Giving as much as you recieve?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey,

A Simple Question, probably more of a Discussion than a Debate itself.😳

Just answer this:

When walking to your Girlfriend/Boyfriends house/or bk home to ur wifey/hubby, spouse whatever...😆, You pass a bush with red roses and White roses. You decide to take 20 of them back to your partner.

What combination of flowers from 20 do you take? ( e,g i would take 10 red and 10 white😳)

So being an ex Physcology student😆, it was just something i studied long back.😳

That based on People's answers it showed in a relationship that some gave more than they recieved in the realtionship.

So for example response was a combination of 10 each, showing that i give as much as i would want to recieve in a relationship😳 so being equal.

So in a realtionship of any kind with your partner, does not matter if you are married or not should we expect equalness...or does it not matter if you give more than you recieve?

Same can be said for friendship, in friendship should we expect others to give as much back as we give to them? or in these kind of realtionships does iot just not matter if we give more to the person than we actually get back?

Is it important for you to recieve just as much love back as you give to others?

So also staee your combination of flowers. I'll analyse whether your are giving more😉 or recieving more😆😉

P.s sorry if similar discussion b4, feel free to close.😳

Edited by anon - 18 years ago

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hmmm...I would take all 20 red roses...and I do believ in giving more than I receive in any relationship 😊

okay...now I am really scared how that red roses analysis will look like 😆
Edited by Gauri_3 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

hmmm...I would take all 20 red roses...and I do believ in giving more than I receive in any relationship 😊

okay...now I am really scared how that red roses analysis will look like 😆

😆😆No dont worry, my 10 and 10 roses was just an example not personal to me - I would also give all 20 maybe😉

At least i would know from my side i am giving all i have...whether or not i get any back, depnds on the guy and his love...😉 At least if we give more, we know our love is true😉

Yes it was that if you gave more red roses you give more in the relationship and if you had a combunation of more white roses you recieve more than you give.😉

So ppl choose wisely😉

Edited by anon - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anon

😆😆No dont worry, my 10 and 10 roses was just an example not personal to me - I would also give all 20 maybe😉

At least i would know from my side i am giving all i have...whether or not i get any back, depnds on the guy and his love...😉 At least if we give more, we know our love is true😉

Yes it was that if you gave more red roses you give more in the relationship and if you had a combunation of more white roses you recieve more than you give.😉

So ppl choose wisely😉

😆😆 and I just realized that when i wrote "i would take all 20 red roses"...it was supposed to mean "for him"...hahaha...looks like missed those two words there😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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🤣😆 Don't worry i knew what you meant... 😉

Hehe yeaah steal all 20 for yourself.... 😆 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I will take half and half, not cause I believe in giving as much as recieving,
but cause I like symmetry. 😳 😆

Honestly, I always feel like I give more than I recieve, but it's probably cause
I just can't have enough. 😭 I am greedy when it comes to love and caring.
😳

Persy
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hmm..I think i'd give all 20 roses.😊

No, it's not important for you to recieve as much as you give but of course life would be so much better if you got as much as u gave. I personally feel that i give more than i get but it's okay i mean I'd love to one day get as much I give but it's not necessary that you get as much as you give.

You should just be true and sincere and you should get as much as you give.😳

Edited by bubblezz - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Tough choice really. I love white roses... there is something very pristine about them. 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think I would choose more red ...say around 15 and 16 and would add few white to give it a good look ..
by the way what does it tell 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: greatmaratha

Tough choice really. I love white roses... there is something very pristine about them. 😳



Oh I so very much agree with you! I adore the color white!!!

Coming to the topic, I think I will take 15 red roses, 2 white, 1 pink, 1 yellow and 1 orange. I will give the 19 away and keep 1 white to myself.
Overall, I think every person belives that they give more than the other in a relationship and the opposite person, might think the same as well. I don't know if you can actually judge in an unbiased way as to who gives more.

By the way, the colors have no significance, I just wanted variety 😆
Edited by rutumodi915 - 18 years ago

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