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Posted: 9 years ago
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No T, I still dont feel that today was the episode where he became the definition of spineless. I would call him spineless when Swa's morals, her characters are being questioned and he still remains silent. In fact I agree with pomegranate, he saved Swa from being humiliated today.
I still feel that him eating the idli was actually a minor step towards progress. I dont just blame him, his parents and their parenting style has made all 3 of their sons phattu. I mean look at abhay bhaag ke shaadi karne ko bravery nahi bewakoofi kehete hai, now his mom taunts simmi 24*7 but does he say anything?
The CVs are not wrong, they are showing how over indulgence in your children can be hard for them later where they cant voice their opinions because of the fear.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aalina.


No yar..Don't expect these things from Adarsh babu..he is the ma ka dearest fattu beta...Only a day dreamer..



@SPDP: I wish.. but like Aalina mentioned.. karega nahi woh banda aisa. 😆

@Aalina: You remember.. one of my posts were named as Daydreamer Adarsh.. day before yesterday I guess.. Apt ekdom! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aalina.


Tia.. Ami bolechi na toke..sob chere de.. Don't expect anything from him.. He is now good for nothing...as he had done that roka and now engagement thing.

Hope this phase will pass soon.. Otherwise adarsh babu. We don't have much patient to jhelofy that rajkumari wid u..


You know.. when they introduced Adarsh.. I was so much in love with this character.. that I wanted a man rather lover like that.. And now, I am so disappointed.. that its fading each day 😭
Yup you're right. Don't except anything from him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ Pomegranate, DD and Sadie:
yup after having read your arguments.. I think.. Maybe.. I overreacted. Little that he did by taking the plate should be appreciated. He required guts to do that too in his mom's presence.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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nice post dear😊

but i have to disagree with the title😳 i dont feel adarsh was spineless today...but maybe in future who knows?😆 i found todays episode to be fine...nothing big happened and i didmt feel frustrated either...probably coz i started watching the serial for its concept and not as much for the romantic angle...its just add a flavor to the story😆

few episode ago even i was pissed off whatever happened in the sinha house...how they rushed to everything and did roka...i did feel irritated with adarsh for not only being mute spectacular but also for giving false hope to vanshika...but then cooled down and thought about the episode and whatever happened after the roka...can we really blame adarsh for whatever vanshika is going to go through later when this marriage doest happen? i dont think so...i personally feel vanshika is equally responsible for the situation...so far she cant even mention one incident where her feelings has been reciprocated by adarsh...yes she has been having feelings for him for years but doesnt mean he will love her overnight...even today she mentioned that he doest even care or miss her...that clearly shows he isnt even interested in her..if she choose to turn a blind eye to all the proofs around her...she has to go through a heart break to see the reality😊 even if this marriage break it will do good for both of them...its better than being in a relationship similar to jaya and jaydev.😕


i liked the fact that adarsh tried the food and didmt insult it...adarsh do have some good quality suhasini can learn from🥱 and him leaving the scene with vanshika and his mother was the natural thing to do...even swadheenta didnt feel bad about it...so why should we?😆 let her enjoy the meal in peace better than joining them😆 lets face it swadheenta doest have any feelings for adarsh...and there is no reason for adarsh to stay back when there is nothing to hold on😊 the only time i will be disappointed with adarsh is if he choose to stay mute when swadheentas character is questioned...but looking at yesterdays scene...adarsh is protective about swadheenta and wouldt let any harm happen to her...so maybe he will stand up and support swadheenta...about him being good husband...maybe swadheenta will be the one changing things in the house? she might be the reason for adarsh to voice out things to his parents.😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --starstruck--

No T, I still dont feel that today was the episode where he became the definition of spineless. I would call him spineless when Swa's morals, her characters are being questioned and he still remains silent. In fact I agree with pomegranate, he saved Swa from being humiliated today.

