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Posted: 12 years ago
#61
Really nice post, esp for those that need to read it & learn from it👏

However all SaRun fans are not like that..I am a Sanaya and Barun fan and I never ever wished ill for CC 😳 Nor would I ever. And I don't have problems with her acting with other co-stars.

That being said, some of the criticism posted in this forum was not only based on insecurities and jealousy. Some of them actually had some points to make but I do agree that a large portion of fans that don't even watch the show just showed up and made a mess of things. But like I said and Fari said, there are many SaRun fans that share our sentiments. 😳

Also I think it's a bit extreme to think that SaRun fans want the show to end. Actually I talk to a lot of BS and Sarun fans and none of them wished this. I just don't like how some CC fans automatically think negatively about them. Yes there were some people that wished this but that was a few. There are some nutcases in every fandom.😆Even in this thread itself, I see sarcastic remarks about BS.

So this was a really nice thread esp for those who really needed it but just wished you had not included all SaRun fans in the tag and all SaRun fans def don't want this show to end. I love Sarun more than anything but I am enjoying Chanman romance😳

Oh btw you are Yamz! I knew you from long back, I'm Aishi. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: princessunara


what is this?
why undermine such a good and sensible post u posted otherwise with this pot shot? sigh.. i agree to ur every point except this one..
no matter who does it its wrong.. its not a crime to want to explore new avenues. no1 should mock it..
what would u feel, or in fact how hurt r u feeling with the way some people r mocking Sanaya?
it hurts just as much when its done on Barun too.

pls don't do it.
u love Sanaya, and she wouldn't appreciate u for telling this in a mocking way about her close friend.


I was just gonna say this Sunara👏 This was actually a really sensible post in the CC forum, but then when BS gets mocked like this..what makes this different from what this post is trying to teach?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#63
Yeah Aishi, its me Yamz 😆

I know you as well. Im sorry i didnt mean this for all SaRun fans, but yes i did mean it for most of them. Why on earth would they want the show to end? Its unfair for the actors, just because they want to see one actor with Sanaya, like i said earlier, others should be given a fair chance too.

Anyway, thanks for liking my post. 🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: KiShaholic.

Yeah Aishi, its me Yamz 😆


I know you as well. Im sorry i didnt mean this for all SaRun fans, but yes i did mean it for most of them. Why on earth would they want the show to end? Its unfair for the actors, just because they want to see one actor with Sanaya, like i said earlier, others should be given a fair chance too.

Anyway, thanks for liking my post. 🤗


No problem🤗
Yaar please don't say most😳 I don't want Sarun fans to get this tag, it hurts when you are one. I know there was a handful but there are many more sane ones, trust me😳
And honestly I think it's ridiculous that people would bash SaNuj but I think it was because grudges do carry. Some of the forum members here bashed BS mercilessly after IPK ended (& i see them acting totally innocent). And I'm definitely not saying that a wrong makes a right but I just want to say that no fandom is the bad one and no fandom is the good one. It's just that people need to learn to stop mocking others and accepting actors for whatever they do :)




Edited by Mrs.MuffinSobti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#65
*cracks knuckles* here we go. Aish, thank you dear, for bringing me to such a nice post.

1st, and foremost, I'll say I do not watch CC regularly. I watch a few scenes here and there and the SBS segments at times. This, is NOT because I refuse to watch Sanaya without Barun, but because I genuinely do not find the show as interesting as I found her previous show and other shows on television. I gave CC a shot, tried it for a few months and once Uma Ben revealed her secret intentions after being released from the hospital, I decided my patience ended there.

I am critical of the show, as I was for IPK as well. I DID think the rain sequence was cheesy, but was it because I hate Anuj? Absolutely not. It's because I genuinely felt that, just like I thought the hut scene in IPK was terrible.

But that being said, Sanaya is an adult. She is old and mature and enough to know if she should leave the show or not. We aren't her fairy god mothers to dictate what is right or wrong. If she is continuing on CC, she is a 30 year old woman, and I'm sure there is reasoning behind her decision.

