Mistis thoughts 28th september 2011

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So let's start shall we''..

The car reaches the temple and Dev comes and opens the door for Radhika to step out and accompany him and Barkha is left fuming...he also gives his hand for Radhika to hold to give her reassurance that he does not care who sees them. I think this might be due to what Barkha said before leaving that she has to be there otherwise people might question and she did indicate Radhika as the other woman...but I wonder what will be Dev's reaction if someone else is there..because that is when he flips. Then in the temple both Radhika and Dev and praying and Radhika is praying that no evil eyes should fall on her husband. Barkha comes up and indicates to Radhika that the priest is there and hence Radhika takes a step back...when Dev opens his eyes he sees Barkha beside him and gets shocked and then the priest comes and blesses them...ahh...so someone is there...Barkha takes all the credit and the priest asks Dev to wrap the chunar around the idols with his wife...Dev hesitates and looks at Radhika ...Barkha takes the chunar and Dev helps her...Bholu is being pretty consistent...he is again choosing dada or RP duty over Radhika'he usually choses duty/RP/dada over Radhika when the actual decision time comes...During the RP pooja he took Barkha's name not because Radhika asked him to (that did play a part but there was something else) but because when the crunch time came he chose dada's dreams of his being a RP and doing his duty...when he first closed his eyes it was Radhika who came in his mind...that was the subconscious telling him what to do...ones subconscious is never wrong...but then the fear overtook him regarding what will happen to Radhika and the conscious mind conditioned by dada took over...the conditioned mind that has been fed duty and obligation since he was a child...the conditioned mind that was taught from a early age that everything can be done for duty...even lies can be told..well no one protested when dada told everyone about Chaya and Hari...and he chose Barkhas name because that's what his duty as dada's grandson was (he was missing his dada...and he was seeing dada in Radhika) ...a duty that was taught to him and I think he also knew that Radhika will not leave him...he thought he can have both...RP and Radhika as his wife...when they returned home ...he told Radhika that he has done as she wanted him to do...that was again him not wanting to accept that it was his choice and then he told Radhika that he cannot live without her and left the entire decision on her...all this guilt should be there in Dev...and this is why all this is happening. Dev will choose duty and dada linked to RP until and unless he loses Rdahika and the true face of dada comes out in front of him...he has to fall really low in his own eyes to get up and climb up again. but this time there is a strong gust of wind and Radhika praying and the chunar frees from Barkhas hand and only Dev wraps it around the idol...I think Kanha is reaching the end of his patience with this nonsense going on in his name and has started now to give warnings and signs...so if Dev did the wrapping by himself does that mean that in future when Radhika is absent Dev will be alone doing his job? Anyway that's for another day.

Then in the guesthouse he sends of Barkha packing to her room and actually does not pay attention to where she is going just tells her to find her room and takes Radhika to their room...there after some time he asks her what is worrying her because he cannot see her like this and Radhika says that she also cannot hide things from him...that is true...Radhika cannot hide from him because Dev is her weakens and Dev did get flustered when Radhika was not telling him...he was feeling guilty that Radhika's rights have been taken and he himself has acknowledged and thanked her for doing all this for the family...Radhika was not telling him anything and with relief he accepted Barkha's version of he truth that Radhika is feeling insecure because she is nothing and Barkha is the Rajpurohitain (although he knows that Radhika does not care for all this but his guilt in accepting the brahmins wishes with Barkha and Radhikas pain in him giving away her right as the wife is making him most probably ignore that) ...and that's why he is trying to get ready Rohan for the RP so that he can leave RP...Plus he also does not know the true face of Barkha and thinks that since she has given up so much for them she should be telling the truth. ... he did not wait for Radhikas explanations yesterday because his guilt ridden relieved mind was happy with the fact that he has atleast found out about Radhika's problem but now since Radhika confirmed that she is worried...so he although thinks that he knows the reason but is giving her a chance to say what she wants to say...so chances are there that he will accept what Radhika will say over Barkha... Radhika asked his reassurance whether he will believe what she is going to say because she knows that Dev trusts Barkha...and Dev says that he trust Radhika more than himself. Anyway Barkha does a nautanki...she cuts her own wrist and says that some people attacked her and ran away...ahha...no wonder she broke Mohinis's wrist to prove a point and tortured Rohan...if a person can self harm themselves to prove a point then they actually do not value human life...everything is justified on the name of an ideal or thought...so she is loyal to a cause...a cause that she believes in but not to any human being...and throughout her cause is to destroy Radhika and take what is hers due to her obsessions...wonder whether she pricked her finger in the camp to also prove her loyality...

