I missed the episode as fell asleep due to fever. When I saw it thanks to nipun, I was 🤢 This feeling put me in a dangerous mood and got me talking to a few classmates who are in various fields- with whom I have grown up. I got talking about this flirting and gifting and their answers was an eyeopener. Why? because they are all men and a couple of them still make heads turn even after becoming dads.
I can only say this FW is administering slow poison to the very character whom they fall back on when they run out of stories. The creative team is slowly and surely making a strong character into an imbecile one on the personal front.☢️
Many a office flirting seriously or otherwise doesn't culminate into an affair or a relationship or a wedding. This is due to the fact that most men don't want a wife in the same office.(sensible reason) same profession yes but not the same office.
Gits are exchanged in rare cases but a ring I was shocked to hear all my friends say doesn't hold much importance to men😲 unless it is given on their wedding day or on their engagement day. My father and other men I have observed age no bar doing the same.Many even remove the wedding ring and keep it in the locker as they are irritated with it. SO, where does that leave Tji and Abhijeet? was it a one episode fact to bring in dramatic explanation of how a cop recognised a captive inside a building when innocent lives were at stake? Remember Tarika is a trained professional in AKA R series.
Now coming to Daya's cue to Purvi, He has never pulled Abhijeet's leg in public about any of his romantic inclinations. So too Abhijeet as far as Daya is concerned. If such a man does, it means both men know that there isn't much meaning in the flirting taking place. Yes I have heard many colleagues -men saying the same. Because men have this unwritten rule of showing respect to the innermost feelings of their best friends in public. (not saying women don't. women are creatures of emotion and most men are trained from a young age not to display emotions in public) And Daya knows Abhijeet inside out and outside in
So, FW better remove the confusion once and for all in a sensible manner. And Oh! all are forgetting an important factor FW included. Dr. Tarika was brought in as Dr. Salunke's head in Forensic Lab. A woman achieving that distinction acting lovey dovey with a sharp shooter does not gel. All I can say is FW is tieing itself in knots royal and destroying the character of Abhijeet that was built with a lot of effort. or is it a simple case being 100% Indian? once you create a brand name and record to hell with quality?❓
I thank all of you for patiently reading a long post. I just had to tell my observations.😃
Edited by mallikaBalu - 13 years ago
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