Originally posted by: reeps
Two thoughts...
Nobody likes being made vulnerable, but one shouldn't screw somebody over for his benefit.
agree with you here. i don't believe in trampling others to reach my goals😊
Not everybody prays to counter ill wishes uttered in hurt and anguish.
Would you screw somebody over (possibly for life) to protect yourself?
Case a: life-death matter
No. that's not how I work or think. i have full confidence in my capabilities and god.
Case b: daily life proceedings, career wise, etc.
nope again
I think this is what sets me apart from the crowd...gives me my competitive advantage😊
If you don't hurt somebody on purpose, the person won't hurt you or try it! not sure about this though. have seen people who would still hurt you real bad just b/c they can't handle their insecurities and jealousy. best approach is to ignore such negative people. stooping to their level won't do any good to you or others around you😊
I have believed in the above for some time now. Obviously, it ain't true.
right...it ain't true
My belief was shattered right here on the forum. I am sure I hold many more idealistic and or naive views, which seem to be not grounded in reality. Is it OKAY to live for the idealistic or should be all take the cynic attitude, hence be more realistic, and follow the norms of the world?
like i said above, there are certain norms that i follow...those which affect my near and dear ones closely...then there are certain that i make for me...especially in professional arena. i don't believe in using others as my stepping stone. most of the time, i use the hurdles as opportunites and this approach has served me good so far in life.😊
Waiting to hear from you all,
Persy
great topic, as usual, Persy. Hope you are not disillisioned by what you faced here🤗
regards,
Gauri