Radhika correctly points out the at nobody could have run away because the doors are locked from inside...and that flusters Barkha because it is all bravado for her...she shows off to hide her insecurity but when that is challenged she falters....and she charges Barkha because she is at the end of her tether ...the tension has got to her and also because Dev has assured her that he will believe her...Barkha said that how can she question her when she all this for friendship and dharma and Radhika blasts her off...so does Radhika realize that all she did was against dharma or will she have to go on a journey of her own to realize that. Anyway when first Radhika was accusing, Dev had a perplexed and confused look but he was listening to her...but then Radhika did a mistake, she mentioned badi bahus name and Barkha latched onto it and mentioned what Badi bahu had done and that's when Dev shouted...for Dev badi bahu was the trigger...because badi bahus actions is again linked to his dada...and he shouted that he does not want to hear anything about Barkha...the name Barkha was an excuse Dev is angry more because Radhika took badi bahus name and that to him most probably meant that that Radhika is chosing to believe her and not him when he has told her to give sometime and he will accept her publicly...and that's what he shouted today too...he is also angry that Radhika is believing badi bahu over the person whom he thinks has helped them the most so that he can do his duty...Dev does have a short temper and the combination of dada and BB killed Radhika's chances...

Then back at home...he covers up for Radhika because he does not want people to know that Radhika suspects Barkha...I am waiting to see whether he thinks that the family members would have told some bad stuff to Radhika because Radhika suspecting Barkha will upset their peaceful life...and Barkha gets to be the centre of attention...dai pounces at badibahu who charges back and says fine call the police and Barkha says no...and badi bahu gives an interesting look...

As for acting...I liked Rubina and Avinash's acting today...Rubina's portrayal of Radhika's serenity, dignity, her pain of betrayal, her fear of not being believed , her anger at Barkha for fooling her...were brilliant..I liked her firing away at Barkha and that shut up the lunatic one because the lunatic knows that she is no match for Radhika. I also liked at the end when she is standing quietly with dignity and seeing everything going right in front of her eyes...seeing everyone petting Barkha and at the end her look at Dev...like a little girl. As for Avinash...he is doing a very good job in projecting the guilt of Dev in not choosing Radhika and everytime choosing his duty...him wanting to know what is bothering her and wanting to help her...him losing his temper because according to him Radhika chose to believe badi bahu...it was a good jugalbandhi between the two today. I also liked Pragati Mehera at the end when she openly challenged everyone and has most probably realized that barkha has done something...

This was just my POV ...I am ready to listen to others POV's ...even if people want to shout at Bholu...its ok...😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Misti excellent analysis of today's episode. I liked today's episode because of the jugalbandi as you say. It felt natural for Dev to react at the mention of BB, he went into shock that his Radhika is being influenced by BB hence the shouting so not angry with him today.
Hope tomorrow he calms down and thinks rationally and asks Radhika why she is believing BB.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank you misti , your thoughts were pleasure to read today ...I totally agree with you ...

