Some Questions about April 10th's episode:

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Posted: 16 years ago
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1. How come Susheel chahcha has the right to decide to have Arjun and Deepika sit for the pooja while Daadi was just helplessly watching, is it that he is in charge of the family now? 😲 Have they been shown all living together from the beginning? I thought they were just visiting for the wedding? Am confused here? 😕

2. How come no one is telling Mrini to stop insulting CB and her family. Daadi and Vaishali just look at her and roll their eyes or something to that effect and ignore her. Shouldn't Daadi, Vaishali or Vivek tell her to shut up! I understand how she feels about CB being given so much importance but insulting in front of all? 😡 Poor Rads before entering she has to listen to Mrinalini's sarcastic comments and maybe is thinking, "I have someone to remind me of Amma here"

3. I understand that Dev is trying to move on as his DG is married and very happy (as was told to him by her). So I guess if he is feeling confused about Rads his saali then its ok, huh? I did not like it initially that he forgot his DG so quickly but considering that she has moved on he is doing the same. Also, he does have a soft spot for Rads bc of the similar voice and how she has always been there for him…but it does not sit well with me that he is feeling something for Rads and DG is out of sight out of mind! 😭 😡 What do you all think about that?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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someone to remind her of amma!!! ha ha ha👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Join the club! We all love Choti Bahu, but hate it at the same time for the exact reasons you said. As for Chachu, he has become a part of the show, he is there to usurp the power of Dev, but now that Dev is the Raj Purohit, let's see if he remains there. But, he did not stay with Dev's family from start, just joined them.

Mrinali's role is similiar to that of Amma. Brijmohan never tells Amma to stop bothering Radhika, similarly, all have given up hope on Mrinali. She is just a bitter woman.

As for Dev, he is the biggest idiot of all, not realizing that Radhika is the ONE and not Vishakha! Now, let's hope he gets some senses as his "wife", Vishakha ran away with Purab!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: RadheKrish1

1. How come Susheel chahcha has the right to decide to have Arjun and Deepika sit for the pooja while Daadi was just helplessly watching, is it that he is in charge of the family now? 😲 Have they been shown all living together from the beginning? I thought they were just visiting for the wedding? Am confused here? 😕

- Being the only male senior member alive, I guess he can call the shots. Besides, Dadi and Vaishali did not have any other choice to offer if Dev did not show up.

2. How come no one is telling Mrini to stop insulting CB and her family. Daadi and Vaishali just look at her and roll their eyes or something to that effect and ignore her. Shouldn't Daadi, Vaishali or Vivek tell her to shut up! I understand how she feels about CB being given so much importance but insulting in front of all? 😡 Poor Rads before entering she has to listen to Mrinalini's sarcastic comments and maybe is thinking, "I have someone to remind me of Amma here"

- Yes I agree, once they should strongly reprimand her for insulting people in public.

3. I understand that Dev is trying to move on as his DG is married and very happy (as was told to him by her). So I guess if he is feeling confused about Rads his saali then its ok, huh? I did not like it initially that he forgot his DG so quickly but considering that she has moved on he is doing the same. Also, he does have a soft spot for Rads bc of the similar voice and how she has always been there for him?but it does not sit well with me that he is feeling something for Rads and DG is out of sight out of mind! 😭 😡 What do you all think about that?
- I too don't find it acceptable that he has forgotten his DG so soon. That is why I am not quite comfortable with the 'looks' he is giving Radhika. (Although it is a visual treat for us viewers, it doesn't go with the image of true love.)

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I too am wondering if Dev has forgotten his dream girl. But if you look at it from sanskaar-side, it seems o.k. As far as Dev is concerned, his dream girl is a married woman. And sanskaar says it is wrong to have desires toward a married woman.

Not that I agree, but the reeti-rivaaz these people seem to follow also says it is o.k for a married man to have feelings for an unmarried woman, and a saali. So I guess that's why Dev does not think it is wrong to have moved on so fast from his dream to his saali?

