Originally posted by: return_to_hades
I have not seen the videos yet. However, to add to the subject matter of the topic fame is something very difficult. Most parents wish best for their children. When a child has a talent they want their children to succeed. It is very difficult to gauge which teen has the ability to cope with fame and which parents have the ability to guide their children through fame. It is easy to assume, be down to earth, be yourself and stick to your ethics but when your life is pried apart under a microscope things get messy.
Speaking of famous children -
Macaulay Culkin and Elijah Wood were child artistes at the same time. In fact Elijah Wood has done more movies as a child than Macaulay. Macaulay's parents really wanted to cash in on his 'cute boy' image and the runaway success of home alone. They literally forced him deeper into limelight and tried to rake as many bucks as possible. His parents divorced and embroiled him in a custody battle. Eventually Macaulay broke down sued his father and had a hiatus from cinema and is just rebuilding his career doing indie films. Elijah's parents on the other hand kept him low profile. His private family life was always shielded from the media. He was able to be part of the blockbuster LOTR series as an adult and till today keeps his star status very low profile and keeps his personal life private.
If I were a parent of course I would let my kid's have a shot of fame. However, I would hope that I can be like Elijah's parents and help them to a balanced career and personality.
Then again kids of the same parentage have such different public attitudes and behaviors. Born to an evangelical pastor the Simpson sisters have been so different. While I am not a big fan of Jessica and she has had her fair share or controversy, the stupid newlyweds show and divorce. However, she was a big advocate of celibacy before marriage which I think was a positive role model for teens, she has rarely been embroiled in incidents like drunk driving, flashing, drugs, alcoholism and always tried to maintain a sense of privacy in her life since newlyweds. On the other hand Ashlee right from the start wanted to be an anti Jessica. She has been caught several occasions driving tipsy or making a fool of herself at restaurant and retail establishments.
Sometimes the best parents can do is provide guidance.