Barkha has done good job on Dev , by convincing him that Radhika is insecure about him , then she is pretending to be caring and goody-goody before him... .Barkha did her best to convince him and Radhika believed only when she heard herself , even then she was in denial, It was Maheshwari who pointed her repeatedly , then she believed ...Same is with Dev , when he will hear himself or will loose Radhika .. you have very well analyzed Dev ,s behavior today ...When Barkha saw Radhika accusing her and Dev listening quietly , she pretended to be in in pain and diverted Dev,s attention ...Yes you are right about Maheshwari ,how anyone will trust her because of her past deeds ...Barkha is with twisted mind knows how to twist the situation in her favor ...Saw the last part of repeat , if you look at Barkha , she very cleverly gave credit to Radhika for Dev then herself ...How anyone will doubt her ...Pragti Mehra was good , liked her in the last when she with authority spoke to Amba ...Avinash Rubina both were brilliant ,Benaf is good in negative character ...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Misti liked yoour POV and thoughts'

Its not Bholu running into a lamp post but a road roller and he has lost his bearings with Radhika though he is thinking he is acting politically correct he is doing all the wrong things and its not over he will again do that to Radhika and make BH kill Radhika as she will think Radhika is between her and DEv.The look today she had when Dev shouted was as if he is out of love with Radhika and in love with her😡

Radhika will go away from him and he will be back to his painting and idol making and forget his flute .He deserves all that and all the revenge scenes which Angie will write as I am not good at it but one thing would be really good if Radhika is in front of him and is taking care of some other guy ignoring him and leaving him to BH and if he wants anything she can tell him to ask Bh and let her take rest and BH do everything from cooking to serving and everything and if Dai or Padma asks her anything let her tell them is ask Bh as she is sacrificing so much.😡

Radhika is getting her punishment for her wrong decision and Adharma as now she is the shield and she has asked God to give her all pain of Dev and Dev and all will get it when Radhika is no longer in Pb Bh I am doubtful as she is now the lead not only in the serial but also SBS and seeing CVs track record as in most shows only good wives seem to get punishment even their husbands go scot free.

tomorrow also I feel Dev will get very angry and will think Radhika is at fault as he wont hear anything but will see Radhika slapping Bh. and maybe we will have the death scene as cliffhanger on friday.

