Mistis selective thoughts 26th august 2011 - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: instcris

Misti, a few thoughts, but accurate point. Bravo!
Me, I am also impressed with the Radhka's ardent prayer for healing of Dadaji. Her ask will be answered definitely by Ganha because Radhika has brought God's light in the house, it held its first religious service in his honor in front of the family. I wonder, why Dadaji considered as Radhika is not good as Choti Bahu, why not take the defense in front of that woman in judgment and before the priest is knowing how pure-hearted and honest? Why has tried to remove the Dev by Radhika! Dadaji Did not know that all are God's will and that what is written for well her faithfull, will happen?




Thankyou Cristina and thanks for the lovely poster. You do have the knack of chooosing the perfect expressions on Radhika and Dev's face for your creations. As for RP ...do you think he really cares for Gods will. He only cares for his image and has a big ego...he is not liking Radhika because he might have sensed that Radhika's goodness and her clear heart might stand in his way ...his need to control people's life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I too can't stand Barkha any longer. Hope she doesn't sit for muhdikhayi.Wish Dev doesn't agree. Loved RaDev part. Loved Dev when he said that he has promised that he would be with his wife through thick & thin.And I hope he stays with her like a shield & protect from all the madcap PF. Coming to daaima the less said the better.I'm starting to hate her more & more day by day.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: misti73

Thankyou Cristina and thanks for the lovely poster. You do have the knack of chooosing the perfect expressions on Radhika and Dev's face for your creations. As for RP ...do you think he really cares for Gods will. He only cares for his image and has a big ego...he is not liking Radhika because he might have sensed that Radhika's goodness and her clear heart might stand in his way ...his need to control people's life.


Misti i think his main problem is Radhika coming to house as fake wife , stayed there and society knew about it and then marrying the younger brother ,who kidnapped her ...I think anybody wll point the finger ...Earlier this thing did not come to his mind and was happy for both of them then first the pandit and again that lady pointing figure made him to think again ..He is old man with old time views , he has different perspective to see the things ...If you are RP , some public figure , people are going to talk about you ...I think above Radhika,s qualities were her plus point ...He just stepped back because of Public reaction ...Now is time Dev should come out with his childhood marriage ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks misti ... really dev was like a shield to rad enjoyed watchind radev part unbearable was barkha having all dialogues which should have been devs ... who is daima in that house?????? suddenly she has an upper hand next in priority to dj ... since the start of show she nods her head sudden change in her and that precap was too much even padma stands at the back of her not able to speak in front of her it was not like that before padma jst had respect for daima ... she can predict who will bless them but will not accept that kanha made the marriage happpen inspite of the hurdles... even after barkha has told the truth that the fault is hers no one is changing their views abt rad
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiHa24

great thought misti.

read the update and came to know that i didnt even watch the 2nd part properly.
I wish the dialogues of Dharma, society were spoken by Dev.😕
but surprising Dev supporting( i mean defending) Barkha?😲

not much in todays episode, and dont want to talk too.


but i get the clue that who is the one sitting under the ghunghat this time.

Thanks NiHa for responding. Anyway lets see what next week holds for us...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I never expected this of Daima, I thought of all people she would understand Dev and Radhika but instead she is obsessed with RP. RP never worried about Radhika, all he thought about was society and his family's reputation, it was never about Radhika. Daima is obsessed with RP and is his blind follower...her first loyalty is with RP. Most probably she only brought up Dev as a duty and not out of love for a helpless child...and now Dev due to Radhika is questioning that duty of hers...hence she is lashing out.
I am very disappointed that this has become the Barkha show, too much focus has been put on her character. This should be Dev and Radhika's fight, instead Barkha continues to take centre stage.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I too can't stand Barkha any longer. Hope she doesn't sit for muhdikhayi.Wish Dev doesn't agree. Loved RaDev part. Loved Dev when he said that he has promised that he would be with his wife through thick & thin.And I hope he stays with her like a shield & protect from all the madcap PF. Coming to daaima the less said the better.I'm starting to hate her more & more day by day.

