Adharm kabhi vikalp nahin hotha.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: rightchoice

I think Dev going through this agony itself will be a long story to tell...but I would like it once Vishaka is out of that my little screen...Radhika can not bear the eye pricking Vishaka and cold stone look from Dev at a time...

Agree with you Rightchoice ... but i think Rads is totally confident and sure abt her husband's love for her ... in fact, I would like them to show a strong Rads who is not fazed by Dev's anger but understands that he needs to vent and brings him out of it

Again, it depends on how they show it ... they can show her either as a victim sobbing abt this or as someone who realizes that some of the things she did have hurt him and it is upto to her to make it up to him

IMO, does not matter whether or not vish is there ... if they show a strong rads, she can handle all of them

Originally posted by: anukapoor

Yes, Rajsri.............I so much want them to have private conversation, where it dawns upon him that she is indeed his first wife............and all that pain, of everything, right from the moment he found Vish was his bedroom as dulhan, to losing his father, his RP puja with her, him finding out her being DG, and they doing Kshama vrat etc, all should come back to him..............and I want to see that pain, anguish in his eyes, when he says, voh tum thi..................and with one hug again, all the pain flowing via tears through their eyes.................That scene has been struck in my brain................Even then if there is temp separation, I am okay, because after this separation, when they will meet, their love and respect for each other would have grown so much....................

Its funny Anu but that's exactly what i have been waiting for too. I have imagined this very similar first him going thru it in his head thinking of all the past episodes and then realizing all the events. How right in the beginning when he met her after his marriage and she told him that she was married, why she had the sindoor in her mang, why she stopped him from having the first night with vish and they why she tried to get them married. everything. I know this is not going to happen as technically it will be a nightmare for the editor. so I don't see them showing a lot of flashback but at least some key ones would be great. Also Dev/Avi is good at emoting pain that is what got me hooked on to the serial. After the famous rain hug scene where he asks for a ahesas of his love. I cried that day and became a huge fan of his acting skills. So yes i am waiting for some sort of showdown. Where he is going thr different emotions at the same time, Anger, pain, sadness, relief and then finally happiness. Pain that he went thru all this time and also the pain Radhika went thru buy keeping the truth to herself and initially accepting vishakha as his legal wife, the pain she went thru by sacrificing for her family. I think it would be great to see some of this. Let see what happens.

Originally posted by: anukapoor

Thanks Radev.....I truly loved today's dialogues of Dadi...........It is truly upto the elders how they mould the child's personality and character.........On one side is Dadi, who feels miserable, when she came to know that Dev even thought of agreeing to the proposal, on the other hand is Amma, who is encouraging Vish to commit sin after sin.............The day her pot of sins would be full, even Vishaka will not be with amma, and that day is not far off................ This reminds me of the story, which my grand ma used to tell us, when I was kid.............

There was a small boy, who used to steal from others everyday, and used to get things home..His mother asked him, where he got the stuff, he came slowly and whispered in her ear, that he stole from his friend...........His mother who knew he was stealing, never was angry at him, nor did she stop him from stealing..........Stealing small things from friends became a habit for this kid, and as he grew older, his stealing habits grew with him.................One day, he was finally caught, and was about to sent jail..........Then the boy tells the judge, that he has to talk to his mom, before going to jail, to which Judge agreed...........He walked upto his mom, and put his mouth close to ear, as if he was whispering, and then he bit her ear...........The mom screamed in pain...............and asked him, as to why he bit her.................

He says, all this time, whenever he got something, she took it happily, without ever telling he was wrong...........and was part of his wrong doing.......now, when he is punished for those acts, she should also be responsible for those acts, as she has enjoyed the fruits..............He says, being my mother, if you would have stopped it when I was kid, things would have been this way, and today he would have been going to jail.................His mother hung her head in shame................

Moral of the story: If children are going on path of Adharm, if the parents don't stop them, don't reprimand them, then such children are sure going to go astray..............and parents are totally responsible for their destruction..........................................

