Does Friendship have boundries..

Hi Guys,

I have heard this sentence many times in films and in real too, people telling to others that you have crossed all the limits of friendship in other words :- tum ne dosti ki had ko par kardiya etc..

Does close friendship have any limitation or boundary or else we can joke and prank and be comfortable with them without a second thought ..

Friendship can be between any I mean same gender or opposite genders.

Cheers,

Ahmed

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Not just friendship,but every relationship should stay within its boundaries imho.
A lot of the times, people start taking their relatives / close friends for granted. Comfort and proximity does not give one the liberty to take the other one for granted. It makes the other feel violated, hurt, embarrassed or even disgraced depending on the situation and that's usually when they complain of boundaries being crossed.

mqt

true anything beyond limits is harmful and crossing the limits in a relation may harm it.

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

Hi Guys,

Does close friendship have any limitation or boundary or else we can joke and prank and be comfortable with them without a second thought ..

Just depends on the maturity of the persons involved, for some there is a boundary, for some there is no boundary, for some close friends are soul mates

now if there are feelings outside of friendship, that does not remain friendship does it?

Cheers, Ahmed

Cheers Ahmed😉

Every relationship most definitely has a boundary. Friendships between diff. gender individuals will obviously have a broader boundary , because some may feel that there is less one can share.

The bottom line is that one should feel comfortable with a friend, etc. Once one starts feeling uncomfortable, the limit has been crossed and obviously the friend has been hurt. Generally close friends are aware that a boundary has been put up and not cross that limit... once a boundary has been crossed, either one of the individuals or both have been hurt and some work needs to be done to gather back the trust.

I think that there is nothing wrong with diff. gender friendships, but there has to be a limit or boundary in place as friends- as this is a line that is very easy to cross. Eg, jokes may not be taken in the same way, etc.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Not just friendship,but every relationship should stay within its boundaries imho.
A lot of the times, people start taking their relatives / close friends for granted. Comfort and proximity does not give one the liberty to take the other one for granted. It makes the other feel violated, hurt, embarrassed or even disgraced depending on the situation and that's usually when they complain of boundaries being crossed.

mqt

I am lazy to type again so Yay! QT😃.