Need some help with DAHEJ/DOWRY list

Hello Folks,

Bride's family can't interfere in anything till you ask them to do so 😆...this should be first demand 😆

errr... I think you need to give someone a dowry to marry you.

This Dowry thing sucks big tume...and its more demeaning to the guy than the gal. It seems that the grooms are on sale. LOL

But it still persists...One of my college frens just got her marriage fixd with a same caste guy. Her dad is gifting the groom an SUV in tilak...

how about some anti-dowry pills?? 😛

Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti

errr... I think you need to give someone a dowry to marry you.

Dowry is the one of the foremost reason why daugters are not valued as much as the sons in the subcontinent...the tortures and deaths that many women undergo as a result of this social evil is unimaginable and heartwrenching.

I strongly believe that people(including you) should discourage the practise of taking/giving dowry. Its one of those ancient inhuman practices that need to be buried away for good.

Originally posted by: Freethinker112

The girl, for starters.

Congratulations, TheBoss! I see the girl's family fulfilled all of your demands, including the super rare mustache and chest-hair fertilizer... 😆

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Hello Folks,

I need some help preparing a Dahej/Dowry list. Im a person of desi origin but I was born abroad so Im not up to date with the local customs but Im basically aiming for the best bang for buck. What are the things can I demand from the girls parent?

I used to be a anti dowry person but it was hopeless I couldn't change peoples thinking so Im finally decided to join the ranks and bring out my desi colors. 😆

I heard this is a common practice so I would like to seek your help. Basically I want to leave out no stone unturned, as a Indian male Im proud to get this opportunity and rather not see it get wasted.

What are the things I should demand?