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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: NigelMolesworth

One soulmate, true love is all unrealistic expectation. Do people really spend their entire life with one person loving them the same way?

I believe in love.

it really depends on time and how lucky you are to gain that perspective... you cant love someone.. it just happens... and that not stating a cliche 😆.. its true...there is no word or relation or fancy things like soul mate...etc.. its just a state of being.. Love has become a 4 letter word these days... 😆.. it wasnt meant to be that way though and the truth is it is..

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Posted: 10 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

its simple.. if you dont want to find then you won't... the question is how much open one to connect with people that true love... and trust me.. it may take a while.. but if would be life changing experience... marrying for family, or just cause one has to... can work but its nothing but drudgery to find that true love in a person you just cant connect with... marriage does create illusion of love.. but that just like the feelings we develop for people we spend more time with... its not really true love though...

@ bold--- If not then what is true love? Not that bells ringing and birds singing crap 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: qwertyesque
. you cant love someone.. it just happens... and that not stating a cliche 😆.. its true...there is no word or relation or fancy things like soul mate...etc.. its just a state of being.. Love has become a 4 letter word these days... 😆.. it wasnt meant to be that way though and the truth is it is..

As you said falling in love may not be in our hands but how would you know if it is "true" or not? 😕

Moreover if it is something that just happens it is also possible that it could happen against the person's will. 😲 Phir kya??

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Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: zorrro

As you said falling in love may not be in our hands but how would you know if it is "true" or not? 😕
Moreover if it is something that just happens it is also possible that it could happen against the person's will. 😲 Phir kya??

If u believe in the almighty..true love is anthr of his games..n if it happens against sm1's will..then mayb its for their good..arranged marriages in india as an example..eventually u realise hw tht person is ur true mate..tht is true love..the sense of comfort has gone upto anothr level..of course its not necessary tht u REALISE tht it is true love..mayb u just neglect it..

Somethings mayb around us..bt often we dont notice them..

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: zorrro

As you said falling in love may not be in our hands but how would you know if it is "true" or not? 😕
Moreover if it is something that just happens it is also possible that it could happen against the person's will. 😲 Phir kya??

you may take this as crap but when in true love you would know it.. things start happening...your perspecitive of things would radically change and everybody most ot time would make it out by looking at your face... remember thats true love... one has to be lucky though...true love is far more powerful than just a likeing for each other.. or having a crush.. or anything else.. it has similar level of intrigue as divinity...

more often and most american make love sound like match.com...they are morons... 😆..

happening against persons will wont be true love...its not one sided crush...its an active connection you make with that person.. its always two way...that connexion has to be in ones stars... 😊

But to just get real.. its not that common so most people wont even have this experience.. so... its futile.. chasing it...

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: zorrro

@ bold--- If not then what is true love? Not that bells ringing and birds singing crap 😆

let me put it this way.. true love iis a more powerful connexion then most often we connect with people.. we love our siblings and friends.. that one kind.. we love our parents that another kind.. but these are all incidental.. you never chose any of these...true love gives a state of high and if it just began.. until the point it works for someone it is quite painful...and both of them will know it..

Heres the real kicker...both romeo and juliet were around 15-16 when they died.. so you can imagine how fleeting was ther love story. about 2 years? the greatest among true love..!!!. i just want to see how would ljuliet and romeo look like when 60...😆

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#47

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

you may take this as crap but when in true love you would know it.. things start happening...your perspecitive of things would radically change and everybody most ot time would make it out by looking at your face... remember thats true love... one has to be lucky though...true love is far more powerful than just a likeing for each other.. or having a crush.. or anything else.. it has similar level of intrigue as divinity...

more often and most american make love sound like match.com...they are morons... 😆..

happening against persons will wont be true love...its not one sided crush...its an active connection you make with that person.. its always two way...that connexion has to be in ones stars... 😊

But to just get real.. its not that common so most people wont even have this experience.. so... its futile.. chasing it...

By "against the will " I had meant that person himself hearing bells and birds without wanting to hear them in his head .😆 One way or two way crush will be later but what if that person does not want it to happen? Is it still going to happen if it is in the stars? Cant a person simply wish the birds and bells away if and when they do start ringing? 😛

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#48

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

let me put it this way.. true love iis a more powerful connexion then most often we connect with people.. we love our siblings and friends.. that one kind.. we love our parents that another kind.. but these are all incidental.. you never chose any of these...true love gives a state of high and if it just began.. until the point it works for someone it is quite painful...and both of them will know it..

Heres the real kicker...both romeo and juliet were around 15-16 when they died.. so you can imagine how fleeting was ther love story. about 2 years? the greatest among true love..!!!. i just want to see how would ljuliet and romeo look like when 60...😆

I did not know that R & J were that young 😲. They did not have the sense to stay away perhaps 😕 An involuntary type of connexion giving a temporary high leading to suicide cant be any good 🤔

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Posted: 10 years ago

#49

Ya...Romeo and Juliet are morons for listening to thier hormones... It was a relationship between a 13 yr old and 17 yr old that lasted 3 days and resulted in 6 deaths...and the fact the world romantizes this story is beyoned comprehension then again, Twilight proves that the romanticization of stupid teenage obsession is still alive and well...😉

Edited by -Believe- - 10 years ago

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 10 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: zorrro

I did not know that R & J were that young 😲. They did not have the sense to stay away perhaps 😕 An involuntary type of connexion giving a temporary high leading to suicide cant be any good 🤔

😆 No they didnt get a temporary high.. they had a permanent high..😛 but thats not the reason they killed themselves... it was total misunderstanding...R thought J was dead so killed himself.. seeing R dead J killed herself... it was not about immaturity.. it was pure love.. they were star-crossed!!! you know Romeo and juliet is really a tragedy...

Edited by qwertyesque - 10 years ago