Most valuable relationship? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Anshu you always come up with great topics specially on relationships 👏 .

Each one of these relationships that you mentioned in this topic are important in different time of one's life. Each one is uniq. Actually they can't be and should not be compared. None of these relationships would be true and successful if one did not love themself. Loving your self first gives one confidence and makes one content within.

If you love yourself than you can love others IMHO.

DB again this is the best response I must say 👏

I can't compare two relations like this .. however in any sticky situation if I have to choose I probably would go for spouse ...... reason..... parent child relation will remain there always no matter what no one can break it .. but the relation with spouse though the most beautiful is most fragile relation ...need constant work and assurance ....😊

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

DB again this is the best response I must say 👏

I can't compare two relations like this .. however in any sticky situation if I have to choose I probably would go for spouse ...... reason..... parent child relation will remain there always no matter what no one can break it .. but the relation with spouse though the most beautiful is most fragile relation ...need constant work and assurance ....😊

Thanks Dewey 😛. I totally understand & agree with you about the relationship of marriage. We take wows to remain with each other until death do us part and it requires constant work and assurance as u mentioned. But don't you think all relationship requires that to survive?

For those reasons I don't think we can compare any of these relationships with other. It would be an injustice and would be apple to orange comparison IMHO.

They all are beautiful and required but have diff place in our lives. Varsha has spoken 😃

Parent/child relationship is a given so it cannot be compared to any other relation. Even animals are strongly attached towards their young and needy. 😃

But the realtionships we make from/with soul be it a true friend or significant other is the most important relationship that defines our happiness.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

Parent/child relationship is a given so it cannot be compared to any other relation. Even animals are strongly attached towards their young and needy. 😃

But the realtionships we make from/with soul be it a true friend or significant other is the most important relationship that defines our happiness.

i understand what you're saying but i differ at one point (bolded above) ....

i was hoping that someone would bring this up so i could explain what i meant by saying that you need to be true to yourself before anyone else because the most important relationship one has is with him/herself ........

i agree that a parent-child relations is unlike any other .... but i don't agree with saying that it can't be compared with any other relation ...... cause technically becoming a parent is also a relationship that one chooses to form ..... or at least one should ..... just take a look at how many children are in foster care or are living in orphanges in this world .... i understand that many of these children have lost their parents but there are way to many who have parents who shouldn't be parents in the first place ....... if these "parents" had been true to themselves and understood the relationship they had with themselves, they might have realized that having children and looking after them was not something they could do (its not enough to just have them ..... you need to be responsible for them too ...... and by being true to yourself is how one can know whether or not one can handle the added responsibility of additional relationships) .....

one should also be true to themselves before they get into any relations with anyone ...... i dunno why but i really loved the movie runaway bride because julia roberts has to realize how to be true to herself before she can commit to anyone ..... and i've really taken that message home with me😆 ....

sorry if i sound a little harsh or off topic .... lemme know and i'll edit😳

Originally posted by: lighthouse

But the realtionships we make from/with soul be it a true friend or significant other is the most important relationship that defines our happiness.

yepp.. nice! @ LH

i also loved maya's post about FRIEND. LH, you have put it in here as well.Tasha, I once again agree than one needs to know oneself and be one's best friend in order to provide happiness to one's soulmate.
great thread!

Originally posted by: raj5000

Whats the most valueable or one can drive happiness long tern, relationship in life

Parent and child VS husband and wife/ oneself/lover ?

Please don't for circumstancial analysis and view, think about it and pick one.

Thanks in advance for responses😊

Raj, I have often heard of unconditional love........ that of mother and her child. My mom is somewhere up there now........ but I really feel deep in my heart that that was the most unconditional and valuable love, be it your mom or dad. If the traces of this love can be an inspiration for a long-term relationship then what a wonderful world it would be!😳😳

Originally posted by: GUARDIAN ANGEL

Raj, I have often heard of unconditional love........ that of mother and her child. My mom is somewhere up there now........ but I really feel deep in my heart that that was the most unconditional and valuable love, be it your mom or dad. If the traces of this love can be an inspiration for a long-term relationship then what a wonderful world it would be!😳😳

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The RelatiOn Of GOD with human Beings is frst Of all... but SecOndly , the RalatiOnship, fOR ever and Ever, which never be Finished, UncOnditiOnal lOve... is Parents with their Child... YOu Never Fulfill what yOur Parents dO fOr yOu.. Speacially yOur MOther... Bt the RalatiOnship Of Lovers is just like GIve n Take... nO Offence but, its a given take of LOve... yOu Give lOve and Take LOve...Or Either It gOnna be brOken...

Originally posted by: ChameliKaYaar

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Aaw...... Manish. Thanks for your support yaar.😳

Originally posted by: NaVy1985

i understand what you're saying but i differ at one point (bolded above) ....

i was hoping that someone would bring this up so i could explain what i meant by saying that you need to be true to yourself before anyone else because the most important relationship one has is with him/herself ........

i agree that a parent-child relations is unlike any other .... but i don't agree with saying that it can't be compared with any other relation ...... cause technically becoming a parent is also a relationship that one chooses to form ..... or at least one should ..... just take a look at how many children are in foster care or are living in orphanges in this world .... i understand that many of these children have lost their parents but there are way to many who have parents who shouldn't be parents in the first place ....... if these "parents" had been true to themselves and understood the relationship they had with themselves, they might have realized that having children and looking after them was not something they could do (its not enough to just have them ..... you need to be responsible for them too ...... and by being true to yourself is how one can know whether or not one can handle the added responsibility of additional relationships) .....

Most parents who leave their children for adoption or foster care or simply can't look after them didn't make a conscious choice of having babies..😕 They probably underestimated the power of fertility goddess...😉 And it is sadly true, people who do not want kids or do not have financial, emotional means to care for them will be caught off guard with pregnancy when least expected. Of course all parents love their kids, some love other things in their life more then they love their own kids or are emotionaly and mentally not capable of changing themselves to love kids more.

One cannot have relationship with oneself..one has to understand oneself better and for that we need to accept a lot of things good and bad about us. Introspection is our own guiding force from within.