Cheating - Page 5

Originally posted by: chatbuster

cheating bad. jua khelna bad. daaru peena bad. maar peet karna bad. gali bakna bad. gulcharrey udana bad. ankh maarna bad. ankhiyan ladana bad. kabab khana bad. cigarette peena bad. tambakoo chabana bad. thook phekna bad. satta baazi karna bad. chaal baazi karna bad. pocket maarna bad. gilli danda khelna bad. rangeen raatein katna bad. rang raliyan karna bad. ched kad karna bad. badmashiyan karna bad. all bad. aur inse bhee bad bad. getting caught. very bad. 😛 😉 😆

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Originally posted by: chatbuster

cheating bad. jua khelna bad. daaru peena bad. maar peet karna bad. gali bakna bad. gulcharrey udana bad. ankh maarna bad. ankhiyan ladana bad. kabab khana bad. cigarette peena bad. tambakoo chabana bad. thook phekna bad. satta baazi karna bad. chaal baazi karna bad. pocket maarna bad. gilli danda khelna bad. rangeen raatein katna bad. rang raliyan karna bad. ched kad karna bad. badmashiyan karna bad. all bad. aur inse bhee bad bad. getting caught. very bad. 😛 😉 😆

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duniya re duniya - very good, very good

duniya waley - very bad, very bad...sab per police lagao, pehra bithao😛😉😆

jab sab kuchh itna bad hai toh logon ko bolo ki sab chhod do...sab sacrifice ker do...aur jab itney sacrificing mood mein sab aa jayengey toh lagey haath desh key liye jaan bhi dey hee daley😛....kyooon....theek hai na😉😆😆

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

... we all make judgment about others it is social norm and part of our psyche that is how we make social rules. Only few have courage to say it out loud may be because they don't have anything to hide😆😊

no. we all dont make judgments about others. some do. 😉 but some are smart enough to realize they dont have all the facts to reach proper conclusions and never will.😉

... If we start closing our eyes for every thing , just because it is not our problem in immediate future.. then we have to very careful because if we get affected one way or another there wouldn't be anyone else to support.

toh kya karein? durbin lekar logon peh nazar rakhein? 😛 😆they tried that with the Gestapo and the KGB state, didnt they? didnt quite work out, did it?😉

and the taliban? didnt they have their eyes opened also? sabke oopar kadi nazar? 😛 so much for dangerous hypocrites and zealots who dont have anything better to do than go poking into other people's business😉😆

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

Means it is really bad bad thing to you .. but it is alright if other people do it unless it is not affecting you .. and I am sure you wouldn't like your husband to be approched like this way either😆 ........Dewey , how can anyone even begin to protect their husbands, betas from these flirts. 😉 There is a law against adultery which can cancel marriage contract if both spouses chose to end their marriage , do you suggest flirting to be included in the definition of adultery?. 😆.. now I am kind of confuse what is hypocracy😆😆

saying a bad thing bad , or saying a bad thing "ok" for other but not for me or my family😆😆😆

we all make judgment about others it is social norm and part of our psyche that is how we make social rules. Only few have courage to say it out loud may be because they don't have anything to hide😆😊 ...There is a saying - screaming as loud as you can does not mean you are right (and have nothign to hide). 😕

See people who do something wrong never think they are doing anything wrong.....for eg.. a person who raped a child would give you a reason behind it , it would never be his/ her fault. A killer would provide an excuse for his cruelty. A shope lifter.. a cheater ..... all have very good excuses ..........eik dukh bhari daastaan. Are you serious? do you think harmless flirting is as bad as any of the above? If we start closing our eyes for every thing , just because it is not our problem in immediate future.. then we have to very careful because if we get affected one way or another there wouldn't be anyone else to support. Isn't this how Saudis think and treat their women... case in point that woman who was seen with another male without her husband or male relative being present.

@LH, I don't know why you are constantly confusing one thing with another.. 😕
as for oogling to another woman or watching po*n etc... are you telling me it is equal to the cybersex or any kind of flirtious talk with strong sexual elements? 😕
there are no computer generated characters sitting on the other end of the cable. In any other case of drooling over someone , imagining or watching po*n etc. doesn't actively involve second person. that make it clearly different from the cyber sex. or anyother flirtious/sexual talk which have a strong potential for leading towards cyber sex. I remember there was one study related to this done sometimes back.. let me look into it ,anyway , it was indicating its negative impacts on marriage. and I read one interview of a divorce atorny dont'know if it is available online or not , where she mentioned growing number of divorces caused by cybersex or cyber sexual talks. So apparently harmless situation have a potential to turn something really serious. We are right now talking about married couple no need to mention alot many are living as a couple out of wed lock but maintaing a family unit......now why we need to do something ... is related to general interest of society .. increase number of divorces or break ups lead to increase number of children affected by it , which may inturn leads to increase number of abnormal behaviours among children who eventually become adult and can create problems to other members of society... we are all linked to each other one way or another.
I have already mentioned it , if some one has to hide it from general people along with her/his spouse and family, then they themselves clearly know whatever they are donig it not right yes they can give you a dukh bhari dastaan or reason behind this behaviour.
in my above post I never talked about protection etc 😆 read my post and the post on which I replied. I assumed on the basis of disgust shown towards such act for the author and her family that she would be ok as long as it is not affecting her family.
Not every thing is solved by law. do you think involvement of law is required in each and every aspect of life and other than that there is no social input...
neighbourhood watch is still considered better controller of crimes. 😊
Emotional or pshycological torture is also a form of abuse. Alot many of us have been very vocal about it. and want active social intervention in such situaion.... these online apparently harmless sexual talks which are kept hidden to spouses, eventually affect married life. which fall under emotional abuse of spouse.

