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Posted: 15 years ago
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"The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars,
But in ourselves, that we are underlings."

Julius Ceaser Act 1, Scene 2

This sentence is uttered by Cassius to his friend Brutus and he is trying to persuade Brutus that in the interest of Rome, Julius Ceaser should be stopped from becoming the emperor. Brutus is caught in between Caeser and Rome. Cassius reminds Brutus that since all men are equal why one man should bow done to another. This quote can also be interpreted to mean that fate is not what drives men to their decisions and actions, but rather the human condition.


The reason I am using this quote is because this reminded me of Devki…….it is not in Devkis fate that she is like this but her weak, spineless nature has led he to this condition. Devkiji has always tried to take the easy way out and has manipulated others for her own peace and good. She might be saying that she has done all this for her husband but actually it is for herself. She did not care when Radhika was being abused, infact she even joined in the manipulations…..she only spoke the truth when she was forced to by her husband……….same with Vishaka, never cared that her daughter is becoming more and more self centered and selfish and dumped her at the earliest opportunity….did not dump her when she did wrong but dumped her when her own position in society was harmed………..and today she did not care to stand back and face the crowd in front of her husband……….but ran to hide behind someone whom she knows is very evil.


So Devkiji is not only a failure as a mother, but is also a failure as a wife and the biggest failure is that she is a failure as a human being.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Even when her lies were revealed to Shashtriji, Devki continued to lie. She up to a point and Amma to a greater degree should be held responsible for the mess.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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misti I agree with every word of ur's. I was myself thinking of penning down these things but then saw that u have already done that.
We all agree that Visakha and Amma should be punished very severely. I had always thought that Devki should be punished less in comparison to the other 2 and when I saw shastri ji abandoning his ties with her, I thought POOR HER !!! s I had always felt that though Devki has been a bad mother and supports many evil of Amma ji and in doing so hides some things from her husband, but she respects Shastri ji the most and whenever some major question on her Pati comes she rises.
But today the way she ran away leaving her husband asap furious ppl, she lost all the respect and showed her true nature. She did not have the courage to even tell then and support her husband that he should not feel guilty as it was all her doing and he played no role in it. He was ignorant just as Shantanu said. BUT NO she decided to leave and call for help.
DISGUSTING !!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is Devaki so stupid that she would actually ask Amma for help??? She knows Amma is the one who is responsible for this entire mess, and yet she's abandoning her husband and throwing him to the wolves and asking Amma to help solve the problem???
Wow Devaki, you sure have reached your lowest point!
Misti, excellent post!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sandeepa108

Is Devaki so stupid that she would actually ask Amma for help??? She knows Amma is the one who is responsible for this entire mess, and yet she's abandoning her husband and throwing him to the wolves and asking Amma to help solve the problem???

Wow Devaki, you sure have reached your lowest point!
Misti, excellent post!



Devkiji really reached the lowest point today. The way she abandoned her own husband to the pack of wolves was disgusting. Even a human being will not do that to another human being.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

misti I agree with every word of ur's. I was myself thinking of penning down these things but then saw that u have already done that.

We all agree that Visakha and Amma should be punished very severely. I had always thought that Devki should be punished less in comparison to the other 2 and when I saw shastri ji abandoning his ties with her, I thought POOR HER !!! s I had always felt that though Devki has been a bad mother and supports many evil of Amma ji and in doing so hides some things from her husband, but she respects Shastri ji the most and whenever some major question on her Pati comes she rises.
But today the way she ran away leaving her husband asap furious ppl, she lost all the respect and showed her true nature. She did not have the courage to even tell then and support her husband that he should not feel guilty as it was all her doing and he played no role in it. He was ignorant just as Shantanu said. BUT NO she decided to leave and call for help.
DISGUSTING !!!



Devki kept her mouthshut as she usually does and hid behind amma. ..............by doinh this she showed that she only thinks about herself.........Vishaka is her true daughter. Like mother like daughter. Radhika is like Shastriji.......now I am waiting to see again when amma starts saying all the crap will she keep her mouth quiet? Or will she now dump amma to save herself. Last time she dumped Vishaka to save herself.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i didnt know that devki will ask that amma..........
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Originally posted by: gardes

Even when her lies were revealed to Shashtriji, Devki continued to lie. She up to a point and Amma to a greater degree should be held responsible for the mess.



I really hope that this time the bout is between Devki and amma..........my two fools in the ring and like last time Devki will dump amma to save herself........like what she did with Vishaka..........Devki can say loads.....

1)first wedding terrified so cannot do anything........amma snatched everything with Vishakas help.......she has already said that.

2) that jhoola thing, Radhika wanted to say, she also wanted too that day........amma bullied her.

3) Marriage breaking thing.......bullied by amma into doing that.

4) Haridwar again amma bullied her to tell Radhika to get Dev and Vishaka married.

5) Rads wanted to do the marriage fast thing in Vrindavan........Radhika did it.....Amma cursed her in front of others.............people in Vrindavan will again get their collective memory back.

6) Amma bullied her to get Radhika married to that chamchoo guy (forgot his name)..........Radhika walked out.

7) Engagement time again Radhika wanted to tell.....amma bullied her.

So everytime she and Radhika were bullied by amma..........easy for Devki to say all that and then dump amma in the hole that I am hoping that amma will dig for herself.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Mishti,
What you say about Devki is very true. It was not for her husband, but it was for herself.

Actually in general too, I feel that people do what they really really want and not bcos someone wants it. How good or bad the 'want' is what makes all the difference. The 'want' could be YOU want something for yourself or YOU want something for others. Thats where the selfish and the selflessness lies.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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You feel sad for Devki? Why? Is it because she is constipated all the time? or is it because she does not have the courage to say the truth? Or is it because she has realsied that she has landed from a frying pan into the fire?

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