VIRGIN Debate: Would you date one and WHY?! - Page 14

Originally posted by: joie de vivre

As long as you have the sense to keep your judgement to yourself, I guess it is.

It's when you open you gob and spill out your prejudices - because that's what a judgement really is, isn't it, a reinforcement of your moral bias - about an aspect of another person which in no way affects you or the society in general in any way that people will, in turn, judge you as a sad, pathetic little douche. 😛

And doesn't that precise description sum up nearly--bless me---99.5% of the humanly population's minds?😛

The gob is itself a pathetic organ----which requires a whole law to preserve it's right to spill all the prejudices one wants to. And if we really,R-E-A-L-L-Y remained silent on whatever doesn't affect us, trust me, we'd be not humans. He (or She) who doesn't like a good gossip time to time reserves no right to be called an ordinary human being.😆

People judge. And they judge because the mind does. And it does so before we can ask permission from anyone. You can counter the judgment, but it makes no sense to tell somebody "Not To Judge".

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

And doesn't that precise description sum up nearly--bless me---99.5% of the humanly population's minds?😛

The gob is itself a pathetic organ----which requires a whole law to preserve it's right to spill all the prejudices one wants to. And if we really,R-E-A-L-L-Y remained silent on whatever doesn't affect us, trust me, we'd be not humans. He (or She) who doesn't like a good gossip time to time reserves no right to be called an ordinary human being.😆

People judge. And they judge because the mind does. And it does so before we can ask permission from anyone. You can counter the judgment, but it makes no sense to tell somebody "Not To Judge".

Originally posted by: Krani

Judgement is human nature, and I agree, it would be pretty unrealistic to not judge at all.-

Yes..& Never judge a person by what other people have told you... The same sun which hardens clay and melts ice also ...

However in regards to this particular topic of virginity or not being a virgin, I prefer to go by the rule "live and let live"

If I don't particularly support or identify with someone's way of life, I am not necessarily going to enforce my judgement on them by voicing my true thoughts - because it's their life. They are living it the way they want to, my opinion does not really factor in with what they want.

Virginity and sex is a very personal matter and I, personally, feel that everyone has a right to do whatever they want with it, without being made to feel either ashamed or guilty - which is what sometimes happens when people start passing around judgement. --👍🏼

Originally posted by: -Desi-IFer-

I don't know about dating, but for marriage, I would prefer someone who's a virgin. But then, even if she isn't, I would at least hope she's loyal to me after marriage. Even God forgives mistakes, so why can't I. 😊

Originally posted by: Krani

Losing virginity before marriage isn't a mistake...