RaDev part was very good...specially Dev saying that he will be with his Radhika...then hoping that his childhood dada is still there for him, who might be shocked now but will stand by him when he realises the reality...Dev is also in a shock...liked Radhika a lot yesterday.She is slowly breaking apart but still is focussed on getting dada well, also liked her fury at Barkha...and as a character I liked the grey Padma (also like Sushmita). As for dai I was expecting this from her...she is now feeling angry that Dev is choosing someone else over her teachings and loyalty towards RP hence her lashing out.Now regarding what will happen in future, I am leaving it to the creatives and will comment after I have seen the episode.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neerjaa


Misti i think his main problem is Radhika coming to house as fake wife , stayed there and society knew about it and then marrying the younger brother ,who kidnapped her ...I think anybody wll point the finger ...Earlier this thing did not come to his mind and was happy for both of them then first the pandit and again that lady pointing figure made him to think again ..He is old man with old time views , he has different perspective to see the things ...If you are RP , some public figure , people are going to talk about you .I think above Radhika,s qualities were her plus point ...He just stepped back because of Public reaction ...Now is time Dev should come out with his childhood marriage ...

Neerja I don't think anyone is aware of the kidnapping part. The family hid that part from the outer world to protect their image and Dev also did not bring it up later on to most probably protect radhika. As for society, RP cares for his image in the society more than the society itself. He has certain ideals as to how things should be run and like all idealist he has fallen in love with hose ideals and has left the reasons which gave birth to those ideals far behind. His image in society is linked to those ideals of his...when he had to tell everyone the truth about Dev's parentage at that point he had to choose between society and his ideals or the image that people have of him related to those ideals and he chose his ideals above everything else, his ideals about who should be the perfect RP. If it had been society then he would have kept quiet. Infact he even said that because of the RP issue he has been forced to let others know who Dev really is. Regarding Chaya and Padma, he wanted Hari to again marry Padma because most probably Padma matches his ideals of a perfect RPtian, if it had been society for him, again he would not have got his married son to marry again. It is the same with Radhika...now Radhika is not only not matching upto his ideals but is also stopping his fav grandson from following his grandfathers ideals. Seeing Padma and his liking of Barkha most probably his idea of an ideal RPtian is someone who is not that strong and will do what she is told to do and will leave the main work to the husband who also should follow RP'S ideals and not his own. Hari was like that and Dev was trained from childhood bu Amba for that but now with Radhika around Dev is revolting. Just watch RP's reactions to Devs arguments on Thursdays episode. They have the start of an interesting track, this ideological warfare between RP and Dev, now it is on the makers whether they will stick to it or divert to some other stuff..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: misti73


Neerja I don't think anyone is aware of the kidnapping part. The family hid that part from the outer world to protect their image and Dev also did not bring it up later on to most probably protect radhika. As for society, RP cares for his image in the society more than the society itself. He has certain ideals as to how things should be run and like all idealist he has fallen in love with hose ideals and has left the reasons which gave birth to those ideals far behind. His image in society is linked to those ideals of his...when he had to tell everyone the truth about Dev's parentage at that point he had to choose between society and his ideals or the image that people have of him related to those ideals and he chose his ideals above everything else, his ideals about who should be the perfect RP. If it had been society then he would have kept quiet. Infact he even said that because of the RP issue he has been forced to let others know who Dev really is. Regarding Chaya and Padma, he wanted Hari to again marry Padma because most probably Padma matches his ideals of a perfect RPtian, if it had been society for him, again he would not have got his married son to marry again. It is the same with Radhika...now Radhika is not only not matching upto his ideals but is also stopping his fav grandson from following his grandfathers ideals. Seeing Padma and his liking of Barkha most probably his idea of an ideal RPtian is someone who is not that strong and will do what she is told to do and will leave the main work to the husband who also should follow RP'S ideals and not his own. Hari was like that and Dev was trained from childhood bu Amba for that but now with Radhika around Dev is revolting. Just watch RP's reactions to Devs arguments on Thursdays episode. They have the start of an interesting track, this ideological warfare between RP and Dev, now it is on the makers whether they will stick to it or divert to some other stuff..

The PF is expert in hiding their own misdeeds. That's why Dev's kidnapping was not disclosed. Radhika and Dev are not disclosing it as they are trying to protect each other.

