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Hey everyone!!
Let me start of his post by saying I really shouldn't be doing this, and instead by studying for my exam, but honestly after today's episode, I really couldn't help myself. It was an average episode for me I guess. Won't lie although im super duper excited for ManVeer's day out, the whole bidding idea for me made it seem like the Rajkumaris were like objects instead of actual human beings đ Anyways, who cares I guess, since we are going to get a whole day of ManVeer!! đ (watch Akash come and ruin it , hopefully though he comes a little later.) Okay enough, going to the actual reason for this post which concerns out dearest Jainandini.
Today when I saw the scene with Jainandini sitting with Jagat, the only thought that came in my head was "Some people will always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence." I've been thinking for a while about this a lot because fortunately or unfortunately for me, I'm one of those people for whom everything must fit together like a puzzle piece and I like to believe that the world is like a balance. So when I think of this girl's life, the girl who's always second to her older sister, despite it being a show, I needed in my head to believe that it's not her bad luck and fate didn't just decide to favour Manyata. There's a reason, an explanation for everything and everything that happens does happen for the best.
The first thing I realized is why we actually feel so sorry for her. Everyone, myself included, is always pointing out how bad, sad and horrible we feel for this girl. But why do we? I mean yes, she's not the Yuvraani, but come on, she's still a Princess. And how many Princesses do you actually know? For sure she's more famous and popular than 99% of the world. The answer to my own question then is that it's not because of J's life that we feel sorry for her, but more because of the hell she's created for herself by herself inside her head. I realized this when I made the comparison between J and Unnati. Both of them are Princesses, yes, and both of them have an older sibling who is the Yuvraaj/Yuvraani, obviously the ones with more power. Yet, has anyone ever thought of Unnati as a spare tire? Like the second to Udayveer? No, we haven't. Instead her image is that of a cute loving younger sister with a pure heart! đ What I learned from this is that Jainandini is the one who had made herself the spare, the second. It reminds me of one of those things a lot of us girls do. Going around asking every single friend you have: Is this pimple too big? Is it too visible? Does it stand out too much? Well, no duhh it does, now since you've been pointing at it and sulking about it for the whole day. It even looks 10 times magnified now than its actual size. And that my friends is what Jainandini's done.
Ever since Manyata returned, she has only concentrated on the negative sides. She takes it to the extent that she's now completely blind to everything except what her mind wants to believe. Sitting at the table, she can't see that yes Udayveer loves Manyata, but has he till date recieved even a tenth of that love back? Yes, Manyata has UV's love but does she even want it? Forget that even, if she only looked beside her she would see she already has someone who is crazy in love with her. Jagat. đ Another important thing she's missing out on is that there's a difference between powerful individuals and great people. Yes, Manyata may always be more powerful then you, have more say but that doesn't mean your life's over. If she's more powerful than you be the better person. You be the nicer sister. You be the more caring individual. Why make yourself second?
In the end all I want to do is to write this girl a letter with the following (which by the way you could've read earlier and saved your time since it pretty much sums everything up).
Dear Jainandini,
Learn to make the most of what life gives you. Trust me, it's more than enough.
Love, xxDayDreamerxx
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
CID