Just wild guess...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: RadheKrish1

1. How come Susheel chahcha has the right to decide to have Arjun and Deepika sit for the pooja while Daadi was just helplessly watching, is it that he is in charge of the family now? 😲 Have they been shown all living together from the beginning? I thought they were just visiting for the wedding? Am confused here? 😕

He's the oldest rite??? I dont blame dadi for not saying anything because Dev didnt show up, she was kinda helpless

2. How come no one is telling Mrini to stop insulting CB and her family. Daadi and Vaishali just look at her and roll their eyes or something to that effect and ignore her. Shouldn't Daadi, Vaishali or Vivek tell her to shut up! I understand how she feels about CB being given so much importance but insulting in front of all? 😡 Poor Rads before entering she has to listen to Mrinalini's sarcastic comments and maybe is thinking, "I have someone to remind me of Amma here"

I wish she is not only made to keep quiet but is insulted too. i love kirti so much but i hate her character.....lol... how ironic can life get
3. I understand that Dev is trying to move on as his DG is married and very happy (as was told to him by her). So I guess if he is feeling confused about Rads his saali then its ok, huh? I did not like it initially that he forgot his DG so quickly but considering that she has moved on he is doing the same. Also, he does have a soft spot for Rads bc of the similar voice and how she has always been there for him?but it does not sit well with me that he is feeling something for Rads and DG is out of sight out of mind! 😭 😡 What do you all think about that?
Dev giving Rads the look makes perfect sense.The main reason y he is really attached to her is cuz her voice sounds like his dream gurl's voice. He hasnt 4goten his dream girl but thru radika he is reminded constanly of her and feels close to her and that's y he feels a connection wit her.So the only reason he's close to Rad is cuz of the connection he has wit her that's her dream gurl. make sense na???
tj.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with annie2212 that since Sushil is hte senior male member of the family, may be thats why they listen to him.
Even I have reservations about Dev have feelongs for his sister-in-law(he doesnt know she is his DG or his wife).His DG being married doesnt give him a reason to have feelings for Radhika.May be is utterly confused by the situation around him.
But how can you guys miss...he actually put a mangalsutra round her neck??😲😲Thats like practically making her his wife.How can he make his SIL, whom he hasnt seen , his wife?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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As much as I dislike the whole idea of Dev forgetting his DG, I want to gives reasons as to why he tied the mangalsutra to his SIL.

They were standing outside the Purohit house and there were sooo many people that maybe he was concerned that if Rads tied the mangalsutra the ghungat might fall of, so it is better if he tied it while rads held on to the ghungaat--I can't believe I am doing this! 😆

Thank you all for reducing my confusion on the questions, appreciate it!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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lolz Radhekrish thats a good way to explain why Dev would tie the mangalsutr around his SIL's neck. lolz.. 😆 arre when he is ready to perform all rituals that he's supposed to do with a wife then why bother about putting a mangalsutr. I never felt that Dev really was as concerned about rituals as the rest of his family.. tho he ended up performing all the rituals for them.

Dev personally is a more un-traditional man. He saw and fell in love with a girl at first sight. So many times during the wedding fixing situation he wanted to break the rivaaz of not seeing the bride (that we can understand as his craziness in love). But during the wedding itself he needed to be educated on the traditions. Meaning he didn't know much about it...and you certainly can't have faith in things you don't know about.

After a traditionally done wedding he had no hesitation abandoning that "wife" of his because she wasn't the girl he loved and wasn't the one he imagined to be getting married to. At that point a ritualistically completed marriage held no importance to him. The fact that he has married a girl with saath phere, mangalsutr and sindoor didn't hold importance in front of the love he had in his heart.

So the fact that he gave little importance to the fact that he tied a mangalstur around his SIL's neck in an attempt to protect his family's honor and to prevent anyone from suspecting anything.. i find as not being unusual , for him.

However, i am surprised he never once gave a thought to Radhika's feelings. Agreed she was gonna sit in the pooja with him and she agreed to do that whole heartedly as far as he knows but to tie a mangalsutr around a girl's neck he knows is traditional.. much more than him cause she is brought up in Vrindavan. Guess when you are in trouble you only think about how to get out of it and not about what others are going through to help you out of it.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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annie2212 gave a great explanation that he being the only elder male member and Dev hadnt turned up so there was no other option hence Daadi and Vaish relented.
Mrin is designed to be one of the negatives in Purohit house and her cutting remarks are reld to the dilemma Purhot family gets into. All this bears out of her frustration becoz of Vivek and the heir being Dev.
Dev is attracted to the voice Radh has which is similar to his DG, whom he hasnt forgotten, and besides he realised that she is supportive and understanding of his feelings.

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