I still feel that him eating the idli was actually a minor step towards progress. I dont just blame him, his parents and their parenting style has made all 3 of their sons phattu. I mean look at abhay bhaag ke shaadi karne ko bravery nahi bewakoofi kehete hai, now his mom taunts simmi 24*7 but does he say anything?
The CVs are not wrong, they are showing how over indulgence in your children can be hard for them later where they cant voice their opinions because of the fear.

I absolutly second your views !
His mom has a big influence on the whole family and moreover Adarsh gets a big NO signal from Swa whenvr he tries to express his liking !
So, just wondr .. How could a man go against his mother's decision for something that even he is not sure of !
He has no grounds for voicing out his non-accptnc to the marriage otherwise he would have surely done that !
He is not scared, he is just confused !
He likes Swa but she clearly has no inclination for him( I really wonder HOW !!) And that's why .. He just cant say no to the marriage !
And about that idli scene .. Adarsh was such a sweetheart to do that 😳
He had to leave Swa alone cz he was on a lunch date with Vanshika .. How could he not go with her? 🥱
The good side is that despite of not being with Swa actually ..he was there only 😳 his eyes said it all !!
Just cheer up guys .. Our Adarsh is still the most caring, sorted and amazing man ⭐️
I just wish Swa to notice that soon .. Very soon !!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --starstruck--

No T, I still dont feel that today was the episode where he became the definition of spineless. I would call him spineless when Swa's morals, her characters are being questioned and he still remains silent. In fact I agree with pomegranate, he saved Swa from being humiliated today.

I still feel that him eating the idli was actually a minor step towards progress. I dont just blame him, his parents and their parenting style has made all 3 of their sons phattu. I mean look at abhay bhaag ke shaadi karne ko bravery nahi bewakoofi kehete hai, now his mom taunts simmi 24*7 but does he say anything?
The CVs are not wrong, they are showing how over indulgence in your children can be hard for them later where they cant voice their opinions because of the fear.


I totally agree with you.
I think this is what the CVs trying to show with SINHA family., where Swa/Hyder family totally contracdicts with them.

Very good message of Good Parenting.
Edited by BenNevis - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NN07

I absolutly second your views !
His mom has a big influence on the whole family and moreover Adarsh gets a big NO signal from Swa whenvr he tries to express his liking !
So, just wondr .. How could a man go against his mother's decision for something that even he is not sure of !
He has no grounds for voicing out his non-accptnc to the marriage otherwise he would have surely done that !
He is not scared, he is just confused !
He likes Swa but she clearly has no inclination for him( I really wonder HOW !!) And that's why .. He just cant say no to the marriage !
And about that idli scene .. Adarsh was such a sweetheart to do that 😳
He had to leave Swa alone cz he was on a lunch date with Vanshika .. How could he not go with her? 🥱
The good side is that despite of not being with Swa actually ..he was there only 😳 his eyes said it all !!
Just cheer up guys .. Our Adarsh is still the most caring, sorted and amazing man ⭐️
I just wish Swa to notice that soon .. Very soon !!


U took my words completely.
Very well analysed of Adarsh Character, really loved your POV .
No one can understands better than this of Adarsh, I would say.⭐️👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@BenNevis @NN07 - Exactly. Adarsh's character has a great potential for growth which we will see as the story unfolds. And like shivu said maybe Swa will bring those changes
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate


i don't see what is there to feel bad about because freedom does not have any feelings for adarsh. she is not interested in the slightest. I would feel bad for her if no one ate that idli, and swadheenta will feel hurt or self conscious. In a way, Adarsh saved her from that and I'm glad.


I didn't even said anything abt freedom's feeling for adarsh. That Girl was lefted odd one out with these so called aristocrats.. She ending up doing her lunch alone. That's why I feel bad for her. Adarsh or even his mom n princess don't need fall in love with her for inviting her with them. It is all abt a small lunch whose idea is started by Suashini herself.

Just I have different pov... And respects ur also
Edited by Aalina. - 9 years ago

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