E-Flings = Cheating ?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: peridot.

Who would be the most anti-social of them all here? Name at least three who qualify from both genders 😆

Originally posted by: OnepoundChic

sorry for peeping in ..(i think)i can name 1 respectively from each gender but i won't 😆

One instead of three. That will do, please go on name them 😆 I think he meant unsocial and not anti-social so half the fun was lost 😉

Originally posted by: CestMoi

How about you tell us and your take on it...

I am still waiting for Aarya's take 😒

Originally posted by: CestMoi

What is your take on E-Flings especially when one is involved in a relationship out in the real world. Do you think it is cheating on one's partner with a virtual identity. And where would you draw the line in terms of feelings, involvement and time.

I shall input my thoughts as we go along. So please discuss away, I would love to hear what is your take on E-Flings and if you would call it cheating considering one isn't single.

Does it make it "not cheating" if the person is single and has no real feelings for the people he/she flirts with. What if such a person "misleads" the other person into belieiving something that was not meant/meant . Would that be cheating or not cheating?

Ofcourse even if its virtual then too its wrong,in virtual world identities can be fake but people are real,what if you get seriously involved with the person to the extent of craving them in your real life?

It's like watching po*n. Some people get off on it. But in any case, I don't see why you'd flirt online when you're in a relationship in real life. How's online "romance" fulfilling in any way? Its just temporary insanity and time pass. It does not even compare to the real thing. So yea I don't get it but I'm willing to bracket it into the same category as watching po*n. I wouldn't say it's cheating necessarily unless of course my S/O was planning to meet that person in real life and take it up a notch. If its just limited to online, I have no issues. I used to be a very jealous person once but I've mellowed down. Perhaps, this is another reason for my answer as well.

Originally posted by: peridot.

I am still waiting for Aarya's take 😒

It all depends on where you draw the line on a mental affair...

To some cheating is more about one's spouse feeling emotionally connected to someone else while to others it may just be physical...

Originally posted by: peridot.

One instead of three. That will do, please go on name them 😆 I think he meant unsocial and not anti-social so half the fun was lost 😉

lol now you are cheating yourselves. 😆 Having an e-fling is cheating. Stepping out and thinking of your coworkers when you can be spending time fantasizing about your girlfriend is cheating. Walking on the street and looking at the babe's legs is cheating. One way or the other, it's cheating. Cheater cocks, that's what people are. That is why the non-cheating question one should be asking is not whether it's cheating, but rather how bad, how intolerable, how inexcusable... how adulterated, how x-rated it all is. 😆 There is cheating, and then there is cheating. All cheating are not created equal... that's the point😆