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Posted: 12 years ago
Deepika di, you are depressed...try to chill.
I don't know if I am right in doing so, I don't care about what will people think of me now, somehow, wanted to share this with you since ages, doing it now..in open for others who are silent to know too.
I was physically and sexually abused since my childhood.no details.I've took it as an excuse for my anger and depression at a lot of times, now it's stopped, but my negative attitude towards certain things remain..which has caused a lot of chaos in my life, which could have been avoided by me being positive.
You know, it's in our hands to decide if our past or present will defeat us, or if it Willnt effect our being from now on.
I don't know, amnt any great person to advise you, just telling from my experience.
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Posted: 12 years ago
ya I know I often think did that incident make make me a pessimist or what... I don't know but I rarely trust men except my Dad and brother. But realise that there are good men too, par darr laga rehta hain dear...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hi friends...

OMG!! Im fed up within a few days of my 11th... my chemistry and physics trs are upto no good and keep talking something to themselves... And 2 full volumes in each subject.. and upar se mom pressurizing me too much to study... and have some emotional stress...
God.. i dunno wat to do...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Vis Di my mom watches most serials toh aap samajh sakti hain kehna bekaar hain... and always unka kuch workaholic kaam hain even Daadi says kaam jaldi khatam kia karo... par woh nahi sunthi...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Dreamy my mom understood when I told her. You can try that too...


Your dadi stays with you? Ippo ninde mom ode prashnam manslaayi...šŸ˜†



You know dreamy...there was a time when my daadi used to stay with us. She was a typical soap mil...dominating my mom...my mom only had time to work non stop and listen to my daadi's complaints. During that time my dad hardly got time to talk to me. One day out of the blue my dad asked me to come out with him...he took me to a pizza shop, talked about my college, exams...everything...I felt so good...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
finally done with exams!
now off to do a 700 word assignment due tonight that i forgot to do and lost the sheet for (but a friends was nice enough to email it to me)
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DreamyDeepz28

Vis Di my mom watches most serials toh aap samajh sakti hain kehna bekaar hain... and always unka kuch workaholic kaam hain even Daadi says kaam jaldi khatam kia karo... par woh nahi sunthi...


Life is not easy for a working mom & dad.. atleast when money is all you need everywhere... no doubt they are workoholic... because thats what makes them get money enough to buy all the things for home.. and also...studies.. and entertainment

You just have to understand that.. and in case you crave for talking and some sweet time.. i think you should enter their space instead for expecting them to stop their job or sacrifice their interests... Get into kitchen when mom is in kitchen... discuss about the show when you dad watches some show... ask maths problems.. etc

Afterall.. like movies.. no parents come and sit and personally say... "ohh beta i love..you are mylife.. and i'll do anything for you" they are all filmy and TV dialogs..
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Posted: 12 years ago
Sorry Vis'Di par Dadi doesn't stay with us... on phone yeh convo hota hain
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Posted: 12 years ago
@deepz di..hope you are feeling better.😊
i am atleast.
@reshma..chill..remaining calm n determined are the keys to good performance. good luck both you and pika.
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Posted: 12 years ago
hi mini...how're you? feeling better?šŸ¤—

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