Will you..... ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: sareg

yes it does. thanks for answering.

Originally posted by: reeps

Two thoughts...

Nobody likes being made vulnerable, but one shouldn't screw somebody over for his benefit.

I agree and I would never screw anyone just for my benefit.

Not everybody prays to counter ill wishes uttered in hurt and anguish.

Would you screw somebody over (possibly for life) to protect yourself?
Case a: life-death matter

No. I believe in myself & who I am. I have faith in myself & almighty 😊.

Case b: daily life proceedings, career wise, etc.

nope. I am confident and secure in my abilities & what I have to offer. I don't bad mouth the competition. Leave bashing for them 😉 😆. In my career or personal life I have never used anyone to get somewhere. I have always believed in myself and what I can do to succeed. In this process Many challanges I have had to over come but I take them as learning experiences to rise above situation 😃 I can say I have done pretty well with myself 😳

If you don't hurt somebody on purpose, the person won't hurt you or try it!

All I can do is speak for myself. Dunno why some people hurt others out of mere jealousy and their insecurities. In those case I will never ever stoop down to their level. I dislike negativity with passion. I simply avoid and stay away from those type of people and situations. Not that I can't fight for my rights. But I am wise in picking my fights that I want to fight on professional-positive level 😃

I have believed in the above for some time now. Obviously, it ain't true.

you are very right & I agree.

My belief was shattered right here on the forum. I am sure I hold many more idealistic and or naive views, which seem to be not grounded in reality. Is it OKAY to live for the idealistic or should be all take the cynic attitude, hence be more realistic, and follow the norms of the world?

There has to be balance between being idealistic and seeing reality . I call it being practial when one must. Sorry to hear you had to go thru some bad experience on here just like some of us have. I used to be idialistic and naive too but got me hurt at times. We dont generalize rest from one or two experiences we learn from them and be cautious in future 😳.

Waiting to hear from you all,
Persy

Excellent topic Persy 👏. Cheers

DB 😃

Karma Rocks!

If someone screws someone over for NO REASON / SELFISH reason, it wil come around to bite them. So obviously, I am not going to do that.

About getting screwed over..
in a troubled patch a Russian girl told me about a saying- You are only as screwed as you allow yourself to be. Even if you get screwed, as long as you did not screw up, move on. World needs all kinds of people- insecure and unhappy being some of them. They will attempt such screwing over whether we like it or not.
Having done my preaching 😆 , let me say the last thing. The only people I love to screw include those I feel revengeful against.
Again, if I loved them truly, I don't feel like that at all 😳.
TC Persey

Originally posted by: reeps

Two thoughts...

Nobody likes being made vulnerable, but one shouldn't screw somebody over for his benefit. Not everybody prays to counter ill wishes uttered in hurt and anguish.

Would you screw somebody over (possibly for life) to protect yourself?
Case a: life-death matter

If the person tried to mess with me and my life is in danger.... i will screw the person and then forgive... because i believe that the person has reasons behind it.... just have to screw so he doesnt try to mess again😆

Case b: daily life proceedings, career wise, etc.

I dont care much about the benefits i would get in my career but if someone tries to mess up with my personal life... then i will screw the person big time that he never will return😉😆

If you don't hurt somebody on purpose, the person won't hurt you or try it!

Thts what i tell others.... be nice with me i will be nice with u.... even if u r not nice... just take care that u dont mess with my family 😉😆

I have believed in the above for some time now. Obviously, it ain't true. My belief was shattered right here on the forum. I am sure I hold many more idealistic and or naive views, which seem to be not grounded in reality. Is it OKAY to live for the idealistic or should be all take the cynic attitude, hence be more realistic, and follow the norms of the world?

Waiting to hear from you all,
Persy

All said and done... i would go legal way.... to screw up the person.... u know the singapore way.... there if u talk against a polititian they will take u to court until u are bankrupt.... it has happened😉