2nd. (I copy pasted this from another post, apologies)
I am a SaRun fan, but it does not limit my perspective and my outlook to wish that Sanaya's show tanks. They are professionals. They are actors. And while I love and admire the jodi, as a true fan, I respect them both for their personal and individual decisions in their careers, though, as an onlooker, I can become a bit critical at times. I only want the best for the two of them, to see them progress and develop and grow with time.

Never would I want Barun to sit idle waiting for CC to finish or Sanaya finding herself unable to perform to the level of IPK to keep SaRun eternal. That is silly and disturbingly absurd. I want them to touch the heights of success with their work, but again, no matter how talented they get, nothing will ever replace their roles as Arnav and Khushi in my heart.

Of course, as a fan of their jodi, I still believe their chemistry is unbeatable, and I will not deny that I truly DO want to see them back. But no chemistry should hinder in the way of their work and their future. When the time is right, I would LOVE to see how things unravel for them... and perhaps, if we are lucky, I would like to see them together sharing the screen again.

3rd. (again, copy pasted)
I understand people's zeal to see SaRun together, as I too truly wish the same for the future. But to sabotage their careers and to hinder their development in the industry JUST so we can see them together again is simply absurd.

Sanaya knows what she is doing, and she seems content on her sets. True, CC may not be the sets of IPK. The cast members on IPK were a family; it is undeniable. And in the worst case scenario, let's assume the "intuitions" are right-- maybe she isn't as happy on the sets of CC as she was on IPK. Fine, let's take it to be true.

But we all know that she cannot wait idly around for the previous cast to reassemble. Barun quit because he had to do what he had to do. She has done the same. Sanaya is in CC because she is an ACTRESS and acting is a job. Sometimes we lose a job we find perfect and we move on to one which may not seem to be as perfectly ideal-- it's okay. It's a part of life. Maybe CC doesn't have the highest TRPS. It's fine. Sanaya doesn't seem too bothered. All people, all companies, no matter how wonderful they are, everyone sees highs and lows. Look at the stock prices of Apple today! They are the best company for electronics and computers out there, but they've seen better days... IT HAPPENS. They'll pull up their socks and they'll make it through, as will Sanaya.

No one is forcing her here. It's best people understand that and let these actors flourish. Maybe, and hopefully, in the future when the time is right, Sarun will return when they are established and secure.

4th, and I think most importantly.
I can assure you dear, as Aish said, the SaRun fans of which you speak are NOT the majority. Every fan group has loonies, be it Barun's "solo" fans or Sanaya's. You'll find, many of us will agree with your post. Many of us DO want the best for the two of them. Please don't lump people into stereotypical groups. I admire this post and agree with it 100%, though. God bless.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aamir18

*cracks knuckles* here we go. Aish, thank you dear, for bringing me to such a nice post.


1st, and foremost, I'll say I do not watch CC regularly. I watch a few scenes here and there and the SBS segments at times. This, is NOT because I refuse to watch Sanaya without Barun, but because I genuinely do not find the show as interesting as I found her previous show and other shows on television. I gave CC a shot, tried it for a few months and once Uma Ben revealed her secret intentions after being released from the hospital, I decided my patience ended there.

I am critical of the show, as I was for IPK as well. I DID think the rain sequence was cheesy, but was it because I hate Anuj? Absolutely not. It's because I genuinely felt that, just like I thought the hut scene in IPK was terrible.

But that being said, Sanaya is an adult. She is old and mature and enough to know if she should leave the show or not. We aren't her fairy god mothers to dictate what is right or wrong. If she is continuing on CC, she is a 30 year old woman, and I'm sure there is reasoning behind her decision.

2nd. (I copy pasted this from another post, apologies)
I am a SaRun fan, but it does not limit my perspective and my outlook to wish that Sanaya's show tanks. They are professionals. They are actors. And while I love and admire the jodi, as a true fan, I respect them both for their personal and individual decisions in their careers, though, as an onlooker, I can become a bit critical at times. I only want the best for the two of them, to see them progress and develop and grow with time.

