Can we all stop being angry with Manyeta

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know, I know, I understand. Her character is annoying, loud, brash and mannerless and she is incredibly rude to UdayVeer as well as needs to go to the gym (as someone in the forum mentioned)!
However, just let's try for one minute to put ourselves in her position. Her first meeting with Udayveer left her with so much anger towards him, especially when he held her like that...imagine some unknown guy trying to do that with you? How would you feel? Moniya reacted and fought herself out of his grip by scratching him.
Uday then cornered her at the disco, and was running his hands over her face...whilst all the Manveer fans are sighing and delighting in this, poor Manyeta was enraged again...imagine, some guy who you've met once before, already treated you roughly and now is trying to put his hands down your face...I mean what would any normal girl do?
And Manyeta is convinced she is in love with Akash. Now how is uday even supposed to get a look in with her in that state? Love is making Uday react rashly with Akash's family etc... but...we all explain his behaviour away. TODAY UDAY BEHAVED IN A MANNER WHERE MANYETA finally will HAVE To start noticing him for what he IS And NOT what SHE thinks HE IS! He apologised and he is willing to start again. I, personally, WAS VERY PROUD OF HIM. He has realised his mistakes, he pointed it out to Manyeta, saying Unnati has warned him that he was doing the wrong thing...SO THAT MAKES HIM COURAGEOUS enough to ADMIT HIS MISTAKE...and say SORRY.
And Manyeta throwing Uday's gift out of the window was not great BUT, it takes time to forgive someone, EVEN AFTER THEY HAVE SAID SORRY! Manyeta was reacting to his admittance of getting Akash and his family thrown out of their home, Akash losing his job etc. And the next second, he apologises...I mean how is that apology supposed to sink in...Manyeta just wanted to REACT and probably THROW something at him! So she threw away the gift in anger...but now that he has apologised...that will sink in eventually once she calms down. And she will start the process of forgiving him and THEN and only THEN WILL MAnyeta start responding to Uday slowly but surely...wait and watch...
Please give her a chance...
Also, about someone mentioning that Manyeta needs to go to the gym...LOL if she keeps ordering pizzas for Ashish for lunch every day, she's bound to put on weight 😉
So here's to the Manveer ROMANCE...cheers!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not mad at manayta whatever she did was right to justify her anger over uv for destroying akash's home n he lost his job as well. Uv lacks the patience he needs to win over manatya she is head over heels in love with akash so she is not going to forget him easily. whatever uv n manatya did it goes with their character so I am nor surprised or angry by their behavior.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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:))) despite the avalanche of negative comments coming against Monya, I am so glad somebody has guts to see the positive aspects Of the character!! It's quite ironical that many of us(including me) are oblivious of the fact that the moral grounds we rest upon to chastise other characters of Dek are usually not applied to our favorite character!! So obsessed with UV, we had condoned his every flirtious behavior and evil intentions! How can we forget that it's Monya who is bringing out "yin" aspect of Uday!! And moreover we have to understand, this is Monya not yet Manyata!! Monya, a character that has been portrayed as raw and unpolished who has no grip over her emotions!! She is spontaneous, natural and wild!! What can we anticipate from a girl at the moment, who had been living a nomadic life for twenty years viz no proper schooling and socialization!! My personal experience of researching over tribal nomads, has led me to realize that they are very selective about their friend choice!! They don't easily open up with everyone!! To make them open up you have to be one of them!! It's the same with Monya!! She opened up with chowl people and even Unnati, coz they accepted Monya as Monya!!!had not characters like headphones and her cohort, granny of chowl and Unnati accepted Monya as Monya, she would have never been respectful and cosy to them!!! Since I have to watch Monya everyday, I can't take any risk of disliking her!! After all Dek is all bout Monya's dream come true!! I am enjoying the character of Monya no matter however nuisance she may appear to others!! Until and unless there is marked difference between Monya and Manyata in terms of psychic and physic predilection, what's so interesting about seeing the transformation!! Loved the Post made by ... Who very well used the analogy of "Phoenix" to describe Monya-Manyata metamorphosis!!
Edited by postmodernist - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I ttly agree with you but you know I think she is already starting to change she calls him uday now rather thn her colorful choice of swear words and she actucally hugged him!!! 😊When you are upset as she was tht day, she could have easily kicked him out of the room the second he came in but a part of her wanted him to stay for him to comfort her and give her a hug. And tht fact right there is progress
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I'm not mad at Manyata, I just get a nagging head ache when she starts her shpeels. The perpetual need for Advil overtakes me! 😆

No, but Jay, I get what your saying. People need to chill out and just be a little more patient. 😉

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i totally agree with u 100%.. im also not mad at manyata.. yeah, she tends to get annoying at times, but i do understand where her anger is coming from.. we need to give her time.. she'll eventually realise what her true aim is..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: DEKfan2012

