VIRGIN Debate: Would you date one and WHY?!

😲 This might be a controversial subject, but I think it calls for a debate. Would you DATE a VIRGIN and WHY?! Do VIRGINS hamper a relationship with the lack of experience? Or, are you open to discovering what it will lead to?! Please share your thoughts, it should be a eye-opener!

Originally posted by: EroticGauravMad

😲 This might be a controversial subject, but I think it calls for a debate. Would you DATE a VIRGIN and WHY?! Do VIRGINS hamper a relationship with the lack of experience? Or, are you open to discovering what it will lead to?! Please share your thoughts, it should be a eye-opener!

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Till some time ago it used to be about 'will you date/ marry someone who's not a virgin'. And now it's about 'will you date/ marry someone who's a virgin'. 😕

reminds me of job ads where they ask only for experienced people, man that's so lame :P


well sure, considering I'm one myself :P

And if I wasn;t I really wouldn't care- and why? Because I'm not Madly erotic :P

I wouldn't. It is emotionally draining to date someone with sexual hang ups. You have to tip toe around them. Besides, if they are saving themselves for religious reasons (which seems to be the case mostly), then that is even more off putting because I am not a believer. I only date men that know what they are doing in the bed. Teaching can be fun initially but sometimes you just want the man to be the man and do the work and not expect you to lead. Been there done that, got the t-shirt, never doing it again.

It used to be the opposite which was the red hot debatable topic a while back...i.e. - would you date a non-virgin. Hah. How society changes, and so soon!

As for the topic, sure why not.

On second thoughts, I realize the answer to this question will depend upon the gender answering. Men (most) would not have a problem dating a virgin. In fact, most will even be more turned on by the fact that she's a virgin. However, for men (especially those living in the west), this is a tricky situation as societal norm dictates otherwise.

@Dexterkichokri

I agree...If I weren't a virgin I really wouldn't want to be on a bed teaching a man what to do...talk about a huge turn off 😳
(In case it isn't obvious, as someone here and on a another forum thought I was a man, I am a female 😆)
However, having sex with a non-virgan makes you really wonder...who was there before you 😆

Originally posted by: .-Moksha-.

@Dexterkichokri

I agree...If I weren't a virgin I really wouldn't want to be on a bed teaching a man what to do...talk about a huge turn off 😳
(In case it isn't obvious, as someone here and on a another forum thought I was a man, I am a female 😆)
However, having sex with a non-virgan makes you really wonder...who was there before you 😆

It is incredible how society changes. A few years ago, it was just the opposite. I remember receiving flak for saying its ok to be a non-virgin, other things are more important.

Virgin or non-virgin isn't that important for me, as long as they find klutzy dorkiness and nerdy pillow talk to actually be charming. The overall chemistry of the current relationship is more important than the past.