Tazzi, Thanks for the positive thoughts :) The anger and agitation felt on Fri has reduced in me too.
Y'day i did post in some thread, about the other side of the events. Acc, to me, Dev took this decision out of fear -- fear that society would insult his only remaining family, loved one, Radhika. He didn't want that. He had always looked up to DDjee to guide him, but now he feels alone after DDjee and the only person he can seek love, support, guidance from is Rads. However, she herself is going against his belief (which was right). Recently there was a scene where Padma says that Dev's decision would make people point fingers at Rads indirectly. All these points made Dev weak at that point and although he wanted to take Rads' name, he ended up
taking Barkha's name.
He felt weak, was unguided and veered towards a wrong direction fearing the society, imagining the worst possibility that he would end up breaking DDjee's dream and also allow people to insult Rads!
In a calmed state, we all were able to think of these points. But my Frustration is still over the fact that probably many scenes of Dev were cut down (like the one with padma)...and indirectly people are drifting away from such a loved character. Plus, they are endorsing Adharm in the name of Dharm, by throwing the word 'dharm' in every other dialogue. Rads thanking the Lord to support her -- now why would Lord support adharm? Instead of Rads thinking that whatever she is doing is dharam, she should have confided to Kanha (inturn audience) that whatever is happening might not be dharm, but she HAS to do it, to abide by her promise. That would seem a little what more digestible. If the society can raise fingers once, why did they keep quiet when DDjee disclosed about Hari's past affairs. Shouldn't then the society be enraged for the RP had such big lies in his closet! That the RP re-married his much married son?
PF's characters (excluding RaDev) are really selfish and they take decisions based on that. But more clearer perspective of every character as to why they are doing certain things!
For me, more the character's decision, it was the way the subject was treated...made it horrible!