as for saudi's or anyother Arab country , we need to control our own crime rate first before we can say anything about their laws or social norms. There may be injustice , where else it dosn't happen. American media like to publisized those few cases ..and totally forget about injustice in their own system .. I remember so many black people are treated badly in America some spend more than 20 years in jail for a crime they never commited... to control crime by polic is following a law of country to do such act without discrimination is moral obligation to work around law to save culprit is legal but not moral and not right .... everything is interlinked😊... I've never been to Saudia Arabia , but have been to Arab emirates. I could left my newly bought gold jewerlly on front seat of unlocked car.. could leave my appartment unloacked without fear of any theft. people left their shops open for lunch breaks or pray break, no one steal anything .. ... why is that? can we do it in India , Pakistan chalo forget about home countries , here in America, UK or Canada?
What is homicide, rape etc rate over there compare to what is here? We have a right to object anything over there when we are succes full in controlling crimes by using our "very Good" system as effectivly as they do... so forget about them or their rules. And another thing without strong social interference no law can be applied anywhere you can't put police everywhere.. there are people who play active role against any crime

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

@LH, I don't know why you are constantly confusing one thing with another.. 😕

Dewey , I could say the same to you but I won't because after all it is all a matter of perception. 😊

Since with your last post you introduced cyber sex while most of us are taking about harmless flirting without sexual intent , there is nothing to debate if we are not talking about the same thing anymore. I don't know what is your point or suggestion to stop any flirting with or without sexual innuendo since you compare it to neighborhood crime watch.

As for arab countries, I value mine and my families right and freedom much more then my jewellery or property, I am sure everyone does. As far as rape goes , we do know that rape victims get sentenced for being raped in the first place don't we? so how many cases get reported..

We agree to disagree here , which is ok..😃

Originally posted by: chatbuster

cheating bad. jua khelna bad. daaru peena bad. maar peet karna bad. gali bakna bad. gulcharrey udana bad. ankh maarna bad. ankhiyan ladana bad. kabab khana bad. cigarette peena bad. tambakoo chabana bad. thook phekna bad. satta baazi karna bad. chaal baazi karna bad. pocket maarna bad. gilli danda khelna bad. rangeen raatein katna bad. rang raliyan karna bad. ched kad karna bad. badmashiyan karna bad. all bad. aur inse bhee bad bad. getting caught. very bad. 😛 😉 😆

Aisa hey tho OMG am soooooooooooo bad guy😆😆😆 Hum aise bi hey..waise be hey....No need anyone's Certification also😳phir be Dil hey Hindustani😛😉😛

Originally posted by: Believe

Aisa hey tho OMG am soooooooooooo bad guy😆😆😆 Hum aise bi hey..waise be hey....No need anyone's Certification also😳phir be Dil hey Hindustani😛😉😛

reminds me of the joke about the teacher who hauls up the student and asks him- gali bakna chod dogey? student says- haan sir. teacher- daaru peena chod dogey? student- haan sir... teacher- nakal karna chod dogey? student- haan sir. after a while, teacher- desh ke liye jeena chod dogey? student- haan sir. ab aisa jee kar bhee kya faida?😆

and another one where he's hauled up for using bad words. teacher- suna hai kee tum aaj kal bahut gali bakte ho. student- kaun kambakhat kehta hai kee mein gali bakta hoon? ghanta... and he goes on...😆

Originally posted by: chatbuster

reminds me of the joke about the teacher who hauls up the student and asks him- gali bakna chod dogey? student says- haan sir. teacher- daaru peena chod dogey? student- haan sir... teacher- nakal karna chod dogey? student- haan sir. after a while, teacher- desh ke liye jeena chod dogey? student- haan sir. ab aisa jee kar bhee kya faida?😆

and another one where he's hauled up for using bad words. teacher- suna hai kee tum aaj kal bahut gali bakte ho. student- kaun kambakhat kehta hai kee mein gali bakta hoon? ghanta... and he goes on...😆

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