Forgot to write about BB part both Radhika and Dev have to realise no one is totally black or white so good people may act very bad at times and bad people may act good at times.Today Bh made BB look like a lamb.but BB will not sit quiet and will again do something.
Edited by chalhov - 14 years ago
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Misti, I really like your commentary especially these days when CVs are pushing all buttons. You are the voice of reason especially when the entire forum is fuming.
But honestly CVs need to give Radhika a break so that viewers can also get a break. too many repetitive torture scenes can drive viewers away and there has to be a mix of scenes rather than one negative character controlling everything. People are getting tired of such scenes dominating episodes after episodes.
Please show some reflection from Radhika where she realizes that she made a mistake and misunderstood the real dharam because she waived from her path and believed in somebody else's version of dharam. Show her frustration too that she herself has helped create a mess out of which she is finding hard to extract herself. Since Radhika always turns to Kanha when she is totally helpless, show her turning to Kanha. He is missing these days. They brought him for that chunar scene (maybe to assure viewers that they remember Radhika is Kanha's devotee and he wouldn't let adharam happen). But I would rather see Radhika going to Kanha.
She stopped going to Kanha when she got her KK who started fighting for her. But now he is lost again and she is also lost. So she has to be shown to turn to Kanha.
But I liked Radhika who has come out of her illusion and brainwashed world and is ready to fight for Dev. This is the old Radhika who wouldn't tolerate anybody either harming Dev or giving him up.
Dev...Misti I waited until I read your commentary before commenting on him. He was of course again intolerable. His old behavior is coming back ever since Radhika agreed to remain in his life as his wife. I agree that Radhika did influence his actions but it was Dada who really did that. He picked up Radhika first and then got scared. Then he thought of Dada's teaching and in the end picked up the person whom Dada had picked. He fell that day a lot and is falling more and more. The guilt of his own actions (that he is conveniently putting on Radhika) is making him not listen to Radhika and lash out at her when her words disturb his comfort zone.
He is at this moment abusive towards Radhika (can't think of any other word) and he needs to lose her to realize how low he has fallen. He acknowledged his earlier mistakes but never did really make up for them. He doesn't realize how demanding he is of Radhika and how much Radhika gives him. His behavior today was again inexcusable. He is shutting his brain to even reasonable questions from Radhika. It is not that Radhika did not tell him anything in time (she only delayed by one day as before in the case of Rohan), but he chose not to believe her. He knows the basic nature of Radhika and yet he chooses to believe Barkha's version because it keeps his illusions about himself and Dada intact.
Earlier too he had chosen not to believe her when she had tried to warn him about Rohan. It had cost him heavy for that mistake. But that time it was still understandable as it came to believing Radhika (who herself wasn't sure) or Rohan - his childhood friend with whom he was brought up. Here there is no excuse. He now knows how sacrificing Radhika is for him and how she was going to leave him so that he could keep RP title. So when he chooses to believe Barkha that Radhika is insecure, he is doing so because it doesn't suit him to believe otherwise as this would break all his remaining illusions about Dada.
BB's name did play a role and Radhika realized it immediately. But she too had taken assurance from him that he would believe her and also she hadn't anticipated Barkha going to this extreme. So in her anger and dismay, she lost her cool. But anybody would lose it after taking so much of nonsense.
Dev is of course short-tempered especially with Radhika as he feels that he has all rights over her. But as usual he was unjust with Radhika. He has no understanding of how a relationship works. Even if he was angry at Radhika, he doesn't have a right to shout at her in front of a third person. He really needs to pay for this. The creatives seem to be going with that. Misti, I too thought of Dev being alone when I saw that chunri scene as he did it by himself. So he would be left alone (at least for a while) and then only he would realize what he has done.
Barkha of course is a pshyco person but it is Dev who himself is destroying this relationship when he takes a word of somebody else over his own wife. Lets see whether they show him apologizing tomorrow or he is witness to Radhika's slap and again misunderstands her.
Coming back to Barkha, she is one delusional disturbed person. She can cut her own wrist just so that Radhika can not spend any time with Dev. How long can she do that? How will she stop Dev from spending time with Radhika? I agree with you that her pricking her hand that first time was again to prove her loyalty. She could have easily told police that there were patients who were injured or had bled a little. But she chose to hurt herself that time too. Radhika has now understood her completely.
Finally, I liked BB who has now figured out Barkha. So she was sure that Barkha was the culprit and was ready to call the police. Nobody picked up on Barkha making sure that police is not called. I think later on Dev would be linking everything together (I hope so) but it may be too late for him. The CVs have now made Dev so obnoxious that viewers are rooting for him to lose Radhika.
I wonder if this is a copy of just recently concluded track of Uttaran. There too the male lead did not believe his wife ove a pshyco and she ended up leaving him over his distrust of her. After she left, he found out the truth and then they showed a lot of remorse from his side. Is this where the story is going?
Acting wise, it was again Rubina followed closely by Avinash. Rubina was really good as Radhika who though initially upset got happy with Dev opening the door for her and holding up her hand (forgetting about the society for the minute). Then she was happy when chunar got off from Barkha's hand because of Kanha's leela. Finally, she was happy to spend some alone time with Dev and was apprehensive about him accepting her word. The expressions were really good. Finally her hurt at Dev not believing her was very well potrayed.
As mad as Dev made us today, Avinash was excellent because his portrayal of Dev really drove most viewers nuts. So he was successful. Avinash is excellent in projecting anger and his voice modulation and palpable anger at Radhika was very well done (of course Dev lost many fans today but they would come back once proper remorse is shown from Dev). Misti, I agree that his loss of anger was more at Radhika taking BB's name. Radhika too realized it instantly and tried to rectify it but it was too late. BB's name just drives everything from Dev's mind as she had tortured Dada for 12 years and Radhika has to find another way to remove this blindness from Dev. But she probably won't be successful as there is none so blind as ones who don't want to see. So Dev losing her is currently the way this track is going.
All these scenes are fine assuming we see a good ending of the track. By that I mean they show proper realization on Radhika's part a realization on her part that it doesn't matter if Barkha was good or bad. She chose the wrong path in trying to protect the family image and Dev's RP title. It would have been better to risk losing both than to chose what she did.
But most of all, there should at least be couple of episodes dedicated on Dev realizing the truth and having remorse. He should be shown realizing that he chose Dada's dreams over Radhika over and over again and in the end he lost Radhika not because of Rohan or Barkha but because of his own choices. Yes, they are culprits and need to be punished but in the end it is him who deprived Radhika of her rights and refused to see the truth that was staring him in his face. He chose to do adharam while holding a position that demands dharam from its holder. So he let down Radhika and his own value system. So show his remorse, repentence, grief, anger everythign.
I do want him to be angry at Barkha and punish her but she should not be the excuse for all his mistakes. They should not just give him one dialogue where he states that he trusted Barkha as a friend and she was a backstabber. She is but that is not the point in this track. If they are copying other serials, copy this part too where they show monologues and emotional scenes of their lead characters. That's how the ratings go up.
Both Avinash and Rubina are extremely capable actors and can deliver their best in such episodes. Please utilize them properly so that ratings can go up.
Edited by why6 - 14 years ago
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Misti ,loved ur coments...kahna is here...god acts slow but secure...he watches silently then decides to act...i see him coming for radh...

