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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi all...
Which one is Dangerous?? Doubt or Gossip!??😊
Define Doubt n Gossip!?😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Interesting!
well doubt is when you are not sure of something. It can also be considered a form of fear. If you are always doubtful, you might never learn to trust people. If you always think negative then your doubts somehow become very negative and you live in this fear.
OR
Doubt can be simply as making decision between two boyfriends😊
Gossip ...well (my fav pass time)
when you find something interesting about someone, but rather than speaking in front of that person, you share it with someone else. The main character of the conversation is not simply there.
Gossip can be fun when you are just passing time.
But it can be harmful if you are gossiping in a hurful manner. It's not the truth, but you make up things to gossip.
To answer you question
Gossip is the most dangerous. It can ruin someone's life and make r/ships sour.
Edited by Dazlingflower - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Oh, both could be the two sides of the same coin as well. For example, if one is prevented from airing their doubts in open, they may end up airing them in private...and that's when a "doubt" may end up being a "gossip"šŸ˜†

I could have given you an excellent example but I am not allowed tošŸ˜›
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Doubt starts with ' I wonder if......' Sometimes all the 'wondering' can lead to a 'wandering if thoughts' which makes one speak with conviction and become gossip.
Gossip starts with ' you know so and so is.....' and is it just is 'gossip'
By nature both are harmless. The users do the honors of making 'doubt' and 'gossip' into something malicious
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Doubt is when you are unsure of something..gossip is even if you are unsure you just dont care...šŸ˜†
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: maya123

Doubt starts with ' I wonder if......' Sometimes all the 'wondering' can lead to a 'wandering if thoughts' which makes one speak with conviction and become gossip.

Gossip starts with ' you know so and so is.....' and is it just is 'gossip'
By nature both are harmless. The users do the honors of making 'doubt' and 'gossip' into something malicious

šŸ˜†šŸ˜†....gossip may not be harmless.. especially if some people are ready to believe it. this can lead to a lot of damage...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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There is a little difference between gossip and doubt.Having doubt is uncertain about something/particular point and gossip is informal conversation about other's lives.U may not enjoy doubt but those who gossip they definitely enjoy gossiping.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Veenu ji, kis ki gossip ne yeh doubt de diya hai ki which is more dangeruous šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
Ek Sher hai to doosari sawasher....depending on the circumtances.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Doubt is natural...It's part of the instinct for self-preservation. It's not gr8 to be like that all the time, but right or wrong... it is what it is- an honest expression of uncertainty about someone/ something. .

Gossip has a dishonest basis... it's often not true, but even when true, the intent is to sensationalize... to draw attention to what one has to say... by distorting/ disregarding facts, spicing up... there is little regard for the impact this might have on an innocent person. Nasty habit.
Edited by crossroads7 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Right or wrong, we all doubt each other. However, if we completely trust someone, doubt should not be there. Sometimes lack of trust leads to doubt. Other times, too much trust leads to no doubt which leads to blindly believing everything that person tells you. So in some ways, doubting is somewhat healthy for a relationship.

Gossip - yes, we all say its bad, but we all do it. The ones that proclaim gossip to be a hideous crime are usually the ones that have bitter truths that they are helplessly trying to hide. Sure, we shouldn't do it, but neither should the ones that are actually the source of the gossip go about flaunting their deeds. Gossip is bad, very bad, but passing on info as a means of warning isn't gossip, and shouldn't be labeled as such. Some are just jealous because the two peas in a pod won't make space for a third pea.

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