What's your take on men crying. Getting too soft? - Page 3

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Where did weakness come into question at all? Why bring womens liberation into this. ---Cos if any gender start thinking their emotions are their weakness from that point Ego starts....thats why I said that statement...from the beging psychology of the woman is corrupted by the man telling her things which are not true, making her a slave to man, reducing her to a secondary citizen of the world. And the reason for that was that he is muscularly more powerful. But the muscular power is part of animality. If that is going to decide the superiority, then any animal is more muscular than a man...these situation ofcos women start the movement for their rights.

Everyone is human. All human beings experience emotions and have certain qualities. Everything has its pros and cons so do all emotions and qualities. Sometimes they can be strength and sometimes they can be weaknesses. Gender differentiation is brought up by people who cannot appreciate and respect all humans for being human. They see a need to divide the whole world into male and female. Saying that you appreciate both aspects does not change the fact that you are creating a rift in the first place that should not and ought not exist.

Cos this this world created like that way most of the things that make men and women different are conditional. 😊

Tear is a powerful weapon wielded by women for ages. Maybe men too has become interested in mastering the powers of this weapon. 😛

Originally posted by: souro

Tear is a powerful weapon wielded by women for ages. Maybe men too has become interested in mastering the powers of this weapon. 😛

The sight of a man crying doesn't melt me into a puddle of emotional mush. How gay!! And what a big turn off that is!! Sad, little, clingy, touchy-feely guys who wear their hearts on their sleeves make me wanna puke. I lack patience and time for that kinda guys.
And before people accuse me of promoting machismo, I don't like the ones who act all macho to conceal their insecurity and pretend that they don't give a damn either. That's even worse. I like guys when they're strong from within and don't break into tears at the drop of a hat. If they cry, it should mean that there's something too big a reason behind it and it should move me and it should reflect his pain from a great depth. Otherwise, guys who cry and get "hurt" and "feel" more than they can think??? nuh uh, ain't happening to me. I'd kill myself if I end up with that kind of guy. I like those who know how to encourage people and have a smile on their face most of the time and can make me laugh without making a joke out of himself.
So what if God made men more tough physically and can't show their emotional side as much as women? I have no problem with men complimenting female's qualities. In my opinion, that helps maintain balance between the two genders.

Originally posted by: Believe

Crying is a part of Feminine qualities, all men have different kind of feminine qualities.....some people cry, some walk n talk like female etc etc. if the mind feel sad,eyes react on it...its basic human nature....But I dont know,Muje aasu very rare aatha hey...I cry inside only...my eyes sometime not react it...🤓May be cos I dont like to cry....as Charli chaplin says before...'I love to walk on rain,cos nobody cant see me crying'!!

Crying is a part of feminine qualities ONLY? Oh yeah? 😳
Look at the two underlined statements you've written and see how they contradict with each other. How can crying be a basic human nature and only meant for females at the same time? Should I conclude that you're chronically confused or should I ask you to enlighten me more with your muft ki gyaan you keep providing people about women?

Originally posted by: Midnight_Shade

The sight of a man crying doesn't melt me into a puddle of emotional mush. How gay!! And what a big turn off that is!! Sad, little, clingy, touchy-feely guys who wear their hearts on their sleeves make me wanna puke. I lack patience and time for that kinda guys.
And before people accuse me of promoting machismo, I don't like the ones who act all macho to conceal their insecurity and pretend that they don't give a damn either. That's even worse. I like guys when they're strong from within and don't break into tears at the drop of a hat. If they cry, it should mean that there's something too big a reason behind it and it should move me and it should reflect his pain from a great depth. Otherwise, guys who cry and get "hurt" and "feel" more than they can think??? nuh uh, ain't happening to me. I'd kill myself if I end up with that kind of guy. I like those who know how to encourage people and have a smile on their face most of the time and can make me laugh without making a joke out of himself.
So what if God made men more tough physically and can't show their emotional side as much as women? I have no problem with men complimenting female's qualities. In my opinion, that helps maintain balance between the two genders.

I think its excessive leakage of lachrymal glands

Originally posted by: Summer3

Yes quite true. Man should try to be of steady emotion I think; if they keep breaking down emotionally the poor lady will be in a dilemma. Imagine in a flight the pilot who happens to be a man is accosted by terrorists and he starts to cry.

Actually, what I said pretty much applies to women too. I don't like it when women are too submissive, gullible, give in easily and cry a lot saying that that's about being a woman. Those are the kinds of women who prove the mindset of some folks that goes something like..."crying is a feminine quality". I can't stand women who like receiving sympathy and use their tears as their weapons instead of their brains, nor the men who fall for it.
Yes, a man needs to act like a man. Otherwise I'd call him a chicken.😛
Btw, hi, summer, wat's up? it's pretty late here.....going off now....ciao....have a nice day.😊

Originally posted by: Midnight_Shade

Actually, what I said pretty much applies to women too. I don't like it when women are too submissive, gullible, give in easily and cry a lot saying that that's about being a woman. Those are the kinds of women who prove the mindset of some folks that goes something like..."crying is a feminine quality". I can't stand women who like receiving sympathy and use their tears as their weapons instead of their brains, nor the men who fall for it.
Yes, a man needs to act like a man. Otherwise I'd call him a chicken.😛
Btw, hi, summer, wat's up? it's pretty late here.....going off now....ciao....have a nice day.😊

Originally posted by: Summer3

Imagine in a flight the pilot who happens to be a man is accosted by terrorists and he starts to cry.

no wonder now we hav females pilots too 😆 Not all females R cry babies & not all men R macho. Some expres their feelings more readily than others. Crying helps to relieve stress.