Written by a Guy...

Originally posted by: sneha0601

We guys don't care if you talk to other guys.

BULLshat.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

Bullshat again

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

Yes I agree.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

Yes yes.

We don't care if a guy calls>OR TEXTS< you,
but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m.That it can't wait till the morning.

Yes yes.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.We'll stop trying to convince you.

Yes yes.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.Yeah, you can quote me.

Uhm, i thought blokes liked shy girls? 😕

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.

What difference does It make?

Take Advantage of the mood im in.

True, todays men are emotional freaks.

Let us pay for you!
dont 'feel bad'
We enjoy doing it.It's expected.Smile and say 'thank you.

LOL.

Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

Yea show off's/ true..

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

But you should look good always.

We like you for who you are and not what you are.
Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

But you'd look better In trousers and black shirt, and smell great. It's what turns a woman on apparently.

Don't take everything we say seriously.

True, you blokes are chipmunks.


Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Yes yes

Don't get angry easily.

But boys get angry easily too.


Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

I don't know about that.


Don't talk about how hottttttt Chris Brown,
Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

LOL, I still think akshay kumar is hot.

Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'
i'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Those were for the victorian era.

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!!
Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population
and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.

Originally posted by: sneha0601

We guys don't care if you talk to other guys.

Sometimes we do. (Edit: thus we dont care rest of the times)

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

Sometimes we do.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

Lol! some years ago when we were babies, what not used to pass in our minds in those 10 minutes.
These days, sometimes, I jump in and start talking to that guy as if he is my soulmate and leave the gal wondering what happened. 😉


We don't care if a guy calls>OR TEXTS< you,
but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m.That it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.We'll stop trying to convince you.


The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.Yeah, you can quote me.

Confidence is good for anyone. Its same for the guys and everyone likes confident guys/gals.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.

Take Advantage of the mood im in.


Let us pay for you!
dont 'feel bad'
We enjoy doing it.It's expected.Smile and say 'thank you.

Lol I dont agree somewhat. I believe in half-half unless its for wifey, in future.

Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

Girls also put these demands. Something like: if you love us then prove it with that kiss in front of everyone. In fact public display of love is required in many countries and is also about culture. If one doesn't do that then it leads to breakup because it could mean that the person doesn't care or love much.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.


We like you for who you are and not what you are.
Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up.


Don't take everything we say seriously.


Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.


Don't get angry easily.


Stop using magazines/media as your bible.


Don't talk about how hottttttt Chris Brown,
Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Lol, some years ago, did I use to feel jealous when they used to talk about Hrithik Roshan. (when his first movie came out.)


Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'
i'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Sometimes I feel that cutie word means "you are not handsome, but you look like a baby and come here!"

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!!
Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population
and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.

ok

Give the nice guys a chance.

Girls may not like guys who are too nice. In fact some guys are too nice and they let others take the chance. :p

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this,

What if I disagree with this line itself 😉 ?

so we hope that all the girls that read this will re-post this.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

My sole mission in life from now on is to find a guy who not only sincerely believes in all the above, but also abides by it. ;-)

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

YES YES YES YES..

FINALLY someone who HAS SAID WHAT NEEDED TO BE SAID!

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

My sole mission in life from now on is to find a guy who not only sincerely believes in all the above, but also abides by it. ;-)

Originally posted by: karandel_2008

Originally posted by: karandel_2008

Lol! some years ago when we were babies, what not used to pass in our minds in those 10 minutes.
These days, sometimes, I jump in and start talking to that guy as if he is my soulmate and leave the gal wondering what happened. 😉

How unromantic Karan!!! 😆 But I agree, I've seen boys do that! Especially round here, believe me, if they start conversations on football or bikes, the girl would seem unsexy and dull before those!



Confidence is good for anyone. Its same for the guys and everyone likes confident guys/gals.

Agreed! I like confident guys as well.


Lol I dont agree somewhat. I believe in half-half unless its for wifey, in future.

Seriously? Then it's true that it differs from boy to boy. I have friends, friends only, who wouldn't let me pay when we get together somewhere, unless of course, we are in a group of 25 or something. Half of the time, we end up wasting 10 minutes in front of the counter arguing until the waiter is so pissed off that he tells us to hurry up! 😆


Girls also put these demands. Something like: if you love us then prove it with that kiss in front of everyone. In fact public display of love is required in many countries and is also about culture. If one doesn't do that then it leads to breakup because it could mean that the person doesn't care or love much.

Personally, I don't believe PDA is a culture. For me, it would be more of a choice, of a want. If I want to kiss my boyfriend, I'll do it, no crowd would stop me after something really sweet he's done. On the other hand, I may refuse in front of only his friends even if he wants it. Personally though, I feel private things ought to remain private, not in the space of four walls around you forcefully, but at least in some seclusion, like a deserted place in a garden or something if you really want to! 😆


Lol, some years ago, did I use to feel jealous when they used to talk about Hrithik Roshan. (when his first movie came out.)

By personal experience, whether it's friends or boyfriends, they ALWAYS never want to hear about other guys, celebrities or friends. They genuinely are not interested on how hot we find someone else, unless it is a really close buddy of theirs too for friends!


Sometimes I feel that cutie word means "you are not handsome, but you look like a baby and come here!"

I'll keep this in mind!


Girls may not like guys who are too nice. In fact some guys are too nice and they let others take the chance. :p

Then they've got the wrong girls by their sides! Ask me, I love Landon types! 😳😳

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this,

What if I disagree with this line itself 😉 ?

And why is that?Care to explain?