In defense of the Ben who became a Bane...

It is often said if you have it flaunt it. Uma Ben just did the same..She flaunted the most powerful of all assets-being rich and influential... Like any other lady she loves to be the centre of attention, the dealmaker, problem solver. The means are not important but the results...Her benevolence did manage to get Purvi her prasad,a groom...never mind if the bridegroom's family is a little greedy, after all in the long run everything will come to the DIL of the house.. the new bride will become saas jo kabhi bahu thi... Uma Ben does have the foresight that the younger generation lacks after all..

All she wants is a little appreciation for her efforts in being a help like any other woman ...She does wish for the Almighty to shower his blessings on all without differentiation but start the good work with her. She has everyone's well being in her heart so she can at least wish for this. Sethani wants to break bread with people who are of the same social strata as her..It is not a crime to be part of a group that u are most comfortable with.

Uma Ben is a lady little behind the times with her thoughts.. she just needs thoda gyan to understand that Purvi's inlaws will not be satisfied with 25 lacs as a one time dowry. They are hungry to fleece the bride 's family of all they posses.And if given into their demands Purvi can land up dead.

Uma Ben might fret at loosing the position of being the main benefactor of bailing out Purvi's family but she will take it in her stride .. as there are other acts of goodness that need her able guidance.