Age difference in a relation......

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Posted: 15 years ago
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After watching Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi and Wake Up Sid I thought of making this topic.
I personally feel that there should not be a huge age difference between husband wife or boyfriends,girlriends.Because we know mentality changes with age.So a huge age difference in age makes a huge difference in mind.
It is evident that an 18 years old girl and a 30 year old man would not think alike.Maybe the girl would want to enjoy a rainy day with her hubby but the hubby may feel it is very childish.The girl would like to watch romantiic movies with her hubby but he may find them unrealistic and boring.There will a mentality clash between them.The man can also turn very dominating as he is much older than the girl and he may never understands her feelings.
There can also be problems between an elder girl and younger guy.The guy may not want to get married or have babies the time when the girl wants as he is still young and wants to lead a life without any responsibility.But the girl can be pressured from her family to get married as she is growing.Maybe one day the guy feel that the girl is too old and go for a new one.
What is your opinion?

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413185 thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
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true say, though my dad is 10 yrs older thn mom they have been happily married for 25 years and counting.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If they can cope up with it, I do not see why it should be immoral or illegal. It's their personal preferences. That said, whether they will be able to cope up with it is the real question. None should be forced into getting on a relation without their consent as well.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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young gal old guy is fine not vice versa... typically
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Posted: 15 years ago
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gengu it's true u said n u say ur parents live fine so is tht really true lol

i think if one truely love and understand everything can work ! be it younger guy older girl or vice versa...

i have seen friends who stay happily together with gap of 14 year or 16 years and the girl say she is happy coz the guy is mature and hence understanding or she is happy coz the guy is young and have energy to try out things together in life and not just fear n stay home after work lol

more laterz thanks for the topic!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: qwertyesque

young gal old guy is fine not vice versa... typically



Typical.😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ajnu & ROA - Am I too old for you?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Ajnu & ROA - Am I too old for you?



🤣 RTH

as as age difference goes i think it should be that the guy is 3-5 years older than girl
however i have seen older couples that worked

i don't think it wud be okay if the gal was older than the guy

unless there circumstances are such that the gal is older to the guy
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Ajnu & ROA - Am I too old for you?



not if ur a guy 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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or if you want to adopt them as a parent...😆😆

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