just this for today.dont have time to comment more...

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Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Thank you misti , your thoughts were pleasure to read today ...I totally agree with you ...Thanks Neerja.😉

Barkha has done good job on Dev , by convincing him that Radhika is insecure about him , then she is pretending to be caring and goody-goody before him..I think more than Barkha telling him it was his guilt that convinced him here..his guilt that he accepted the brahmins wishes with Barkha as his wife and hurt Radhika who kept quiet for the family, so it is easier for him to accept that Radhika is doing all this because she is insecure.. .Barkha did her best to convince him and Radhika believed only when she heard herself , even then she was in denial, It was Maheshwari who pointed her repeatedly , then she believed yes...Same is with Dev , when he will hear himself or will loose Radhika .yes. you have very well analyzed Dev ,s behavior today ...When Barkha saw Radhika accusing her and Dev listening quietly , she pretended to be in in pain and diverted Dev,s attention ...Yes you are right about Maheshwari ,how anyone will trust her because of her past deeds ...Barkha is with twisted mind knows how to twist the situation in her favoryes ...Saw the last part of repeat , if you look at Barkha , she very cleverly gave credit to Radhika for Dev then herself ...How anyone will doubt her ...Pragti Mehra was good , liked her in the last when she with authority spoke to Amba ..yes.Avinash Rubina both were brilliant ,Benaf is good in negative character ...Avinash and Rubina were good but no comment for Benaf.

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Originally posted by: chalhov

Misti liked yoour POV and thoughts'...thanks Chalhov😉

Its not Bholu running into a lamp post but a road roller and he has lost his bearings with Radhika though he is thinking he is acting politically correct he is doing all the wrong things and its not over he will again do that to Radhika and make BH kill Radhika as she will think Radhika is between her and DEv.The look today she had when Dev shouted was as if he is out of love with Radhika and in love with her😡...yes Bholu is doing things wrong because he does not want to accept certian things...as for Barkha she is in her delusional world...he did not shout because he placed Barkha beofre Rads but because he was angry at Rads for believing BB...he thinks BB has told her somethings...but Barkha is a psycho so she will believe wha she wants to believe...

Radhika will go away from him and he will be back to his painting and idol making and forget his flute yes .He deserves all that yes he does, he is not valuing what is there in front of him because of his upbrining but he will face the consequences... and all the revenge scenes which Angie will write as I am not good at it but one thing would be really good if Radhika is in front of him and is taking care of some other guy ignoring him and leaving him to BH and if he wants anything she can tell him to ask Bh and let her take rest and BH do everything from cooking to serving and everything and if Dai or Padma asks her anything let her tell them is ask Bh as she is sacrificing so much.😡 ouch ouch...ok...I get your point. poor Bholu...😭...

