Does Friendship have boundries.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: sareg

Vineeeeeeeeeeeet Bhayya!!

I did'nt expect such a wonderful and matured answer from you.Really U said well👏

cheers,

Mythili

awww Myth no crying. He'll be back some day.
and yey sareg.. good point there, about friendship crossing limits.

LOL Maya, I appreciate how you like my post. My "typing fees invoice" is in mail. make sure ur check is in mail within next 48 hours or a late fee will be charged 😆

Does close friendship have any limitation or boundary or else we can joke and prank and be comfortable with them without a second thought ..

Yes, there is definitely a boundary...and infact being close friends I would expect them to know it. The only difference is that the boundary is infinitely expandable in this case...😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Not just friendship,but every relationship should stay within its boundaries imho.
A lot of the times, people start taking their relatives / close friends for granted. Comfort and proximity does not give one the liberty to take the other one for granted. It makes the other feel violated, hurt, embarrassed or even disgraced depending on the situation and that's usually when they complain of boundaries being crossed.

mqt

right QT but then what is be-inteha muhabbat?😊

nice topic... 😊
i read somewhere and believed so i would like to rephrase friendship as--- the human capacity for drawing boundaries and crossing bridges.

Just imagine that you are sitting in a car and the car have just a door in left hand side, SO definetly when the driver push brakes, the person on right side fall outside........................................
This one is perfect example of friendship without boundries. YOu denfietly fall from the side of Friendship where boundry is'nt present. When Some of YOur Friend decive YOu, then this is just like a Push brake in YOur life..............YOu fall from the car of Expectationssssssssss of YOur friendship........

There is an invisible line in every relationship, be it friendship or even love. The reason is that we human beings, while being "social animals", also have an innate need for our inner space. Some people don't understand this need and encroach on our inner world, thinking all is fair in love. I have had some experience in this respect (thankfully not too much) but it was enough to leave me jolted and to splinter my self-esteem for a while.

A true friend is one who recognises that there are certain things about you nobody can understand , not even him/her, and leave it at that. That is called mutual respect and understanding, and mind you, there can be no love without these.

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

right QT but then what is be-inteha muhabbat?😊

right qwerty, but Muhabbat is a FEELING, not a relationship. there are no boundaries to any feeling, may it be love, may it be hatred.

When Friendship open his Boundry wall, it converted in to love which have SIMPLY NO BOUNDRIES........... Coz love remains till death ..........and After death YOu have life of no limits, and when you die in love so you'll surely be in love at the place where YOu have to live alwayz. heavens.....So no boundries for Love.........