Never would I want Barun to sit idle waiting for CC to finish or Sanaya finding herself unable to perform to the level of IPK to keep SaRun eternal. That is silly and disturbingly absurd. I want them to touch the heights of success with their work, but again, no matter how talented they get, nothing will ever replace their roles as Arnav and Khushi in my heart.

Of course, as a fan of their jodi, I still believe their chemistry is unbeatable, and I will not deny that I truly DO want to see them back. But no chemistry should hinder in the way of their work and their future. When the time is right, I would LOVE to see how things unravel for them... and perhaps, if we are lucky, I would like to see them together sharing the screen again.

3rd. (again, copy pasted)
I understand people's zeal to see SaRun together, as I too truly wish the same for the future. But to sabotage their careers and to hinder their development in the industry JUST so we can see them together again is simply absurd.

Sanaya knows what she is doing, and she seems content on her sets. True, CC may not be the sets of IPK. The cast members on IPK were a family; it is undeniable. And in the worst case scenario, let's assume the "intuitions" are right-- maybe she isn't as happy on the sets of CC as she was on IPK. Fine, let's take it to be true.

But we all know that she cannot wait idly around for the previous cast to reassemble. Barun quit because he had to do what he had to do. She has done the same. Sanaya is in CC because she is an ACTRESS and acting is a job. Sometimes we lose a job we find perfect and we move on to one which may not seem to be as perfectly ideal-- it's okay. It's a part of life. Maybe CC doesn't have the highest TRPS. It's fine. Sanaya doesn't seem too bothered. All people, all companies, no matter how wonderful they are, everyone sees highs and lows. Look at the stock prices of Apple today! They are the best company for electronics and computers out there, but they've seen better days... IT HAPPENS. They'll pull up their socks and they'll make it through, as will Sanaya.

No one is forcing her here. It's best people understand that and let these actors flourish. Maybe, and hopefully, in the future when the time is right, Sarun will return when they are established and secure.

4th, and I think most importantly.
I can assure you dear, as Aish said, the SaRun fans of which you speak are NOT the majority. Every fan group has loonies, be it Barun's "solo" fans or Sanaya's. You'll find, many of us will agree with your post. Many of us DO want the best for the two of them. Please don't lump people into stereotypical groups. I admire this post and agree with it 100%, though. God bless.


Amen to the underlined Zitni👏
And the rest :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mrs.MuffinSobti


I was just gonna say this Sunara👏 This was actually a really sensible post in the CC forum, but then when BS gets mocked like this..what makes this different from what this post is trying to teach?


Sunara, Aishi,

Very well said. 👏 I agree with both of you.

Edited by incandescent - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: Mrs.MuffinSobti


Amen to the underlined Zitni👏
And the rest :)


sigh., unfortunately the crazier ones give the entire fandom a bad name..they r more vocal than neutral or positive ones and thus r seen to be as the representation of the fandom itself..

i know quite a lot of SaRun fans who have come to quite adore SaNuj..And at the same time I do know a lot of SaRun fans who turn no step unturned to make every moment a mess and create havoc..insult, act as if they r god..etc etc..

there is something or someone that is leading the pack. Someone who is NOT posting openly at all.. i wish i knew who it was. Most younger SaRun fans r simply pawns to be used and manipulated where in the name of love they dictate to satisfy someone's selfish needs..🥱

anyway hehe Aishi, Zitni n Fari see the 4 of us r the ONLY vocal ones who do not get slotted (
sigh though even we seem to get branded after the past few days)..this is what i am talking about... anyway good to get to talk to u guys here too after last night over there :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: aamir18

*cracks knuckles* here we go. Aish, thank you dear, for bringing me to such a nice post.


1st, and foremost, I'll say I do not watch CC regularly. I watch a few scenes here and there and the SBS segments at times. This, is NOT because I refuse to watch Sanaya without Barun, but because I genuinely do not find the show as interesting as I found her previous show and other shows on television. I gave CC a shot, tried it for a few months and once Uma Ben revealed her secret intentions after being released from the hospital, I decided my patience ended there.

I am critical of the show, as I was for IPK as well. I DID think the rain sequence was cheesy, but was it because I hate Anuj? Absolutely not. It's because I genuinely felt that, just like I thought the hut scene in IPK was terrible.

