Are relationships this fragile?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Today's episode got me thinking, what kind of a relationship Akash and Moniya had? ...Akash always said that he loves Moniya...but what kind of a love is that which stops one from trusting the person he loves, that makes him hate the person whom he loves just because she tried to help him, that makes him angry with her just because she is trying to live upto the expectations of her family?...this cannot be love, how can one love a person but fails to trust that person? ...As Manyata said today quoting UV, that change is good...yes it is good , when the change is for the better...Manyata might have changed from that unruly, wild, spitfire to a calmer, civil and well behaved person, but isnt that good? Did Akash wanted her to be an uncivilized person, spitting out cuss words, with out any manners? If he truely loved her , he should have been proud of her..that its for him that she is taking up all the pain to change herself...instead of that he kept having doubts about her, for getting closer to UV, kept blaming her for changing...Manyata tried to help him as she could not see him in pain, but instead he accused her of hurting his humility...err I guess its not his humility that she hurt but his ego...may be he had the right to be angry with Manyata, as he wanted to get a job on his own accord, and not take help from anyone else...but shouting at her and then breaking his relationship with her was really harsh...we might get angry with the person we love when we dont approve of something that he/she has done but breaking up, ending a relationship in which we had so much faith in, doesnt that make us question was this relationship really worth it?...his relationship with Manyata was indeed fragile...as UV said this was bound to happen, as their relationship was not strong enough.
Can I say , I am proud of Manyata today, the way she handeled everything?⭐️...Akash accused her and left her...she could have easily called off the deal with DS, but instead she wanted to continue her lessons, yeah the break up did affect her, which made her walk on the parapet, but as she said to UV she still believes in the relationship she had with Akash, and so she must become a princess.She showed that she is a true Rajputani, her never gonna backdown attitude proves it.
Now coming to Komal and DS's conversation, it was really powerful...she made it clear to Komal that she will never let anything affect the throne of Devgarh⭐️...but she did another thing which probably will make Komal run off to her dear daughter Manyata and spill the beans about DS and UV's conversation, which will make Manyata run away to the chawl I guess...Komal probably wants to be in the good books of her daughter and does not want to be the "part of the conspiracy" as DS said...was it a blunder committed by DS? might be and might be not...Manyata would have got to know about the conspiracy one day or the other, revealing it earlier than expected will probably help in the long run...when she will see Akash has left her for good she will probably understand the words that UV said to her today "Akash and hers relationship were meant to be broken as it was weak".
UV and Manyata are alike when one speaks of being stubborn...Manyata wants to continue her lessons for becoming a princess as she believes in the strength of the relationship she has with Akash and UV on the other hand is hell bent on making Manyata forget Akash and make her his...time will say who wins..whether UV can make Manyata believe that he is the one for her or whether Manyata can join the cracks that have developed in her relationship with Akash.😛
The story has just begun it seems. 😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I so agree with you, here in the forum lot of people think that today they showed Uday-DS as negative and Mon-Aka as the troubled pair, but I fell today's epiosde has laid the first foundation of Manveer, where they hav proved that Moniya-akash dont have trust in each other, Moniya might love him till the very end, but when she becomes a princess she would understand the worth of trust in a relationship which lacks here and might see this relationship in a different angle,and might turn towards Uday 😊.. NO harm in hoping for the best
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chitra_rao

I so agree with you, here in the forum lot of people think that today they showed Uday-DS as negative and Mon-Aka as the troubled pair, but I fell today's epiosde has laid the first foundation of Manveer, where they hav proved that Moniya-akash dont have trust in each other, Moniya might love him till the very end, but when she becomes a princess she would understand the worth of trust in a relationship which lacks here and might see this relationship in a different angle,and might turn towards Uday 😊.. NO harm in hoping for the best

Yeah I know everyone is having negative feeling about what they showed today in today's epi..but I think its the first time that something positive has been shown as per ManVeer is concerned..how can Manyata give up on the relationship she had with Akash so easily? its not her character...she is also strong and is firm in her belief, just like UV...if she breaks so easily she wont be the true Rajputani that everyone believes her to be 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Your post really throws a positive light to the whole scenario 👏👏👏
Yup Uday and Manyata both r similar in many ways ..both are stubborn and if they commit to something ,they make sure they fulfill it ...both are very much loyal towards their love ...Manyata is loyal to Akash inspite of Akash not trusting her and Uday is loyal to his childhood fiance Manyata inspite of knowing that Manyata loves someone else ......This is a real proof of how strongly Manyata and Uday believes in relationships and commitments unlike Akash who just wants everything to go his way or else runs away from his commitments ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well said...agree about M and A's relationship...for me I think relationships are more about depth rather then their strength...and Moniya and Akash only knew each other for a month or so and they have even less time to develop any kind of depth of understanding and trust in their relationship...for me their relationship was more about mutual benefit...as Akash made M feel connected to her Identity as Moniya and for Akash M was a breath of freshness in his boring routine life.

