Underage Relationships Justified ?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi...🤗

I have seen a lot of young teenagers hanging out late after school with their boyfriends/girlfriends. Being young, do you think that young kids have the rights to have these relationships?

Many youngsters these days, spend late nights chatting on the net, using mobile phones to chat, etc... Do you think that is right?

Don't you think that this is the time to study and become something? Is it right to have an underage relationship with someone? What age do you think is suitable for all this?

Please share your views.

-Misha😉


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Posted: 17 years ago
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study ke wakt study aur pyaar ke wakt pyaar atleast tht is what i follow in my life 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: kabhi_21

study ke wakt study aur pyaar ke wakt pyaar atleast tht is what i follow in my life 😉

The problem now a days yongsters follows .....Study ke waqt pyaar,....pyar ki waqt studies..........😃 sub kichadi baanakar chalte hey.....😉

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Charming*Angel

Hi...🤗

I have seen a lot of young teenagers hanging out late after school with their boyfriends/girlfriends. Being young, do you think that young kids have the rights to have these relationships?

I think the 'right', maybe a wrong word to use, why don't people have the right? 😳 Depends of course on how old these youngsters that u r talking about are, late night i dont agree, thats what week-ends are for, lolss if its skl night then yeah i dont agree, shut up n go home, and study, lolssss....of curse depends on age etc and other factors,😉


Many youngsters these days, spend late nights chatting on the net, using mobile phones to chat, etc... Do you think that is right?

well yes and No, Priority of course is to study etc...but if your work is on order , you are studying to the best of your ability, I dont see why its wrong. We need to have a life too and if this is the only way well then its not so wrong. Like i am studying from 8-10:30 pm, without break...and on week-ends too.....i am studying majority of the day.....now tell me ...when do i get a socia life, 😳 the only thing getting me through is it chatting half the day online and coming here, i not even watched tv in a month now😭 I think its k, as LONG as you are also concentrating on studies...and getting things done. Its not right when u r just spending all day n night chatting, and not working in skl, after skl or weekends. Things need to work side by side😉

Don't you think that this is the time to study and become something? Is it right to have an underage relationship with someone? What age do you think is suitable for all this?

There is No suitable age. People mature at different ages. And what do u mean underage relationship? Lolsss. I dont think there is any age where u can go ding dong its time for a relationship😆. So depends on both parties. Also depends how well you can cope with studies and maintaing a healthy relationship. Some people do it well, others dont.

Please share your views.

-Misha😉

Kyun Misha, u found a guy😉 shaadi kab?😆 Remember to invite ur sweet CM to ur wedding, otherwise i won't spam ur chatting club and annoy u into doing some work in GD sections.😉 OMGGG haha i got it, u told me a while ago u were bored, i now know y, lolsssss u dont study, u go out all day and chat on msn, n come to I-F😆 N no1 was online 4 u to talk to, so u got bored, ahaha. Kidding.


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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well, ofcourse everyone has the so called right to relationships at any age erm ahem 😛... its just that you should know when to do what, which sadly is the issue nowadays I think. Esp school going kids have gone mental cus of the access they have to leisure time, even if they dont go out, they have their pcs, if not that, they have their mobiles! Yaar ye innu se bachche mobile le ke karte kya hain yaar?????! Sheesh therez no stopping them! 😕 But having said that, I've known evening and post school curfews on students have affected their school and college life, cus they start bunking lectures and doing what they think is the 'right' thing to do during study/school hours. So after-school, before-school or weekends and any other times isnt the exact problem IMO. The issue becomes simpler if they know what they are doing, focussing on what they are supposed to do depending on the age and keep a balance of leisure time and study.

I have a cousin studying in Mumbai in 7th grade who told me on the phone that finally the girl he 'loves' said Yes to him and he was ecstatic....and me on the other side of the line ...erm fell off my chair in shock! I dont know what age kids get into 'relationships' nowadays lol, cus its something new for them, its exciting erm and well, this amazing thought that I guess everyone has a bf/gf...so why cant I ??...or worse... sh*t I dont have a bf or a gf YET!! 🤔 But I do think, there is this teeny weeny or mighty shighty possibility of getting carried away with that concept and lose focus of studies or everything!

