Originally posted by: Texan
First of all they are dragging this show and it is so painful to watch it that I just scan this forum.
"I would like to know if Radika is innocent as everybody says"
Yes Radhika is innocent!
1. Why does she think of Dev as her husband. She does all the things a wife does....like run up to the funeral to talk to Dev.......
because he is her her hubby! n she is his wife....she married him n she likes it or not! or anyone else if they like it or not! they r hubby n wife!
she goes to the funeral coz she loves the guy she is his wife! she wants to see him happy! not depressed n sad n all.....she wanted to give him courage! support him!
2. Why does she fast like she is Dev's wife...........
because she is his wife!!
3. In her mind she puts that sindoor on her head because of Dev but LIES to everyone she is married to Krishna........
so nothing is wrong in that! god knows what she is doing and why she is doing! this is the only way she can save her family's dignity and not get married to anyone else!
4. Why does she have Dev on her mind 24 hours a day!
because she loves him! n he is her hubby! n if thinking of the one u love or ur hubby 24/7 is called not being innocent well thts just not rite!
everyone has the rite to love! n think of their loved one 24/7!
she is innocent! she is not being selfish or snatching others happiness to keep herself happy! she is putting others happiness before hers! because her love is not selfish!
Like Amma says (not that harsh and mean like that old lady) "Radika seems to everywhere".
i dont get wht u trying to say in the sentence above!
I was all for Radika in the begging BUT she keeps claiming to everyone including Krishna that she does want to come in between Vish and Dev......BUT she is lying.
no she is not lying! she wants to see her hubby happy! very happy and she wants to see her sister happy too! n her family
she loves dev she cant jst not fall out of love with him! she has every right to love him n think of him!.....but she never wishes to have him for herself! she never wishes to become the choti bahu!......she jst wants her hubby n everyone else happy! in all this is her happiness! she has no problem living away from him! not being with him! yesh ofcourse some part of her wants to be with him n all but her family's happiness n his happiness matters n she jst wants everyone to be happy from the bottom of her heart...especially dev n vish to be very happy!
she is not lying!
I would support Radika if she would stop all that s*&^ and say what she is really thinking.
yesh she loves him! and wants to be with him....its natural...but not the cost of her family's happiness...her sisters happiness! she is ready to go through all the pain jst in return from the bottom of her heart she wants her family n her hubby to be happy!
I am tired of her innocent look but let me do something little to get in the way then run off Krishna and pray. You see her burning her stupid hand😡 asking god "make sure that the marriage between Viah and Dev is good"......NOT.....does she really????
yesh she really does want vish n dev to be happy together!
its easier to judge from outside but put urself in the situation! for ur happiness can u ruin ur family's dignity...respect...take away their happiness!!!! yesh she should hve gone on the marriage day wid dev n not let vish to take away her rights tht day! but thn think from a diff angle! how things would hve turned out! we all hve time to think n judge wht is rite n not...but in tht situation its not easy.....its not a easy decision to make!!!!
she wants to be wid dev! who wouldnt want to be wid the one they love! but she loves her parents they hve given her so much! she cant simply hurt thm its not so easy! everyone is different with a different personality!
i can say for myself it wouldnt be easy thing for me n i mite hve done the same thing as radhika! coz i love my family more thn anyone else even my hubby! they r the one who hve made me who i am today! i cant jst hurt thm n put their dignity! self-respect at stake no way!
i would truely want everyone happiness!...its okay if i hve to stay away from my hubby at the end of the day i would b happy to know everyone i love is happy!
she is innocent! her love is not selfish!
she truely from the bottom of her heart wishes n pray...dev n vish are happy together and her family is happy! as for her whn she will obide by all the duties n responsibilites a married women should...coz she is married n she cant run away from tht fact even if she wants to!
I am in the US so we are behind and she really made me sick yesterday after the funeral.
its easier to judge from ur place! put ur self in her shoes n thn think!....n well if u thnk diff nothing wrong in that...thats u!
but u hve to understand not everyone is like u!.....wht u mite not like or not do someone else would! we all r diff..brought up with different values....different views!
I'm not being harsh in whteva i hve said above! or being rude...i jst simply answered ur points!😊
Anupamaa
