We need to talk. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Reeha I totally agree with you. J does have the potential to move on but I think she is going to need a lot of help from her family.They need to understand J and help her get through this pain.

Awesome Post.👏👏👏

Amnu! 🤗 Thank you, and I agree...in order for J to change, she needs to see that her family DOES love her and she doesn't need to have such a stuck up outerlayer; that their love has always been there for her, and they haven't forgotten her. I think she forgets that a lot.

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

Middle child syndrome is a probably a good diagnosis for what Jay is going through. In fact all of the points you made in your post were excellent. 👍🏼.

But regardless of how irritating Manyata can behave...I just can't bring myself to feel sympathy for Jay. UV is definitely grey...and of course we feel for him...because we're mostly shes and he's undoubtedly a good looking he😆...(You hit the nail on the head there for many I'm sure😆).

Excatly; UV is grey- but so is JN. It's a slight double standard that we ALL jump towards UV's defence and always attempt to portray him in a POSITIVE light, regardless of his actions- but can't be bothered for J. It's disturbing because there should be a little- not a lot- empathy for J. If one takes looks and gender away- Uday and JN are EXACTLY the same, just add another level of understanding to UV, because he is more politically savvy then JN- that's all.

But is he so bad because he's trying to hold onto what is rightfully his by whatever means? Oh Come on. I'm a huge UV lover, but let's be honest- he was only holding onto the KINGDOM (intially) he didnt care if that came through Manyata or JN. And yes, that is just as bad. Because if JN resorts to the same tactics, its deemed dirty. 🤔 He was too young to understand...yet his marriage was arranged to Princess Manyata in childhood...for whom he waited for 16 years. Err...let's be realistic- UV did know he had a fiancee who was MIA for 16 years, but he wasn't waiting at the door, thali in hand, acting like a saint while she was gone. 🤔...his wait was more for her to come back so he could get what his father had brought him up to want: A United Kingdom And now some Tom Dick and Harry walks in and says Manyata and I are in love... so step aside. 😕 To be fair that was BOTH M and Majnu Of course UV is not going to take it lying down, especially now that he is actually in love with Manyata. Initially he was NOT inlove with her- and he still didnt accept it because he beileved M to be his property; that is a fact. Now, I think he'll be more stealthy in winning her heart.

Getting back to Jay...She's stylish, educated, clever...not to mention a princess...so why does she continue to do things beneath her dignity? Have you ever met someone who is envious? Or hurt? they tend to do things that don't give ANY individual shoba. It's human nature to act differently when emotions come into play. Even the most educated, stylish and clever people are not immune to that- Princess included. That's the problem; Her family is acting like what happened to her is "OK" because she's a princess and should know better. But she's also a girl; and I wouldnt blame any girl for being upset🤔. Why does she continue to pine away for things that were never hers to begin with? She wouldnt she? Didnt UV persue her? Didnt her family give her the go ahead? And hasn't Manyata rejected UV? Can't blame her for trying. 🤓Why does she continue to bang her head against a brick wall? Because she is EXACTLY what UV and Manyata are: Stubborn.😎

I mean I know being in love makes people do crazy things...but didn't Sting teach us...If You Love Somebody Set Them Free...That's something UV seems to be doing...or atleast pretending to do Err..Exactly- he is pertending, it isn't sincere, so I'm not giving UV brownie points on that😆...and look he went from being Saand to Yaar..all in a matter of days. So, are you suggesting JN do the same thing? then she can win him over?😕

UV told Jay point blank (not to mention bruising her arms)...Hamare khawab dekhna bas karo...Whoa!!! If someone said that to me...I'd pick up my bags and whatever remained of my shattered and battered dignity and wait for the next bus. 😆 True. Most people would move on. and JN has in a way: She's just decided to become more of a meanie now. Which I get, don't agree with, but get. I do think JN will play a vital part in bringing Manveer together through her ploys, but at the same time, you have to give her SOME credit that she DIDNT shatter. She only had a moment of break down as she cried after him...but after that she pulled herself together. Can we say the same for M? No, we can't. 😳

Instead she goes from being grey to black...I'm going down so I'll take everyone with me...Sorry no sympathies from my side Jay Bhai. Agreed: If she goes down that route, I would be very dissapointed as well. (1) because the CVs would have just created a jelous sister after her jeju. (2) they would haver RUINED a great charecter (3) It's hard to sympathize with someone who is so hell bent on being bitter, that they ruin any chance of being happy themselves in the process. 😭