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Originally posted by: Quixotic5
You made perfect sense to me..actually i was expecting a similar reply..so i totally saw it coming..my approach was very primeval & you explained the complicated dynamics of the complex modern human society...and that is why i made it point to mention it my previous post that complex modern society too will have its impact since the male-female equation too has changed..however, i still feel that the primeval tendency is still at work even in the complex modern society
that's what I intended to write, i gotya well :)..have u noticed how a man , given an opportunity will never miss a chance to have sex & how his friends will ridicule him for being so picky when an opportunity presented itself ?..its like stop being a pussy , u dont have to marry her !..and about women's 'biological needs', that too has changed over the ages , i think human females have developed an ability to have sex irrespective of their desire to have kids, in most animal species, females will not waste their time & energy in anonymous sex, only intent of sex being to get pregnant, but things are different now , but still have you noticed how a woman indulging in anonymous sex is not seen in a positive light by the society in general ?Quixote, biological needs = sexual needs 😆 Human females are sensual too.. from a certain age, differs in each. But, I think it's mostly linked to her deep wish for a baby(may not be true) If men are having anonymous sex, there MUST be some female to do that with, remember that! 😆 ..unless ofcourse, most men go to prostitutes.That's because of "gender"...'she' isnt a female, 'she is a WOMAN, a LADY...so hence due to the societal structure, 'she' is looked at in a bad light if she only satisfies her biological needs...but a man doing the same, its almost like a credit..why such double standards ?The psyche of the society is like that. Sex is a very personal issue.. it shouldnt bother anyone. It is something private and something very natural, just like taking a leak... 😆 I infact feel that neither of a married couple should ask about each others' "venturing"...but have u noticed how a woman's desire to have sex during ovulation period increases?Ohhooo.. that's why a woman looks appealing than usual during ovulation :o ...so it's all harmones, nothing else. hmmm. This does it, harmones are at work, that means it is a very natural and a biological thing, like a reminder to "come on, now, you look all perked up, go get some and create a new life"...i believe its bcoz of our retained primeval tendency which is at work with or without our knowledge..now some people r working really hard towards abolishing such double standards, in effect changing the way a modern society works- whether this is how nature intended it to be or not ,or whether it will have positive or negative effects on our species is yet to be seen..Nature does whatever it does at right time for the right cause... I believe in that 😃 even if we were to be totally wiped of this planet. Wonder what our new abode would have in store for us?! ❤️i believe in the process women might (just a possibility) get their inhibitions lowered & in that , every tom-dick-harry stands a chance to father a child..Quix, I really feel there is a difference between satisfying biological needs, and picking RIGHT father for mothering a baby. A LOT of difference. Women are very sensitive and serious about the latter, ofcourse, unless both are thrown out of the window for LOVE 😳 btw can you elaborate on bold?besides its just not limited to that ,there are many many other factors too , even same-sex couple could happily have their own biological children & may be nature never intended for these people to have children, but i bet it sounds harsh now..again its complex co-operative modern society that we are talking about..its hard to predict what would work& what wouldn't for our species in times to come ..yes, so things have changed & the effects too will vary accordingly..😊..Can you elaborate @bold?Quixote, I'll say that women are only more outgoing...not like women didnt have amorous relationships/gigolos in the past, this anonymous sex is on the rise perhaps... but only to satisfy her sexual needs. Women still would want such-and-such as a father of her baby. So, nothing really is changing...what we can do is, stop worrying about things which are not always in our hand ,live ur life & do what appeals to humanity- that should tell u what is right & what is wrong in the current society..cheers..😃 ..and i hope i havn't confused u with this complex post.. 😆No no, dw about that.. it's always nice to engage in such discussions :)
