do u forgive/forget easily? - Page 32

I am a very forgiving person...i can forgive but i'll never forget.

Originally posted by: Jess.

I am a very forgiving person...i can forgive but i'll never forget.

many people do that

@KW

Well...I guess it actually depends on what the person has done to u... i mean if that person isn't really close enough then maybe forgiving won't be that difficult. On the other hand if its some1 you really trust then forgiving and forgetting doesn't come that easily. But i still think forgiveness is always a better option. i mean i know it's not as simple as it sounds, however we should really try and get past our hang-ups. Try it, u'll be really proud of yourself... Pretty Philosophical, eh?? 😉

well i think forgetting is impossible otherwise we have amnesia or Alzheimer cause it's in our memory

Originally posted by: rongna

well i think forgetting is impossible otherwise we have amnesia or Alzheimer cause it's in our memory

Originally posted by: cuckoocutter

it's easy for me. i m asucker for somone just sayin sorry or for sob stories, esp if they r fm the lower rungs of society. ppl forgive me my many transgressions very easily so maybe that's how i m. lik anythin in virtual world, i think perceptions here might be very different but that' not me in rl. here i lik carryin it for a while, nevr lettin the othr person get close enough to say sorry, actuall mkin sure they dont want to say sorry.😉😊

Me too. Very much a sucker for sorry notes, especially from the ones with egos the size of a cathedral...😛😆

Sob stories, however, put me off to sleep.🥱 But hey, you know what ELSE beats even lullabies and sleep yoga? The "successful one" narrating his own success story. Very frankly, makes me yawn like anything. :P :P

Speaking of perception of virtuals, lol, that's the last thing in my life I'd wanna worry about, like seriously. I'd rather stare at the sky and count the stars than squeeze out some time to worry about what people in a lil harmless baby forum think of me. :P

Originally posted by: Midnight_Shade

Me too. Very much a sucker for sorry notes, especially from the ones with egos the size of a cathedral...😛😆

Sob stories, however, put me off to sleep.🥱 But hey, you know what ELSE beats even lullabies and sleep yoga? The "successful one" narrating his own success story. Very frankly, makes me yawn like anything. :P :P

Speaking of perception of virtuals, lol, that's the last thing in my life I'd wanna worry about, like seriously. I'd rather stare at the sky and count the stars than squeeze out some time to worry about what people in a lil harmless baby forum think of me. :P

Uh oh, looks like we're digressing. :O Umm, no, I don't forget. More coz that how human brain functions.
Forgiving, I can do - but only once for each offense -
provided that you make enough amends to prove that your genuinely sorry and convince me that you're not gonna repeat it at any cost.

You go back on your words and repeat the same offense, and you're gone. After that, whatever you do, I ain't getting back together just coz I feel bad. If I do, you're gonna be the same person - again. And everyone deserves more than a never-ending game of a relationship yo-yo. :)