I dont see how the relationship would have continued or is expected to be continued after the dynamics change...M will change into Manyata, its inevitable and she is too Independent to lean on Akash just to shield herself from accepting the reality...even though she was pushed into becoming a princess I see that she understands it within her...there is a calling for leadership and doing something for the greater good in her...Hence her taking UVs words about change as a good thing and fulfilling peoples expectation to heart. Akash on the otherhand cant bear to see the change in something that he cherished...I love how they are high lighting his insecurities...it makes his character a little more interesting then originally.
I find it very amusing that Akash's words about not changing and remaining the same to Moniya is such a contrast to UV's teaching of change is for the better...It seems like where Akash's promises were something which would appease Moniya, but suffocate the growth of Manyata within...but then UV's words come in and Calms the War between Moniya and Manyata that change is not so bad...she is just modifying herself not becoming a chameleon...loved the fact that he reminded her that she was a princess to began with...even when she was Chawl's Moniya she was never ordinary...so whats the big deal in accepting her uniqueness and owning it and making it her strength...thats growth...and change is a law of nature.
Coming to UV and DS as being shown villians...I dont care I am hearting it sooo much...after a long time there are smart characters on a daily soap...thats refreshing... on a side note I dont think they are exactly shown to be negative...they are manipulative and scheming but that is what a princess has to face in order to learn her lessons to become a great queen...they are paving a way for Manyata to become an amazing queen...If UV and DS are master plotters...is Akash not a grown man?? o.O I mean he needs to calm down...think for a little bit...I mean if you know someones trying to break you up with the love of your life...isnt it more prudent to maintain your faith in them rather then randomly barging into their house and doing a Tamasha? o.O If UV and DS have a huge ego then so does Akash...even he wants everything to revolve around him...everything is about him and his ego...so what if she wanted to help...rather then understanding her intentions he is licking his wounds...thats just really self centered.
About UV always talking about how he never looses and accepting villianous challenges to win Manyata...EGOs both of them have huge egos...Even Manyatas ego wouldnt allow her to accept the fact that Akash left her...she wont let go...because her ego wouldnt allow her to admit defeat...neither will UV let go...no matter how much he talks about his toughness and how he would not loose...but his overwhelming concern for Manyata's well being...and his getting lost in lalaland when he is with Manyata tells a different story...his hurt over every mention of Akash by M...and his overwhelming need to prove to himself that he wont be a weakling...the dude is in LOVE but he wont and cant admit it...admitted it once and that hurt him...made him feel like a pathetic weakling...he wont easily let go...he will fight and so will she, because both of them or above all else are Egotistic...a match made in EGO heaven :)
P.S. Damn I wrote a whole paper...sorry about that...but me loves the show and the Egomaniacs in it ❤️
Edited by sinistera - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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True. Relationships are much more stronger than this that you break it just with a silly fight on why she helped him. If it were to end like that than no marriages would work only. The thing is that both Aakash and Manyata never got chance to understand each other and know their personality. Like sinistera said, they both had mutual benefit from this relationship and it was limited to just that. They never tried to understand each other beyond that. His understanding of Manyata is just limited to her being childish and innocent. He never saw her negative side, and the moment he saw some negative side in her character, something that does not benefit him...he left her? Ofcourse their relationship was way too weak to sustain life-long even if Manyata had remained as Moniya. When we love a person, we love him with all his imperfections and accept them over the years with ofcourse the changes that will come...but here Aakash is seeking to love a perfect girl in his mind who will only care about him and follow his beliefs. I guess he was just obsessed with Moniya and didn't actually love her.

