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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -YaRa-Forever-

True. Relationships are much more stronger than this that you break it just with a silly fight on why she helped him. If it were to end like that than no marriages would work only. The thing is that both Aakash and Manyata never got chance to understand each other and know their personality. Like sinistera said, they both had mutual benefit from this relationship and it was limited to just that. They never tried to understand each other beyond that. His understanding of Manyata is just limited to her being childish and innocent. He never saw her negative side, and the moment he saw some negative side in her character, something that does not benefit him...he left her? Ofcourse their relationship was way too weak to sustain life-long even if Manyata had remained as Moniya. When we love a person, we love him with all his imperfections and accept them over the years with ofcourse the changes that will come...but here Aakash is seeking to love a perfect girl in his mind who will only care about him and follow his beliefs. I guess he was just obsessed with Moniya and didn't actually love her.


And even I loved the way how Manyata handled the whole thing. For the first time we saw the strength of her character apart from he fighting with her family. As in she is not just a rebel but a free bird and who would like to do stuff according to her wish. And what she did for Aakash may be wrong, yes because he is very ego-istic man, but than again that is where their relationship is weak. They haven't got a chance to know and understand each other. From Manyata's pov, she was right because she just wanted to help...but from Aakash's it wasn't as he didn't need anyone's recommendation to overpower his ability. And so he broke up with her but I loved the faith that Manyata had in her relationship. I guess from Manyata's side, she truly cared for Aakash and loved him for the person he was, but their relationship is weak (while Aakash's love wouldn't be called love from my side 😛)

As for Komal-DS...seeing it from Komal's pov, she is not wrong as a mother because she is seeing stuff from her daughter's perspective and sees Aakash from Manyata's eyes. You can say she is blinded in her daughter's love, but than most mothers are. So I don't actually blame Komal for revealing it to Manyata...although I know that DS is doing it for Manyata's good as well as it is the only way for her to try to be a princess and than decide what she wants. Both Komal and DS are right in their own respective places from where I see.

But I do agree that Uday is shown in a bad light but than he is evil and cunning. He his wanting to be with Manyata for his own motives to gain the Devgarh kingdom. Yes he cares for her but he is not completely in love with her...and I guess it is going to be a journey of change in his motives as well...along with the journey of change of Moniya into Manyata, which hopefully will lead to both of them falling in love😳 I would love how the change (and growth) in their individual tracks would influence their feelings for each other😳

PS @ sinistera: WORD to everything you said😳

@red-- firstly their relationship was not something that developed naturally, Chicky and Soni entered this concept of love in Manyata's head...secondly Akash and Moniya did not get to spend enough time together to know about each other properly...thats why probably their relationship is not strong enough .
@blue---I think he does love her, but he has just started to feel it..since he has never really been in love ...so he still cant understand the feelings he has for Manyata...but he will realise it soon I guess Embarrassed
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gesika

bez of the misundersatnding it had happened..!!!!
but whtever it is i wnat Uday n Manaytha to b 2ghetr
bt it doesnt seems lyk Uday will win in the end...!!!

Patience dear!! Manveer will happen..its not who wins and who loses ..but which relationship comes out stronger ...the story has just started I think 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you this episode simply emphasized the wavering foundation of Monash's relationship.. when we love someone we do not impede their growth but we encourage them to reach their potential.. Akash fears losing Moniya if she becomes a princess hence he loves Moniya and will never be able to accept Manyata a setback in their so called love.. what he feels is not strong enough to maintain a healthy relationship.. where as UV accepted all aspects of Manyata be it to his liking or not because he understands that they are what make her unique..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mysticwater24

@red-- firstly their relationship was not something that developed naturally, Chicky and Soni entered this concept of love in Manyata's head...secondly Akash and Moniya did not get to spend enough time together to know about each other properly...thats why probably their relationship is not strong enough .

@blue---I think he does love her, but he has just started to feel it..since he has never really been in love ...so he still cant understand the feelings he has for Manyata...but he will realise it soon I guess 😳


That is what I said. They never really got the chance to know each other properly and explore their relationship. True, Chiki and Soni developed the idea of love in her head and hence, she thought that it is love...but since she feels it is love, Manyata is trying her best to make it seem like love...and she is atleast giving her best in the relationship from what I see which is least I can say about Aakash. But than that could be just me.

As for Uday, I don't think so. I wouldn't call this love when most of his actions towards Manyata are result of his desire for power and kingdom. I do agree that there is this unspoken bond, other-worldly connection between them which makes him get lost in her pagalpaan sometimes...but he hasn't actually fallen in love with her. He is in process, yes. But he is not completely in love with her...has not realized the true power of love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Akash dosent trusts his monia..his luv is so weak..
useny apney pao per khud kulharrii maarriiee haiii:p
acha hee hua;}:p
btw a relation cannott finish until n unlesss d luv care n trust is dre for eachodr..dun think akash monia relation finished yet:S
he luvss herrr..
buh m lukn forward to c manbeer nowww UDAYYY:-*

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