's so beutifull.

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Paramita Ray

@DeewaniRimi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Thanks Anjani for making this post and thanks Minaxi for posting the link of Saundarya Lahari.😊

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rajshrip

@rajshrip

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

lovely post and agree with what you said.

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preetal

@preetal

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Wow...well expressed...

totally agree with you and i dont have to think of college fees at this stage to agree with you...so my consent doesnt have much to do with my age...

I totally agree with all you've stated...

shiv/paravati jodi feels very real and as much as a lady who would love to have a passionate partner as passionate as shiv it cannot be denied the same DKDM brings to light the price one has to pay for been in love with a mahadev...here it comes more for sati who was a manushya avtar and it still extends to parvati...

all in all am just loving it...i started watching with the maha episode on sunday of the competion and that too just landed on the channel by chance...am glad that happen and at times i feel why did it happen sooo late...well thanks to the net.,,,,,,,i can catch up...

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shruti

@-Nymphadora-

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+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#18

At Anjani-beautiful thread and welcome to our forum🤗

this track is beautiful in its own way-although i know some people who have found this track crazy and hideous-this track actually has a very deep meaning,something that reflects in the marriage of everyone

Everyone wants a loving,caring husband like Mahadev who respects his wife,but no one realizes the sacrifice Parvati has to make to not only to make Shiva hers,but also to hold thier married life together.

She may be Adi Shakti,but as a wife,she has a hard life.Mahadev goes into Samadhi and doesnt come out for years,and she has to make up for his absense,handle thier family on thier own.She is a princess but she gave up everything to live a life like his.and the only reason she does this without complaining is beacuse she wants Mahadevs love.She does this for them and not herself.

She only wants Mahadev to be a little more attentive towards her-look at her,just praise her a bit,give her a hug-its the least she deserves for what all she has done for him.and if she is stubborn about that she has all the right to be.

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Rayan

@MrToolConfuser

Stunner

Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Sakthi shiva, thanks for posting and describing the deepest meaning of this on going track. Honestly, i thought maybe this new track will look quite odd.
But, never knew there could be something great like this. As the way you described it, hat's off to you.
Thanks for coming and joining here, belive me you'll never be bothered for this decision. We would love to welcome you here... Once again Thanks😊

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sia221

@sia221

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

@ Minaxi...and Shruti..

Both of u have written so well..agree with everything u ppl have said..
I sincerely hope it is this very feeling..that will be conveyed by the makers..and nothing else..
Its high time..or to say just once..Mahadev acknowledging Parvati efforts needs to be shown.
Frankly.. the tag line.. naming this as Parvati's stubborn ness really made me upset..

Anyways..will have to wait and watch..and I m glad most of them are taking this track positively.. at least here.. 😆 😊

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