Originally posted by: mermaid_QT
excellent question & caught my gender-bias blooper 😡😳😭 ( why no emoticon for beating u up 👎🏼) 😆.Thanks for taking it lightly lekin aap mujhe maara chahti hai? 😭
My monologue was based on my experience and as a girl, my mom has tremendous influence in imparting value system to me. I guess my mom was very friendly, very open, very vigilant and very active in helping me choose my role models. I remember her talking to me about how it was normal for me to have a crush on say XYZ, yet how important to prove who I am and then go after him after I became somebody! Dad always treated me like his son (still does) and is my best friend, but I did not share my underage crushes with him... Well, nobody was / is / will be good enough for me according to him anyway .. I knew it, you see! His role as a parent was more silent. I always looked up to him and knew that ACCOMPLISHMENT outside of house mattered. It mattered to focus on career and studies in order to get that high up the ladder.
Motherhood is a responsible job. Everybody rises up for accolade after delivering children, but few actually deserve it. If mother is wasted, chances of teens going wasted are higher. Mothers spend more time with girls (even working mothers) in comparison to fathers. Mothers are also more vigilant in terms of EMOTIONAL well-being of their children (both sons and daughters- personal observation), since DADS often need to be TOLD about any issue. they have no capacity to guess and grasp!! .. 😆😆Yup! I agree. It has been pretty much the same in my case. But I am confused a bit. Even my mom told me that it is okay to have attraction towards someone at this age but we have to know where to stop and pursue our goals first but she was not necessarily okay with me being someone's girlfriend when I was 13-14. So, having a crush is okay, but having an actual underage relationship is okay? People have talked about social interaction being good in these kind of relationships, but even if you have friends who are of other gender, you learn social skills also. So, why actually bother having a relationship? With so much impact of TV and movies on kids, how can you expect young teens to know where to draw a line? These days, no matter however much sanskars parents instill in children, they can go hay-wire. IMO, children should be given a strict age limit till which they can not indulge in relationships. Having crushes is okay, but going on to a full-fledged relationship doesn't go down too well with me. I definitely do not want my 12 year old brother coming home with a girlfriend in 7th grade.
again, my post was based on my experience as a teen. My dad used to be a globe trotter back then- rarely at home. Recently, I have seen more & more fathers being involved while mothers doing their own things (not necessarily related to their career- let me clear b4 someone begins to bash career women). Perhaps times have changed 👍🏼. I am 33, so meri sweet friend, can you cut me itty bitty slack for thinking that mothers impart values to daughters more than fathers do?😆😆Thik hai chalo, aap bol rahe ho to mein chod deti hun. 😆
But yes, thankfully, times are changing and dads are paying much more attention to child's development. My dad is definitely more active around my brother than he was with me. In my case, he was more of a silent parent just like you said but still, he cared about who called and why he called late at night. 😳😆
Last funny short answer to your question underlined- about only mothers choosing jewellery designs
🤔 sorry dear, but never heard of dads choosing jewellery designs 😈 ..
😆😆Jhakkas hai boss 🤣🤣🤣
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