Anu very well said, its so true how a child growing up turns out the way he/she is based on genes and environment. And parents/grandparents play a huge part in this. Here we have two perfect examples Radhika and Vishakha, Both had similar sanskar, physical environment but entirely different response to their actions. Every child will act the way he/she instinctively is geared up to react (and that's when the genes come in to play) for eg if a kid is given a toy one kid may look at it and observe it and try to figure it out, one kid may just throw it or try to break it or one kid may not want to do anything with it. But what the kid will continue doing will depend on the parents/caregivers reaction to their action. Its amazing how things work. but very rightly said that we as adults do play a very important role in molding a child. I feel really bad for Vishakha as to a large extent Amma is responsible for her fate. They haven't shown too much of them growing up but they have said it a number of times how Amma would side Vish and let her do whatever she wanted. I think vish wanting to be a star was something that was in her gene to get out of Vrindawan but her trying to run away every time was because of Amma. I Love Radev but i had a soft corner for Vish and her character was ok till she got back to help for Radhika's marriage but after that the creatives have just ruined her character, there is no come back for her. She is shown very close to being insane. I don't see how they can try to correct it. Anyway, its 3:14 eastern time and i think i should sleep

What a lovely post anu and nice thoughts by everyone it would be really nice to see how both of them get angry console each other Dev very angry and Rads slowly getting him out of his hurt and anger and then Dev remembering the hurt Rad also went through that period and Dev realising the sacrifice Rad made for her family and how ungrateful Vish and amma turned out.That would be a great phase and how strong their love will be after this agni pariksha they both go through.Hope CVs do it beautifully. Loved dadi way of scolding Radev that nothing should have made them agree to Adharma.Vish has lost her game with this rest is only a matter of detail how the saboot come out and even if Dev believes Rad they need saboot as others will think Dev baised towards Rad even if it is truth.They will have to plan a strategy with Birju as their Hanuman.Maybe even using the fact that Dev cannot give his property as he has already given it to Radhika Sastri as her stree dhan.

Anukapoor I completely agree to ur words and u have written it beautifully...

Thanks Anu for lovely post.

Tazzi: I dont think Radhika will tell everything about Amma.............but I really want Rads to tell Dev about how Amma made her take shower 100 times, and also how she tried to remove Sindoor from her maang.................God, what a heart breaking scene it was, I wept for Radhika..............

Anu, Daadi acted like an elder of the family in angrily expounding about protecting the prathishta and the dharm of the Purohit parivaar. Her tone, the inflection, the horror of horrors on her face were so appropriate for the situation - adharm is not an option when faced with desperate situations.

Gardes: Yes, she was so stunned when she heard what they tried to do, and correctly reprimanded Radhika saying, walking on the path of sin to save family members from trouble is also a sin.........She also says, if you also lie, then what is difference between you and Vishaka..........This clearly indicates, that everything is NOT yet lost for Radika, as far as Dadi is concerned..............I am glad that Dadi came back solidly.........The thing that worries me, is, how will Shastriji react to this whole thing...........Will he believe Radhika and disown her? for adharm? How will Devki face her husband and PB? I am sure Amma will pressure her and try to even instigate her against Radhika..............I am not at all hopeful that Devki will help, at least not right away..........

Originally posted by: anukapoor

Yes, Rajsri.............I so much want them to have private conversation, where it dawns upon him that she is indeed his first wife............and all that pain, of everything, right from the moment he found Vish was his bedroom as dulhan, to losing his father, his RP puja with her, him finding out her being DG, and they doing Kshama vrat etc, all should come back to him..............and I want to see that pain, anguish in his eyes, when he says, voh tum thi..................and with one hug again, all the pain flowing via tears through their eyes.................That scene has been struck in my brain................Even then if there is temp separation, I am okay, because after this separation, when they will meet, their love and respect for each other would have grown so much....................

Yes,
It would have been nice to hear Dev's pain and Rad's pain as well...
I also wanted Rad to tell Dev... what she went through... how they removed her sindoor, and mangalsutra, her feet ki mehdi...or whatever it was..
How she kept doing puja for him.. She considerd herself as his wife, but could not tell anybody about it. How she decorated room for Dev and vish...