Actors getting married...your views!!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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..I'm asking specifically about actors as there always talking about how they have to work 24/7...and have no time for anything else

Do you think it's harder if one actor gets married to another...than it is for an actor getting married to a normal person??

Are they more likely to have more problems than the usual couple?

Just curious...😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Its strange. You'd think that it was easier, since both would know the pressures of working in the film industry and would empathise and understand when one or the other had to put work ahead of everything else. But at the same time, it does cause more problems - if both are insanely busy, they'll never meet. If both are as committed and dedicated to their work as each other, they will be less likely to make compromises or sacrifices. I mean, for one thing, I highly doubt that Ash is going to give up films after marriage, and there's no reason for her to. In the same way, one cannot expect Abhishek to cut back on his work, esp. at such a stage in his career. Then where does the time come to be together? Start a family? Unless both actors choose to do films together or arrange schedules around each other, its going to be a very taxing experience of marriage...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: psawyer

Its strange. You'd think that it was easier, since both would know the pressures of working in the film industry and would empathise and understand when one or the other had to put work ahead of everything else. But at the same time, it does cause more problems - if both are insanely busy, they'll never meet. If both are as committed and dedicated to their work as each other, they will be less likely to make compromises or sacrifices. I mean, for one thing, I highly doubt that Ash is going to give up films after marriage, and there's no reason for her to. In the same way, one cannot expect Abhishek to cut back on his work, esp. at such a stage in his career. Then where does the time come to be together? Start a family? Unless both actors choose to do films together or arrange schedules around each other, its going to be a very taxing experience of marriage...

I know...that's what's erking....where there is a total understanding of each other's lives...time comes and ruins it...I personally belive if you take actors like Ajay Devgan and Kajol...they seem to be doing well with one child...but there's the situation of Kajol leaving the industry for that...now it's her wish who she wants to get married to...but is losing your career for your marriage with an actor the perfect choice...as it is that you stated all the problems,wouldn't it have been better for her to marry some normal guy and work aswell??

This is another problem...loosing your career "specially females"...when you get married to another actor...that doesn't seem fair😕

I'm just stating this...it's not wishful...

Edited by qazplm - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hiya.... i know it is a complex issue with moree couples spliting due 2 heavy schedules.... but personally kajol aint gone... shes there and madhuri but their focus is kinda on their marriage which i really respect them for that..

i dont like mothers who only fink abt their career and leave their family life... 😊 at the end its all abt understanding each other and giving each other the respect and love they need thru (texting lol) thats what i do hehe even tho im a normal girl and not an actress

ok lol me talkin rubbish ere soz 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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The same topic was discussing at the tarot reading for abhishek-ash on aaj tak news and hindustan times. It said, there will be lots of problems due to not having much time and both have to sacrifice lots of things. What kajol did was right, she got married at the age of 24, which no actress will do. ash is 33 and some media ppl say she is 35. so i think ash will take few years leave once she complete her projects and have a family.

Ash isn't a good actress as compare to kajol and madhuri. So i won't be sad if ash quit doing movies or continue doing movies. I respect kajol for what she do and she has done. Even she is a wife and a mother, her movies still are getting successful, she still getting praised. Her fans are dying to see her. I think it all matter how talented you are. Bollywood is changing and now actresses too getting bigger and good roles like kajol did in fanaa and madhuri getting in yashraj production.

I don't think it's difficult if 2 people marrying with the same profession like the topic stated if a actor marries actress, can it be a problem? i don't think so, unless a couple has a very bad communicating with each other. Look at kajol. she has given time to everyone equally. even if ash continue to continue movies, abhishek won't mind as he's very opened minded guy. but i don't think ash would do roles like she did in dhoom 2. Nor she could go to hollywood, if she did then there could be problems on the marriage. Because ash as a wife will have to take care of her family, like kajol, madhuri and juhi did.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think comparing Madhuri or kajol to Aish would be like comparing Apples to oranges! Aish to begin with is an extremely beautiful and intelligent woman. She thinks with her brain and not her heart. The only reason she is marrying Abhishek is for the last name "Bachchan". The only reason she is where she is today is because of her intelligence (and of course her beauty helped her, defenitely not her acting!). Kajol and Madhuri wanted to get married and start families. However Aish is different. She is too career oriented. She cannot be tied up for long. I will give 5 years before this marriage breaks. However, I will pray that I am wrong.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: rat718

I think comparing Madhuri or kajol to Aish would be like comparing Apples to oranges! Aish to begin with is an extremely beautiful and intelligent woman. She thinks with her brain and not her heart. The only reason she is marrying Abhishek is for the last name "Bachchan". The only reason she is where she is today is because of her intelligence (and of course her beauty helped her, defenitely not her acting!). Kajol and Madhuri wanted to get married and start families. However Aish is different. She is too career oriented. She cannot be tied up for long. I will give 5 years before this marriage breaks. However, I will pray that I am wrong.

Abhi-Ash were just an example...im talking about Actors specifically...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Initial years of marriage are difficult for any working couples...the career of one has to take a back seat!

In ash- Abhi's talking form the audiences POV...I think we all will prefer the ex Ms. world to sit at home...hehehe! 😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Whatever they decide, I wish them a happy married life.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jatayu

Whatever they decide, I wish them a happy married life.




ditto,. but if it fails, then abhi, i am around 😆

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