Originally posted by: crazy_sunny
I find it very difficult to hold grudges . Guess I luv myself too much to let anyone else occupy my mind for long 😆
Holding grudges doesn't necessarily mean that they occupy your mind though. You hold a grudge and that's precisely why you don't want that person to occupy your mind.😆
Besides, even if you try your best to not hold a grudge, it will always lie in your subconsciousness and you will definitely be extra careful with the person who has offended you, just in case the two of you very miraculously get back together.
Otherwise, I'm not really that selfish when it comes to letting good (of course, my personal definition of good😉) folks occupy my mind. The more, the merrier, actually. 😛 I like it when good people possess my mind (as long as they don't make me lose my sleep :P). Keeps me occupied enough to shove the distasteful one to the back of my mind. :) - But that's only when I got nothing better to do.
Otherwise, who's really got time to think about grudges and stuff when they're plunged into their own affairs? :)