But that being said, Sanaya is an adult. She is old and mature and enough to know if she should leave the show or not. We aren't her fairy god mothers to dictate what is right or wrong. If she is continuing on CC, she is a 30 year old woman, and I'm sure there is reasoning behind her decision.

2nd. (I copy pasted this from another post, apologies)
I am a SaRun fan, but it does not limit my perspective and my outlook to wish that Sanaya's show tanks. They are professionals. They are actors. And while I love and admire the jodi, as a true fan, I respect them both for their personal and individual decisions in their careers, though, as an onlooker, I can become a bit critical at times. I only want the best for the two of them, to see them progress and develop and grow with time.

Never would I want Barun to sit idle waiting for CC to finish or Sanaya finding herself unable to perform to the level of IPK to keep SaRun eternal. That is silly and disturbingly absurd. I want them to touch the heights of success with their work, but again, no matter how talented they get, nothing will ever replace their roles as Arnav and Khushi in my heart.

Of course, as a fan of their jodi, I still believe their chemistry is unbeatable, and I will not deny that I truly DO want to see them back. But no chemistry should hinder in the way of their work and their future. When the time is right, I would LOVE to see how things unravel for them... and perhaps, if we are lucky, I would like to see them together sharing the screen again.

3rd. (again, copy pasted)
I understand people's zeal to see SaRun together, as I too truly wish the same for the future. But to sabotage their careers and to hinder their development in the industry JUST so we can see them together again is simply absurd.

Sanaya knows what she is doing, and she seems content on her sets. True, CC may not be the sets of IPK. The cast members on IPK were a family; it is undeniable. And in the worst case scenario, let's assume the "intuitions" are right-- maybe she isn't as happy on the sets of CC as she was on IPK. Fine, let's take it to be true.

But we all know that she cannot wait idly around for the previous cast to reassemble. Barun quit because he had to do what he had to do. She has done the same. Sanaya is in CC because she is an ACTRESS and acting is a job. Sometimes we lose a job we find perfect and we move on to one which may not seem to be as perfectly ideal-- it's okay. It's a part of life. Maybe CC doesn't have the highest TRPS. It's fine. Sanaya doesn't seem too bothered. All people, all companies, no matter how wonderful they are, everyone sees highs and lows. Look at the stock prices of Apple today! They are the best company for electronics and computers out there, but they've seen better days... IT HAPPENS. They'll pull up their socks and they'll make it through, as will Sanaya.

No one is forcing her here. It's best people understand that and let these actors flourish. Maybe, and hopefully, in the future when the time is right, Sarun will return when they are established and secure.

4th, and I think most importantly.
I can assure you dear, as Aish said, the SaRun fans of which you speak are NOT the majority. Every fan group has loonies, be it Barun's "solo" fans or Sanaya's. You'll find, many of us will agree with your post. Many of us DO want the best for the two of them. Please don't lump people into stereotypical groups. I admire this post and agree with it 100%, though. God bless.



Z, very well said. 👏👏👏

I agree with every word.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay, I'm going to say this and I'm going to feel really creepy, but oh well.
I know there's SaRun fans out there. I do. But I know the sane ones have left this forum and prefer to just stay away.

I have always felt like the three of you (and maybe a couple more) are the ONLY ones I can understand on this entire website and share my POV almost exactly... maybe cause I'm newer on IF and have like no buddies here 😆 I feel like a creepy person that stalks posts, but genuinely, whenever I see something written by the three of you I want to fist pump and scream "YES. SANITY IS EXISTENT" 😆

And of course outside of Sarun fans, there is always Anu as well. Even though she is a fan of only one actor, I love how accepting and practical she is. She knows I'm a Sarun fan, but she treats me like any other "solo" fan on the forum--- realizes I love the actor just as much.

Originally posted by: princessunara


anyway hehe Aishi, Zitni n Fari see the 4 of us r the ONLY vocal ones who do not get slotted (
sigh though even we seem to get branded after the past few days)..this is what i am talking about... anyway good to get to talk to u guys here too after last night over there :)

Edited by aamir18 - 12 years ago

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