Cheating - Page 3

Originally posted by: Maya_M

Again depends on perception😊. To me anyone who passionately disagrees with someone and tries to put down other opinions is judgmental too. They just remind me that how much ever they portray otherwise, being envious is a common trait among all humans and they are vulnerable too.

in fact the reverse is true.😊

by your reasoning, all the opinionated folks throughout history who felt they were good enough to rule over others would be envious of the other guy? dont get that logic.😆

and yes, being envious is fairly common i suppose- more so amongst the have-nots, whether thats on the physical level or the emotional one 😊

again, there's a difference between attacking an idea and attacking a person, between expressing disagreement on a topic and forming judgments about people. simple basic distinction. but feel free to disagree of course.😊

Originally posted by: chatbuster

in fact the reverse is true.😊

by your reasoning, all the opinionated folks throughout history who felt they were good enough to rule over others would be envious of the other guy? dont get that logic.😆

and yes, being envious is fairly common i suppose- more so amongst the have-nots, whether thats on the physical level or the emotional one 😊

again, there's a difference between attacking an idea and attacking a person, between expressing disagreement on a topic and forming judgments about people. simple basic distinction. but feel free to disagree of course.😊

I am not responsible if a different logic is inferred of my statement😊. In this thread too there are some views which are trying to compare virtual cheating to various things happening online and in real life thus condoning the jeopardy in relationship and justifying cheating. So I guess all of us have some kind of reasoning to justify another situation which could in reality have no connection to the actual topic.

I am not forcing my opinion on anyone. This is my take on the subject but as you said, let us agree to disagree.

Forgot to add, I concur with the highlighted sentence in your post. But like to add that here too there is high probability of someone misunderstanding and taking the view in wrong way and making it personal.

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

During last one and half year, since I've been more active one virtual social world. I found alot many married people some even with children , engaged in flirtation, and exhibiting almost real life emotions towards people. Initially it really was disgusting to me . To you what is the reason.

Its disgusting to me if I indulge in such things...But I never form my opinions on other people and pass my judgement on them...As humans we all are vulnerable to make mistakes and judging others is hypocracy...Also, a little bit of flirting here and there is fine and acceptable and in fact a part of the deal...When one is spending so many hours with someone, whether its virtual or real- a bond is likely to form and nothing wrong with it really...

What if they find another person , who actually is close to their idea of soul mate, should they go after that person and leave their spouse?

Are you talking about KANK???😉😆..Jokes apart, this shows the fickleness of their mind and such people will not have one but multiple soul mates...Now how many can they go after???😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

cheating online, offline is just a dirty hobby that many seem to suffer from!

we all "see" cheaters.. and "we" don't know they're cheating =)) 😆 some of them are cheating on their spouses with partners less than half their age 😕
S C U M

Originally posted by: raksha.l

But why do we have to call 'them' names???Isn't it completely their business, unless we are getting affected by it...😕..Why can't we just ignore and move on???Why get flustered with such people who we anyway don't approve of ???😊

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

yepp, it is their business.. unlike nonvegetarianism / religionalism which seems to be everybody's business 😉
one more- most / many supporting cheating and being gracious and non-judgemental will have a collection of words for ppl who don't marry and seek a LIVE-IN 😉..
Live in is also people's business but judgements are passed, rn't they? simple reason- things that bother one doesn't bother the other and things that mattter to some don;t matter to others.
since the poster ased for our views on cheating, I expressed mine..
SCUM BAGS!! feel sorry for the children they're raising 😕.. hopefully, their e-lovers don't send lovey dovey e-messages to their children too