Why do we look down upon 'ghar jamai'? - Page 5

Originally posted by: sweta01

Agree Dabulls.... 👏 😊

The Ghar jamai word is too old and instantly our mind thinks that he doesnt work and is just enjoying on inlaws money and what most of us have seen in hindi movies.

If a couple is staying with wife's parents after marriage for whatever personal reason and the husband is well earning and providing for his family, then why does the society still call him ghar jamai is beyond me.

There are many cases where girl's father or mother is alone and have only one girl and so if after girl's marriage her hubby and she stays with them then what is the problem... when the husband in the newly married couple is well earning and providing for wife and future children. I dont see any wrong in it.

ghar me jam ke baith gaya so ghar jamai 😃 😆😆 that's the 🤢-kind.

working and taking care of his family - jsut staying at in-laws is not ridicule-worthy. i agree.

Originally posted by: chatbuster

yaar, this is so unfair. it should be fine to be a ghar jamai. more's the better if it's a ghar on prithviraj road and comes with a hot gharwali who knows every lil trick in the book to keep her guy happy. 😉 nothing like being a bum and living off others without having to lift a finger. kya problem hai? let them look down all they want. one can always give them dirty stares 😆

😆 😆 No problem at all as long as today's Ghar Jamai signs a pre-nup..😉 Who cares about the petty daily Kharcha, it is the coveted big pot that needs to be protected..!!!!!

See Ghar Jamai does not have to stay with IL's.. He can still be a Ghar Jamai if the wifey brings in substantial assets to the marriege IMO...and the hubby decides to keep it. !!!!

Originally posted by: lighthouse

See Ghar Jamai does not have to stay with IL's.. He can still be a Ghar Jamai if the wifey brings in substantial assets to the marriege IMO...and the hubby decides to keep it. !!!!

That is our Indian culture😉. Lighty, don't mix it up.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

😆 😆 No problem at all as long as today's Ghar Jamai signs a pre-nup..😉 Who cares about the petty daily Kharcha, it is the coveted big pot that needs to be protected..!!!!!

See Ghar Jamai does not have to stay with IL's.. He can still be a Ghar Jamai if the wifey brings in substantial assets to the marriege IMO...and the hubby decides to keep it. !!!!

haha, nice. so there are other possibilities too for leading the good life. just let her get the dosh 😉😆

Originally posted by: Maya_M

That is our Indian culture😉. Lighty, don't mix it up.

Haan Maya but Joint family kaa zamana nahi rahan , so I am extending the Ghar Jamai defintion to be included into nuclear families..!!!! 😆 😉

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Codes- provided by narad muni 😛

Naree shakti dynamo- DaBulls!
Naree shakti missile Ready to launch - Tish
MCP support line (perhaps unknowingly, yet caught in the word game 😆)- qwerty
"naaraayan naaraayan" 😆😆

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I read ghar-jamai post on another thread and it reminded me of this fun discussion.

Originally posted by: chatbuster

yaar, this is so unfair. it should be fine to be a ghar jamai. more's the better if it's a ghar on prithviraj road and comes with a hot gharwali who knows every lil trick in the book to keep her guy happy. 😉 nothing like being a bum and living off others without having to lift a finger. kya problem hai? let them look down all they want. one can always give them dirty stares 😆

😆😆lol thats sound funny...😆

"Bhaarya veetil parama sugam randu naal kashijaal patiku samam"

Originally posted by: Believe

"Bhaarya veetil parama sugam randu naal kashijaal patiku samam"

If someone asks for translation then 😆. Is it a movie dialogue?

Originally posted by: Maya_M

If someone asks for translation then 😆. Is it a movie dialogue?

Ya the dialog used in Film too😆 I mean Ghar jamai same like a PET ..ok😉😛😆

sorry no offence to all Ghar jamai's dil pe mat lo plz

actually, they should be as welcome as ghar-anything that we welcome 😊 why not?
gender-based discrimination of free-loaders is rude.