Radhika is getting her punishment for her wrong decision and Adharma as now she is the shield and she has asked God to give her all pain of Dev yes and Dev and all will get it when Radhika is no longer in Pb yes and this I want to see..Bh the psycho ruling these idiots. Bh I am doubtful as she is now the lead not only in the serial but also SBS and seeing CVs track record as in most shows only good wives seem to get punishment even their husbands go scot free. yes that is the track record lets see what they do here...

tomorrow also I feel Dev will get very angry and will think Radhika is at fault as he wont hear anything but will see Radhika slapping Bh. and maybe we will have the death scene as cliffhanger on friday.lets see...I will deal with it when they show it...

Forgot to write about BB part both Radhika and Dev have to realise no one is totally black or white so good people may act very bad at times and bad people may act good at times.Today Bh made BB look like a lamb.but BB will not sit quiet and will again do something.BB has realised that Barkha did something so she will not sit quietly...but the problem with BB is that she herself spoils her chances...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Misti for me they are actors who are doing their job at the end of the day ...Yes you get attached to some characters and feel bad when they do not act as you believe them to ...This is one of reason i love to read yours , Angie,s and others analysis ...Kind of you are analyzing a play with good, bad, ugly characters ...Sometimes negative characters bring forth the hidden qualities of positive characters ...Just have watched some show on SP in afternoon slot , this track appears to be replica of that show , there they have executed with reasoning ... Is Barkha mentally sick , where you are in your own make-believe world and gradually starts believing that ...
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oncer again a good analysis misti

indeed when i my self was in confusion in yesterday and todays episode my confusion was over by reading ur update , becoz u always gives us a correct analysis.

indeed dev said that he believe radh more than himself, but when coming to actions it was gone. during rohan time too he didn't belive radh and now in bharka time too. but thursday and friday will always be a cliffhanger in cb so i think may be the track change will happen today and tomorrow becoz, the new track suposed to be from next week according to article, well any way leave it.

so cv's remnded that kanha is there in the show. but we has to see for how long will they remain it. Kanha gave sishupaal 100 chances for mistakes, and didn't tolerate him after the 100 mistakes , here aso if ever this story is repeating and the sishupaal character was the great kanha devotee?????

dev didn't listened radh well its inded acceptable becoz, radh only first denid to believe of bharka whom she know from her childhood , then dev not believing her is well acceptable. afterall he is a bholu'.
liked proteting dev who denied to tell abt their quarrel infront f family. and bharka knew it becoz she was involved in it, if time comes and there is a secret quareel between dev and radh and rohan or any other pf member will dev let it know to bharka??????

will dev let radh down in the eyes of bharka???????

dev's actions arein one way acceptable where as in other way inacceptable, but what we know is dev wll one day have to repent for all he does, may be he loose radh or may he loose he himse; also, who knows.

comingto action its

- Rubina_10/10

Kanha-10/10(just wanna give it)

-Avinash-9.5/10

-Pragathi-7/10

Daaima6/10

Padma-4/10

-benaf-3/10

again bharka or benaf did a poor acting despite fo screen place. hope directors give some acting lessons to her especially n expressions.


if i come to chracter analysis its again radhika topping today

Radhika-10/10

bb-8.5/10

dev-7.5/10

daaima-6/10

bharka-3/10

today in my view b wa bette than dev, atleast she tried to use her brains which all the other pf failed to do so.

atleast they shuld have realised that it wasn't bb when bb accepted to call the polics and bharka stopped them from doing so.

becoz when bb was culprit and ddji decded to call police she falled on ddji feet with fake tears and asked for his forgive, why these pf memebers can't understand this, are ttheir brains gone to store room



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