And even I loved the way how Manyata handled the whole thing. For the first time we saw the strength of her character apart from he fighting with her family. As in she is not just a rebel but a free bird and who would like to do stuff according to her wish. And what she did for Aakash may be wrong, yes because he is very ego-istic man, but than again that is where their relationship is weak. They haven't got a chance to know and understand each other. From Manyata's pov, she was right because she just wanted to help...but from Aakash's it wasn't as he didn't need anyone's recommendation to overpower his ability. And so he broke up with her but I loved the faith that Manyata had in her relationship. I guess from Manyata's side, she truly cared for Aakash and loved him for the person he was, but their relationship is weak (while Aakash's love wouldn't be called love from my side 😛)

As for Komal-DS...seeing it from Komal's pov, she is not wrong as a mother because she is seeing stuff from her daughter's perspective and sees Aakash from Manyata's eyes. You can say she is blinded in her daughter's love, but than most mothers are. So I don't actually blame Komal for revealing it to Manyata...although I know that DS is doing it for Manyata's good as well as it is the only way for her to try to be a princess and than decide what she wants. Both Komal and DS are right in their own respective places from where I see.

But I do agree that Uday is shown in a bad light but than he is evil and cunning. He his wanting to be with Manyata for his own motives to gain the Devgarh kingdom. Yes he cares for her but he is not completely in love with her...and I guess it is going to be a journey of change in his motives as well...along with the journey of change of Moniya into Manyata, which hopefully will lead to both of them falling in love😳 I would love how the change (and growth) in their individual tracks would influence their feelings for each other😳

PS @ sinistera: WORD to everything you said😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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bez of the misundersatnding it had happened..!!!!
but whtever it is i wnat Uday n Manaytha to b 2ghetr
bt it doesnt seems lyk Uday will win in the end...!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

Your post really throws a positive light to the whole scenario 👏👏👏

Yup Uday and Manyata both r similar in many ways ..both are stubborn and if they commit to something ,they make sure they fulfill it ...both are very much loyal towards their love ...Manyata is loyal to Akash inspite of Akash not trusting her and Uday is loyal to his childhood fiance Manyata inspite of knowing that Manyata loves someone else ......This is a real proof of how strongly Manyata and Uday believes in relationships and commitments unlike Akash who just wants everything to go his way or else runs away from his commitments ...

True..its not like Akash does not values relationships but he has a very weak mind, gets easily influenced, and what he lacks the most is his belief in his love...if a person does not believe in himself then he is a very weak character 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sinistera

Coming to UV and DS as being shown villians...I dont care I am hearting it sooo much...after a long time there are smart characters on a daily soap...thats refreshing... on a side note I dont think they are exactly shown to be negative...they are manipulative and scheming but that is what a princess has to face in order to learn her lessons to become a great queen...they are paving a way for Manyata to become an amazing queen...If UV and DS are master plotters...is Akash not a grown man?? o.O I mean he needs to calm down...think for a little bit...I mean if you know someones trying to break you up with the love of your life...isnt it more prudent to maintain your faith in them rather then randomly barging into their house and doing a Tamasha? o.O If UV and DS have a huge ego then so does Akash...even he wants everything to revolve around him...everything is about him and his ego...so what if she wanted to help...rather then understanding her intentions he is licking his wounds...thats just really self centered.

About UV always talking about how he never looses and accepting villianous challenges to win Manyata...EGOs both of them have huge egos...Even Manyatas ego wouldnt allow her to accept the fact that Akash left her...she wont let go...because her ego wouldnt allow her to admit defeat...neither will UV let go...no matter how much he talks about his toughness and how he would not loose...but his overwhelming concern for Manyata's well being...and his getting lost in lalaland when he is with Manyata tells a different story...his hurt over every mention of Akash by M...and his overwhelming need to prove to himself that he wont be a weakling...the dude is in LOVE but he wont and cant admit it...admitted it once and that hurt him...made him feel like a pathetic weakling...he wont easily let go...he will fight and so will she, because both of them or above all else are Egotistic...a match made in EGO heaven :)
P.S. Damn I wrote a whole paper...sorry about that...but me loves the show and the Egomaniacs in it ❤️

Word!!...exactly...all the characters here seems to have huge EGO...its like war of egoes here..between Manyata, Akash and UV...whats interesting here is everyone wants to prove their point and will not give up until they do...As for DS and UV being shown as negative...as you said , they are not negative, they are people who think...behaving in a mindless manner only brings trouble for one...also DS and UV are politicians, their duty is run an estate...how can they run an estate if they dont go by their mind? even if we glorify the concept of do as your heart says, but sometimes we have to do what our mind says...and it proves to be right...even I like UV and DS...after a long time we are getting to see people who are grey in real sense...I am kinda tired of the pure white birds that flow around in every channel giving lectures on purity of mind 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yea.i m agree with u. M & UV similar bt different as wel.thats why da chemistry sparks.May b i m being pessimistic, da show remind me in some points of INDECENT PROPOSAL.if they r taking that concept then MANVEER not gonna happen at da end (though i cnt think akash as david).

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