Asad is our friend, Lakshmi is coming to house - Page 2

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@gayatri we need to ask ourselves why we the middle class suffers. Because we are so much into our problems, we teach our kids to become engineers, doctors. We teach our kids to score marks. We discourage questioning. The so called moral set up of a normal middle class family is elders have to be obeyed irrespective of whatever wrongs they do.

Middle class children are asked to tolerate. Ask to believe it is their fate. And I want to ask back. Can t we change our fate. Cant we question. Why we have to tolerate. If we have to tolerate what is the purpose of us studying so much. If we can t protect our families from destruction, if we cant stand up for ourselves what values are we propagating.

In high class society you can divorce. In poor families husband lives wifes and go, then wives live their life as they wish. In middle class the girl is asked to tolerate else her sanskaar, the sanskaar of her parents will be questioned.

A lot is talked about middle class values. It is time some of them changed and some of them applied in the right sense.

Unfortunately most of the negative aspects of our society are created by our circumstances. I truly believe that other than psychopaths and sociopaths who are born with genetic defects, no normal human being is born bad. They become good or bad depending on their upbringing, circumstances, environment, learning. People like Asad's friends are those unfortunate ones who have been denied these crucial things in their life.

@Pom, I agree with you that a wedding day is one of the most important days of your life and it should not get tarnished, let alone with the blood of the brother that you love.

@Priti when you said Asad will be remembered as a martyr something got my attention. What is Swa's b'day. 15-Aug. Yes for us 15-Aug is independence day, the day we got independence from our colonial masters. 69 years down the lane it is easy to think of this day as independence day and enjoy our holiday. But what was 15-Aug-1947 in actual. A day that went into the history as a day when the country was partitioned into 2 based on religion. A day gore blood shed happened on either side of border. A day where men were killed, women were raped and children were tortured to show power. That's 15-Aug-1947. Freedom didn't come cheap. It cost a lot of bloodshed. And a woman born on that day to bring new tidings, some destruction has to be there on the most important day of her life. It is plain symbolic. Freedom, the price of freedomAnd Priti I liked the way you compared Asad and Manohar. Even Suhas tells in his younger years Manohar was like Adarsh. So when ambition clouded the thoughts principles went out of the window. Is that what happened with Manohar. And by guiding Asad's ambition in right direction is that what Swa is doing so that he doesn't go misguided way. Coming to JJ. A lot of heat went out of Jai's system after he opened up with his parents. And his wife gave him the opportunity for that. There is a new respect for Jaya in his eyes. He is slowly seeing her. And starting acknowledging her existence. The woman who finally made him open up. And Suha was first busy with plotting and planning. Now she is busy with marriage. And after marriage well it is dhamaka. But I am happy they are slowly but surely opening up.

I see your point Shru...and like I said, I am happy for JJ. But as characters in a TV show, it is important for audience to see their perspective to make complete sense of the situation. We are now assuming that this is what has happened with Jaidev. Say for instance, even when Jaya told him that she had not signed the divorce papers and she created all that drama to make things easy for SwaDarsh, Jaidev could have simply thanked her... thanked her for giving him an opportunity to talk to his parents. Then, you could understand better as to why he is being civil and kind towards her. Maybe that is the indication, that that episode changed her in his view.. but at the moment, it is our assumption and we will never know it for what it was. Anyways, finite series.. so no complaints. Also, because they are not the lead protagonists, the focus may not be on them. But we have all come to like them just as much as SwaDarsh. Hence the pinch 😊

@priti got your point. But Indian soaps assumption se jeena padtha hai. They don't give dialogues when it matters the most 😆😆. But Dahleez to great extend has given good valid dialogues and plot points.

Shruthi n all others liked ur views n yday epi.

@Dumpling Manohar is no scapegoat. He is getting the black money for leaving the charges on that criminal. They are taking it and that CM also. Manohar is a culprit, I hope the truth doesn't shatter Adarsh.

Shruthi i m still unsure how ths terrorist track s going to unfold nn why will swadhu fight for manohr as all articles are pointing in that direction .

@dumpling articles are many times misleading. So let us wait and watch. As of today epi Manohar is getting cash illegally.