But PF is not disclosing it to protect their own reputation. Just as RP didn't disclose Maheswari's crimes and then chose to keep silent about Rohan. When the priest questioned him, he could have easily told about Rohan's actions. But he chose to keep quiet and instead just told him to believe that the marriage with Radhika didn't happen. So that's why all the characterless charges are just heaped on Radhika with people assuming that she did get married but fell for Dev after her marriage with Rohan and hence is denying the marriage.

Anyway, I liked yesterday's scene in Dada's room where Dev is telling Radhika of his childhood memories for several reasons. First of all, Dev was also in shock because he hadn't expected Dada to react like this despite all his disapproval. He obviously wasn't aware that Dada is the one who brainwashed Radhika to the extent that she refused this marriage. So his remembering that incident was also to assure himself that Dada would in the end be with Dev. Despite what he did to Chaya and Dev (Dada in any case expressed a lot of regret and showed that he did it against his wishes), he did come through for Dev in that rajtilak ceremony where Dev was going to be publicly humiliated.

I liked the memory too because it reinforces that Dai and Padma were just caretakers of Dev. It was not Padma or even Dai who sat all night with Dev when he was sick. If either of them were Yasoda maiya, they would have done that. Instead it was Dada who sat with Dev. Now this was before the prophecy. So Dada cared for Dev regardless of whether Dev wasn't going to be RP or not.

So I liked this scene as it shows RP as a complex person - hypocrite but capable of deep love even though that love comes with expectations and is flawed. He did favor Dev among all his grandsons and they showed that before the leap. It is another thing that he probably favored Dev because Dev had the qualities that Dada lacks - compassion, cultural values and true sense of dharam. This complex Dada and complex grandson Dev who do love each other deeply make better adversaries than any triangle story. This is the same reason that Rohan and Dev were better adversaries than Dev and Virat (who is nothing).

So instead of fake wife, this track can be extremely interesting if they show a clash between Dev and Dada as Misti mentioned. Dada already dislikes this apparent hold of Radhika on Dev and he is not able to break it because it is not only based on spiritual relationship but also because Radhika is basically has this light and goodness to which Dev is attracted. That's why he solely chose to blame Radhika rather than other two players in the whole drama - Dev and Barkha. Radhika is the only one he rejected (had no problem putting his head in Dev's lap) and he knows that it would hurt Radhika to the core.

So the interesting track would be that instead of rejecting the RP title, Dev does stake his claim on it based on the will which won't be changed by Dada (as it is based on the prophecy). Dada can misunderstand Dev's reaction as being ambitious as well as getting his love. Since Dev and Radhika are supposed to be RP and RPtain, they can't be goody two shoes all the time (no leader ever is including Kanha). They have to take decisions that they believe are right even if they hurt their loved ones. Let Dada keep Rohan on his side to check Dev and let Dev fight his own battles alongside Radhika. Padma as a grey character is a perfect foil (she can be like Gandhari who was basically a good person but had her insecurities and weakness for her own blood). These five characters - Dev, Radhika, Dada, Rohan and Padma along with more one-dimensional characters like Mohini, Virat and Maheswari make an interesting story. The story doesn't need Barkha at all. On the other side they have Mansa family that may be weak but play an important role because of their connection to Radhika.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks Misti for pointing out , i agree with you , but i can not understand this man,s ideology...If he really cared for the society , would not have washed his dirty linen in the public and it also tarnish his image ...How can you force a married man to marry again and that also in the name of Dharam ...Then you bring that new-born baby with you leaving behind mother to fend herself ...I have seen people in that age who are imprisoned in their own make believe world of ideals , not caring who are hurt ...its not easy to change them ...Yes Dev is opposite to his father not submissive , that must be shock to him ...But somewhere Radhika is like Chhaya , for her Dev comes first , will do anything to save Dev,s honor ..Then why RP is against Radhika..If he is talking about ideals then how can you accept a girl who lied and in a way cheated him ...She may be right for Dev Radhika as she wanted both of them together , for her point of view she did good deed thinking Dev is strong and will handle the situation ...Infact RP has very twisted definition of Dharam-adharam ...It was never made clear what was the reason behind Hari,s second marriage ...Creatives have such a good plot , different from others , just needs to be clear on the issues and that needs dialogues to give your thoughts ...I do not have any objections with supporting actors as they are needed to progress the story , but needs to have balance , its not 2-3 hours movie,...

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