How big of a deal is Virginity to you - Page 3

@The Boss – I've been curious how come you decided to hang out in Debate Mansion these days. I thought you were planning on disappearing until BB7 or trying to use your other IDs?

Originally posted by: --arti--

It's important to not have sexual relations when one is too young/immature/inexperienced. But beyond that, my personal preference would be to be with someone who doesn't think consensual sex between two adults is a huge deal.

Sex is so overhyped in western society too, not just Indian culture. There are all these lame ideas about sexual prowess (how to be good in bed, how to do x, how to do y), and I find all of it profoundly alienating, and frankly quite boring. There is so much emphasis on technique (I guess magazines have to sell something), rather than actual emotional maturity or self-confidence, knowing what you find pleasurable, etc. I think good sex is about knowing yourself and exploring your own pleasure as much as it is about exploring your partner.

Sex is such a stand-in for intimacy in all these weird ways. But the truth is that sex is different from intimacy. So casual sex, non-monogamous sex, it's all good. As long as it's not bad sex or mediocre sex. Everyone should get good sex.

Oh, and I think men who brag about how good they are in bed are usually pretty bad in bed. Sorry.

There is no catch all, one-size-fits all technique. Every individual and every relationship is different. The most fun is in discovering each other. Emotional chemistry in bed is just as important as the physical chemistry.

Originally posted by: --arti--

It's important to not have sexual relations when one is too young/immature/inexperienced. But beyond that, my personal preference would be to be with someone who doesn't think consensual sex between two adults is a huge deal.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

@The Boss ' I've been curious how come you decided to hang out in Debate Mansion these days. I thought you were planning on disappearing until BB7 or trying to use your other IDs?

Originally posted by: McNinja

Jus primae noctis. 👏 👏

Originally posted by: TheBoss

You don't expect me to google that do you? Na head, na tail kuch to batao what was that? 😆

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Personally I do not mind people who are experienced as they are less of the emotional baggage, but in my culture it is expected that the girl be a virgin. A cousin of mine infact had to literally hang his blood stained bedsheet from the wedding night in the balcony just to show that he has consummated their marriage.

In another situation friend found that his wife was no longer a virgin, despite her protests that she has never been with a guy and it might have been due to physical a ctivity as an avid horse rider, hiker, gymnastics etc.

But my friend bought none of it, he was pretty determined that was absolute baloney, and rightly so I agree.