E-Flings = Cheating ??

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hit_homerun

@hit_homerun

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

To be honest , this is pretty serious . It was just two days ago i guess, when i read that article . The lover told his girl that he would love her for life . And the girl waited for days when he would finally do so offline . An when he didn't , she was off ... Forever !

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return_to_hades

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Some friendly flirting, whether in real life or virtual by nature is completely natural and normal even if you are in a committed relationship. There is a difference between flirting with the intent to hook up, get something more and just flirting in a friendly, teasing manner. It becomes cheating only when you want more, blur your boundaries or cross them. Boundaries can vary from couple to couple.

If you can comfortably tell you significant other about flirting and be open about things like how you find someone cute, or how someone always hits on you, or how you spend time with a flirtatious friend – then you should be fine. However, if you feel the need to hide, lie, deceive or if you suffer guilty pangs and discomfort – then you have a problem. You're probably crossing that line between being faithful and cheating.

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-Aarya-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

How different are mental affairs vs physical affairs? Aren't they both considered cheating...

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy
I say how about first hand experience... I am ready to offer you my flirting services CM.. 😆

You keep changing your seats every other day. One day you are a dudette and the next a dude. Now how am I supposed to have a fling with you when you aren't even sure of your own gender 😆

I rather hit on a girl than someone who doesn't know what he or she is 😆😆

As for the rest, later man, don't know why I opened a topic when I have tons on my plate, silly me. But I have full faith on DMians that they will carry on the discussion. It seems like we do have two sides already to have a good discussion on it.

Edited by CestMoi - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: -Aarya-
How different are mental affairs vs physical affairs? Aren't they both considered cheating...

How about you tell us and your take on it...

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enigmatic_zephy

@enigmatic_zephy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: CestMoi

You keep changing your seats every other day. One day you are a dudette and the next a dude. Now how am I supposed to have a fling with you when you aren't even sure of your own gender 😆

I rather hit on a girl than someone who doesn't know what he or she is 😆😆

As for the rest, later man, don't know why I opened a topic when I have tons on my plate, silly me. But I have full faith on DMians that they will carry on the discussion. It seems like we do have two sides already to have a good discussion on it.

I know who I am...I just don't tell..people assume what they want to... and the play along..its fun to see their reactions.. 😆

Edited by enigmatic_zephy - 12 years ago

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Forever-KA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

This is based on my observation of this forum over the years. This does not mean it applies to all but to flirts.

I think the issue is attention seeking and flirting is part of it. Basically human nature is that we love attention. We want to be popular, we want to be loved and liked. We enjoy when boys flirt with us as we think we are something special. We love when girls give us attention. This is one aspect. Other aspects are we want to be known as most handsome, best debater etc.

Now is this mindest wrong? I have mixed feelings here. In case of wanting to be the best in debating or wanting to be famous the act is mostly individual. In case of flirting you are playing with emotions of others. Here if the person on the other side is a flirt or a sport then yes flirting is fine. However if someone on the other side gets serious then its wrong in my opinion. Also if you are in relationship in real life and then flirting here then its definitely wrong. I just dont see a reason for flirting with anyone if you are in relationship with someone.

We see flirting here because it is my observation that people who tend to be anti-social in real life are more here and therefore they like attention here. lol.

Now this does not apply to all as many ae here for dramas, movies, spent time, make friends. I am talking about flirts and mindset behind those. Its basically attention seeking.

I have encountered friends here and never interacted with any flirts. Whoever I have interacted with has been friendly and I wont call it flrting. lol

Edited by King-Anu - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: King-Anu

We see flirting here because it is my observation that people who tend to be anti-social in real life are more here and therefore they like attention here. lol.

Who would be the most anti-social of them all here? Name at least three who qualify from both genders 😆

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Forever-KA

@Forever-KA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: peridot.

Who would be the most anti-social of them all here? Name at least three who qualify from both genders 😆

dot,

as an old timer, i have participated in many motw and read many posts. most of the time people present themselves or say they are anti social and have few friends and enjoy forum because they express themselves here etc. It is based on this that I conluded that people tend to be anti-social here. its all relative. its not like they are living in a cave dressed in straw attire.

I wont name names. I am myself anti-social. I dont make friends. Then again royals like us do not get into friendships easily anyway. lol

okay king has to go for swimming (its hot here lol) and then meet his janta later on. lol. u tc dot. byeee

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Ain

@OnepoundChic

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

i agree with most of the people here ..

if one has loyal(like really loyal) feelings for someone in real life he/she won't get involved in online relation ships or flings in my pov.., nd personally when i don't like to get involved in such things in real life i won't like it online either ..nd i have seen some people who have some problems in their real lives try finding shoulders in e-world nd if they succeed to get the attention they get too serious about it ,then e/heart breaks while the other person may had been relishing the moment only,time pass as in...

And definitely there are people who are despairingly involved in so called harmless flirting . i really don't get what exactly their notion is behind the non stop onset(😆) but excess of every thing is bad at the end of the day ,they should not keep their partners in dark ,i mean you cant then expect a fairlyLiquidSoap-ed(washed nd stainless😆) partner ,double standards as said.. i'd like to recommend em itch guard 1st 😆

p.s! i see my 'hubby' gettin' out of control here ..e-flinging huh? :/ 😆

Edited by OnepoundChic - 12 years ago

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