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With The Help Of Meditation Can A Person Can Reduce Hate And Jealousy Of His Relatives And Neighbours Towards Him 😊 ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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hmmm...for some reason its usually the others that we wish to change rather than ourselves !?
Meditation is for bringing about a transformation in the practitioner and not his neighbours or relatives! However, with regular practice when the practitioner achieves a stable state of mind, the hatred or jealousy that he earlier used to perceive in his neighbours/relatives would cease to be bothersome to him.

Others did not change, the practitioner's perception changed and with that the desired peace was attained.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: CricktFan

With The Help Of Meditation Can A Person Can Reduce Hate And Jealousy Of His Relatives And Neighbours Towards Him 😊 ?

Meditation helps us to calm our minds, focus and think clearly. Why do they hate you ? Why are they jealous ? Or is it because you have been showing off too much ?
Prayers help too.
By cultivating love towards all we may get love in return.
Sometimes we just cannot get along with certain people due to differences in personalites etc so I guess it may be best to avoid them until the right time.
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Originally posted by: Summer3

Meditation helps us to calm our minds, focus and think clearly. Why do they hate you ? Why are they jealous ? Or is it because you have been showing off too much ?

Prayers help too.
By cultivating love towards all we may get love in return.
Sometimes we just cannot get along with certain people due to differences in personalites etc so I guess it may be best to avoid them until the right time.

But if a Person Strongly Focus On Meditation Then He Can Get Many Spritual And Magical Powers Like Curing Diseases And Injury Of Other People ,Walking On River Or Lake ,Reading Of Mind Of Any Person At Any Time and Many Other Supernatural Powers then Why It Is Not Possible to Reduce Hate And Jealousy Of Other People With The Help Of Meditation 😊 .
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Hmmph. For me Meditation is something very personal. Its about bringing your all emotions up without being judgmental about it and just listening to it what your brain is saying. U see, how when we feel negative about something we generally resist ? And the things we resist, it persists. Thats what we are dealing in our meditation - to re surface all these emotions and try to probe in deeper. When our brain becomes relax and calm - we have the clarity, we do get to know - why and from what we are getting affected by. If you're working with a coach or a therapist they bring wonders. But i do think you require certain amount of awareness in yourself as well. Awareness in the sense that you need to accept that you're jealous and you don't like neighbors. Half of the people won't even admit to it. So, Yeah! I do think meditation can pin point from where these insecurities and jealousy are rising up. Sometimes, its the childhood or past trauma which lead to development of defense mechanism, certain patterns.

At the end of the day, meditation can help out with getting answers but ultimately you have to put effort and be watchful the way you feel. If you have negative feelings, you do know there is unhealed part in you which needs to nurtured.

edit: ok, i read the question again. 😆 I made a boo boo. Anyway, i think noone can control other person, there is a free will that comes to play. Yes, you can send them energy vibes and also can do prayers for them. But ultimately, its the person's own journey .. Every person take their own time to evolve themselves up. You can send positive vibes to them but other person also need to be open to receive that positivity. Its all about balance. You can send good wishes post card and put up in their mail box but for receiving that letter they need to get up from bed, come out of house and check their mail box. Otherwise, whats the point ? You can send them either 1 post card or million- it will not affect it, if they are not open to it. I hope, i am making some sense.
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Hmmph. For me Meditation is something very personal. Its about bringing your all emotions up without being judgmental about it and just listening to it what your brain is saying. U see, how when we feel negative about something we generally resist ? And the things we resist, it persists. Thats what we are dealing in our meditation - to re surface all these emotions and try to probe in deeper. When our brain becomes relax and calm - we have the clarity, we do get to know - why and from what we are getting affected by. If you're working with a coach or a therapist they bring wonders. But i do think you require certain amount of awareness in yourself as well. Awareness in the sense that you need to accept that you're jealous and you don't like neighbors. Half of the people won't even admit to it. So, Yeah! I do think meditation can pin point from where these insecurities and jealousy are rising up. Sometimes, its the childhood or past trauma which lead to development of defense mechanism, certain patterns.

At the end of the day, meditation can help out with getting answers but ultimately you have to put effort and be watchful the way you feel. If you have negative feelings, you do know there is unhealed part in you which needs to nurtured.

edit: ok, i read the question again. 😆 I made a boo boo. Anyway, i think noone can control other person, there is a free will that comes to play. Yes, you can send them energy vibes and also can do prayers for them. But ultimately, its the person's own journey .. Every person take their own time to evolve themselves up. You can send positive vibes to them but other person also need to be open to receive that positivity. Its all about balance. You can send good wishes post card and put up in their mail box but for receiving that letter they need to get up from bed, come out of house and check their mail box. Otherwise, whats the point ? You can send them either 1 post card or million- it will not affect it, if they are not open to it. I hope, i am making some sense.

Good , Nice And Great Reply 👏 👍🏼😊 .
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Originally posted by: CricktFan

But if a Person Strongly Focus On Meditation Then He Can Get Many Spritual And Magical Powers Like Curing Diseases And Injury Of Other People ,Walking On River Or Lake ,Reading Of Mind Of Any Person At Any Time and Many Other Supernatural Powers then Why It Is Not Possible to Reduce Hate And Jealousy Of Other People With The Help Of Meditation 😊 .

Why do you type in bold letters ? seems like you really want to be heard 😆
In order to meditate there are various steps to be followed first.
Like Yama, Niyama or basically controlling the senses and emotions.
But yes, the control of the prana or breath can bring about special powers but it should not be abused.
Hatred can only be overcome with love, understanding and forgiveness.
Meditation helps us to be more introspective too and get a better understanding.
Certain mantras and prayers are useful tools eg. the Gayatri Mantra, the King of all Mantras.
Listening to devotional songs and mantras is the initial step.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Is it OK being happy about the huge no. of people jealous of oneself?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: iMini

Is it OK being happy about the huge no. of people jealous of oneself?


Absolutely!! 😆 Its not your problem that people are jealous from you. Surely, You're doing something right to trigger their points. :D I would be happy tbh.

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