I dont think parents can monitor these things in detail, but I think its a good idea to keep a watch on kids see what exactly they do at times n give them the idea that their isssue is about the balance of leisure time and studies, period. Having said that, the kids also shud be made aware that there is a time, place and age (every family has their own set limits for everything) for all this. I dont know if it works, but hell, its worth a shot 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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👏 👏 Well said Sohn.

I guess it all depends on person's state of mind and their way of thinking. Also on how they priortise things in their life. How much Importance they give to certain things in their life and where thweir mind actually is. 😉

Sometimes no matter how focused you can be , some one just takes over ur mind and head, lolssss 😆

And hell yeah, the way ur parents have brought u up counts for a lot. This is what you base your actions on.

E.G if your parents have always told you Yes u have to study no matter what, then u know ur direction in life, however if ur parents are the type to not care wht u get up to, then it is these ppl tht are out late partying and off with 1958776 Girls/Boyz.

So upbringing counts for a lot too. U should know ur limits 😉

So end of day Upbringing, family values, Teenagers state of mind, maturity etc all count for these things.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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well school time love affairs

r nothin.we r too young n we have

no idea what we doing

we r too imature .Those reletionships

happens ;although i have one friend

who studied with guy from juniour

school now they gettin married 😊

but thats a diffrent case one in million

well i do agree today"s time kids r too much into all this

as for studies they should not get suffer

as anon said it depend indiviual to indiviual .

I do remeber few gals n guys they were

like phew ,my school was like divided into building

one for juni"s that till sixth grade

and one seniors as soon as kids come

to sixth they start preparing for there trasfer to

senior building.All kinda style n fashion statments

are made crazy stuff now i feel if we look back we will

just laugh that time it was too serious stuff 😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Charming*Angel

Hi...🤗

I have seen a lot of young teenagers hanging out late after school with their boyfriends/girlfriends. Being young, do you think that young kids have the rights to have these relationships?

Many youngsters these days, spend late nights chatting on the net, using mobile phones to chat, etc... Do you think that is right?

Don't you think that this is the time to study and become something? Is it right to have an underage relationship with someone? What age do you think is suitable for all this?

Please share your views.

-Misha😉




I hate such acts.....one need to love one's field of study during the process of education.....people without much goals and aims in life ....do these type of acts....most of the times...students who are poor in normal studies are very active in the experiments related to this issue🤢😡..
It looks nice if students study well......instead of flirting with fellow morons...
Flirting also has some age and it need to be done in some classy manner in after some age with classy people only after achieving some things worhty things in life...
No need to understand the underaged people's desires or relations😊 in these type of issues
Cheers,
Mythili

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Misha! Welcome to DM and keep posting 🤗.

i am not very against underage relationships (non-physical 😆) since there is a natural reason behind the attraction and proximity. they are bound to happen (crushes etc 😳) however, social environment should be such that one must not get carried away and wasted. PARENTS play a VITAL role in children's life at that stage. If and when moms are busy watching TV and figuring out what the new saree and jewellery style is, I dunno what happens to the underage 🤢 .
Focus of studies (or anything required for career & personality growth ) is essential and above all relationships. 😊 Healthy male -female interactions are also essential for personality development. Controling raging hormones and setting life's priorities can be done with the help of matured, able parents and loving friends.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Hi Misha! Welcome to DM and keep posting 🤗.

i am not very against underage relationships (non-physical 😆) since there is a natural reason behind the attraction and proximity. they are bound to happen (crushes etc 😳) however, social environment should be such that one must not get carried away and wasted. PARENTS play a VITAL role in children's life at that stage. If and when moms are busy watching TV and figuring out what the new saree and jewellery style is, I dunno what happens to the underage 🤢 .
Focus of studies (or anything required for career & personality growth ) is essential and above all relationships. 😊 Healthy male -female interactions are also essential for personality development. Controling raging hormones and setting life's priorities can be done with the help of matured, able parents and loving friends.

I agree on most parts with you Subha Di! 😊

Ek question, I know you said that parents play a very important at this stage of child's life, then how come example was given only of mother choosing jewellery designs? You will be the last person to do so, but I am just thinking if we sub-conciously we actually expect the mother to play a bigger role in this up-bringing? It is just a simple query, I hope I am not taken negatively. 😊

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