<font color="#009900"><font size="3">Iknow, I know, I understand. Her character is annoying, loud, brash and mannerless and she is incredibly rude to UdayVeer as well as needs to go to the gym (as someone in the forum mentioned)!</font></font>

<font color="#009900" size="3">However, just let's try for one minute to put ourselves in her position. Her first meeting with Udayveer left her with so much anger towards him, especially when he held her like that...imagine some unknown guy trying to do that with you? How would you feel? Moniya reacted and fought herself out of his grip by scratching him.</font>

<font color="#009900" size="3">Uday then cornered her at the disco, and was running his hands over her face...whilst all the Manveer fans are sighing and delighting in this, poor Manyeta was enraged again...imagine, some guy who you've met once before, already treated you roughly and now is trying to put his hands down your face...I mean what would any normal girl do?</font>

<font color="#009900" size="3">And Manyeta is convinced she is in love with Akash. Now how is uday even supposed to get a look in with her in that state? Love is making Uday react

rashly with Akash's family etc... but...we all explain his behaviour away. TODAY UDAY BEHAVED IN A
MANNER WHERE MANYETA finally will HAVE To start noticing him for what he IS And NOT what SHE
thinks HE IS! He apologised and he is willing to start again. I, personally, WAS VERY PROUD OF HIM.
He has realised his mistakes, he pointed it out to Manyeta, saying Unnati has warned him that he wadoing the wrong thing...SO THAT MAKES HIM COURAGEOUS enough to ADMIT HIS MISTAKE...and say SORRY.
</font>

<font color="#009900" size="3">And Manyeta throwingUday's gift out of the window was not great BUT, it takes time to forgive someone, EVEN AFTER THEY HAVE SAID SORRY! Manyeta was reacting to his admittance of getting Akash and his family thrown out of their home, Akash losing his job etc. And the next second, he apologises...I mean how is that apology supposed to sink in...Manyeta just wanted to REACT and probably THROW something at him! So she threw away the gift in anger...but now that he has apologised...that will sink in eventually once she calms down. And swill start the process of forgiving him and THEN and only THEN WILL </font><font color="#009900" size="3">MAnyeta start responding to Uday slowly but surely...wait and watch...</font>

<font color="#009900" size="3">Please give her a chance...</font>

<font color="#009900" size="3">Also, about someone mentioning thatManyeta needs to go to the gym...LOL if she keeps ordering pizzas for Ashish for lunchevery day, she's bound to pu on weight 😉</font>

<font color="#009900" size="3"></strong></font>

<font color="#009900" size="3"><strong>So here's to the Manveer ROMANCE...cheers!</font>




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Posted: 13 years ago
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you go girl!!!!! u be on fire!👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: reeha...k

I'm not mad at Manyata, I just get a nagging head ache when she starts her shpeels. The perpetual need for Advil overtakes me! 😆

No, but Jay, I get what your saying. People need to chill out and just be a little more patient. 😉

bold and red ..totally totally agree but to the TM i must say..i am not mad at manyata for uday and behaving towards uday..i am mad at her for manupulating her mom's love for her,disrespecting her granny by throwing her out of her room,making fun of rituals of royal family and the list goes on and on...
if she had continued huggging uday or accept his gift i would have been like WTH but no point is everytime she is angry at some one,she just starts disrespctful rant and that gives me headache for sure...
so yes as u said we can justify her attitude against uday but not at all against her parents...to me she is a shameless,manupulative,stubborn child ranting and throwing tantrums every where...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post and i respect your opinion but would have to disagree with you because my dislike towards the character is not because of her relationship with Uday- her actions towards him are very much justifiable and the fact that she is in love with Akash makes those actions even stronger but what I don't understand and find it simply annoying is her behavior with her family. At the begining of the show her character is portrayed as a free spirited, loving, respectful, helpful, mature and all of those qualities that a heroin possess but then all of that just went out the window when she came to the palace or I should probably say all of those qualities magically disappear when she interacts with her family members. I understand she has been gone for the past 16 years and doesn't know them, doesn't like all the rules and regulations, has had a certain opinion about rich people all her life but at the end of the day none of this is her family's fault. They never gave up on her, celebrated her birthday every years, never stopped searching for her, always kept her memories with them, and never let anyone take her spot even if it was her younger sister. While "Monya" has a right to be mad at the world and how things have turned out she is taking her anger out at the wrong person. If she wants to be mad at anyone she should be mad at her Baba who took her away and kept her hidden all this time or she could be mad at Brijraj because at the end of the day he started the chain or reaction in this whole fiasco when he accidentally killed Murari's wife and daughter. So her being disrespectful, immature, childish, and manipulative towards her family-especially her mom and grandmother is what irritates me the most not the way she treats Uday because anyone who is in "love" and are all of sudden told their marriage has been fixed with someone else- would have a pretty bad reaction but that's another debate all together.
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